"You're the dean now, so you don't recognize me?
In 2015, in front of a hospital in Changsha, a 66-year-old aunt yelled at the man in front of her, but the man remained indifferent.
Just because 38 years ago, because she disliked her husband's ugly appearance, she abandoned her husband and her husband's similar-looking son, and went away with her daughter.
And now that she learned that her son had become the director of the hospital, she came to seek it hard, so did she finally get her wish?
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1. Enlist the help of a journalist
This aunt's name is Mao Yingzhi, and everything starts from the day she decided to recognize her son Shen Yining.
In 2015, Mao Yingzhi's daughter had already married, and most of the time she was just alone, watching other people's children and children surrounded by children and grandchildren, so she couldn't control her son's thoughts anymore, so she decided to recognize her son.
However, this was clearly rejected by her daughter, and in desperation, she could only secretly contact the reporter when she was old, hoping to get the reporter's help.
In the face of reporters, Mao Yingzhi also seemed to have found an outlet, saying that for so many years, in fact, she has been secretly missing her son, and abandoning her son back then was actually a last resort.
At that time, her family was poor, her economic conditions could not support her to raise two children, and her daughter was young, her husband Shen Guanghuan was still a man, and it was inconvenient to take care of a girl, so she had no choice but to abandon her son and take away her daughter.
Saying that, she also took out a small box from under the bed, Mao Yingzhi said that it contained her son's clothes when he was a child, and over the years, as long as he missed his son, he would take out his son's clothes to see, speaking of which, Mao Yingzhi couldn't cry anymore.
The reporter was moved by Mao Yingzhi, so he decided to do his best to help Mao Yingzhi find his son, under Mao Yingzhi's memories, the reporter quickly led Mao Yingzhi to their hometown where they lived before, but time has changed, this place has long been a ruin, and in desperation, they can only leave.
Later, did they find Mao Yingzhi's son?
2. Find the son's clues
Just when the reporter and Mao Yingzhi wanted to leave, they suddenly noticed that someone was coming next to them, so the reporter asked them about Shen Guanghuan and his son Shen Yining.
And those people talked about Shen Yining, and they praised Shen Yining for being a promising, through hard work, he was admitted to a key university, and after graduation, he even entered a hospital, and now he is the president of the hospital.
Under the reporter's inquiry, they planned to go to the hospital to look for Shen Yining, but they were stopped by another group of people who came on, it turned out that among this wave of people, there was Shen Guanghuan's own sister, she hurried after learning that someone inquired about her brother.
And when Shen Guanghuan's sister learned that Mao Yingzhi came to recognize her relatives and wanted to find her son, she was very angry and scolded Mao Yingzhi for being a demon who used to treat her husband and son cruelly, how can she have the face to recognize her relatives now?
Then Shen Guanghuan's sister said Mao Yingzhi's crime, it turned out that in those years, Mao Yingzhi worked hard to "do" in order to divorce, and he was obsessed with spending money every day, not only spent all the family's savings, but also owed 1,000 yuan in foreign debt.
And the food she bought went into her own and her daughter's stomachs, and her husband and son could only go hungry, and even their clothes were in tatters, and then Shen Guanghuan's sister said a lot of Mao Yingzhi's evil deeds.
This can't help but make the reporter curious, when Mao Yingzhi was asking for help before, she cried heartbreakingly, which was moving, was everything she said fake?
3. Mao Yingzhi met her ex-husband
Then the reporter came to the hospital where Shen Yining was, but was told by the hospital that Shen Yining was resting today, and under the communication of the reporter, they obtained Shen Yining's contact information, so the reporter called Shen Yining, but Shen Yining hung up the phone directly after learning the reporter's intentions.
Then the reporter kept trying to contact Shen Yining, and Shen Yining finally agreed to meet at a restaurant near the hospital, and an hour later, Shen Yining arrived with his father Shen Guanghuan.
Mao Yingzhi and Shen Guanghuan had a fierce quarrel as soon as they met, both sides angrily accused each other of ruining their lives, Mao Yingzhi said that after the two divorced, in fact, she remarried, and remarried twice, but all ended without a problem, all of which blamed Shen Guanghuan.
Mao Yingzhi kept crying, "You ruined me, ruined me", it turned out that after the two divorced, Shen Guanghuan held a grudge, no matter where Mao Yingzhi married, Shen Guanghuan would take the trouble to harass their lives, resulting in Mao Ying's next two marriages also ending without a problem.
In the face of Mao Yingzhi's rebuke, Shen Guanghuan looked calm, he said, how can he not hate? After the two got married, the family was also wealthy and had small assets, but after marriage, Mao Yingzhi kept doing it, even if it was not good for himself, especially for his son.
After that, Shen Guanghuan also took out two broken bowls, saying that Mao Yingzhi spent all the money in the family back then, and in order to repay the debt, the family sold all their assets, and even the poor family didn't even have the money to buy new dishes and chopsticks, so they kept eating with broken bowls.
Speaking of the reason for the divorce of the two, Shen Guanghuan said that in fact, the divorce of the two has another secret at all, it is not that Mao Yingzhi dislikes him for being ugly, the two have lived for so many years, and they have long since left to dislike ugliness, not to mention that after giving birth to two children, in fact, the two divorced, Mao Yingzhi has another secret at all.
4. Refusal to recognize relatives
Saying that, Shen Guanghuan lifted his trouser leg, only to see that there was a big scar on his knee, it turned out that Shen Guanghuan had osteomyelitis due to work back then, and it hurt as long as he worked hard, which also caused Shen Guanghuan to be unable to go out to work to earn money, and the same is true, Mao Yingzhi disliked that he couldn't make money, so he divorced himself, Shen Guanghuan also said that Mao Yingzhi was essentially a selfish person, and he would not agree to his son's recognition of his relatives at all.
And as soon as she said this, Mao Yingzhi became angry, she thought that her son was now old and could make his own decisions, and she didn't need to listen to him as a father at all, Mao Yingzhi kept urging her son to recognize herself.
But Shen Guanghuan pulled his son away, he didn't listen to Mao Yingzhi at all, there was no way, Mao Yingzhi could only follow closely, keep talking, trying to make his son recognize himself, but his son just didn't speak for a long time, Mao Yingzhi was angry, and scolded his son for being a white-eyed wolf and denying his mother.
Seeing Shen Guanghuan and his son walking farther and farther away, and no one was seen, Mao Yingzhi could only return home, coincidentally, after Mao Yingzhi returned home, he found that his daughter Mao Tingting was also at home, Mao Tingting saw her mother followed by a few reporters, and she couldn't help but ask curiously.
After learning that her mother had gone to recognize her relatives and had not yet recognized her, Mao Tingting was furious and scolded her mother, "You deserve it, let you not admit that you are deceived and have to admit it, what is good about Shen Guanghuan and Shen Yining"?
This remark aroused the reporter's curiosity, why did Mao Tingting have such a bad attitude towards her father and eldest brother, and she didn't even call them by name, but by their names?
5. Agree to the consultation
Mao Tingting pulled the reporter aside and said that Shen Guanghuan was not worthy of being a father at all, in fact, she was full of gratitude to Shen Guanghuan at the beginning, because although her parents were divorced, Shen Guanghuan had also given her money over the years, and she remembered all the money one by one, totaling 2,820 yuan.
But in the first year of Mao Tingting's work, Shen Guanghuan found her and said that she wanted her to repay the money she had given her over the years, totaling 5,000 yuan, Mao Tingting retorted that she had just joined the work and didn't have that much money at all, and Shen Guanghuan had given her less than 5,000 yuan over the years.
In the end, the two negotiated and decided that Mao Tingting would give Shen Guanghuan 4,000 yuan, and then the two had no relationship and no money, so Mao Tingting could only borrow money from her colleagues, and finally scraped together enough 4,000 yuan to give Shen Guanghuan, so far, Mao Tingting decided to cut off relations with Shen Guanghuan and Shen Yining.
When the reporter heard this, he couldn't help sighing, a good family, it has to be like this, but Mao Yingzhi's appeal must be resolved, in desperation, the reporter had to contact Shen Yining, hoping that he could have a good talk with Mao Yingzhi, and in the end, Shen Yining finally agreed to the reporter's request, but he said that he wanted to see the reporter first.
6. Reasons for marriage
After seeing the reporter again, Shen Yining also said his thoughts, in his heart, Mao Yingzhi is a demon, because of Mao Yingzhi, the family is scattered, not only that, because of Mao Yingzhi's "work", the family owes a lot of foreign debts, his childhood is miserable, as soon as he sees Mao Yingzhi, he thinks of his miserable childhood, which is an untouchable scar, and he doesn't want to mention it at all.
But despite this, he is still willing to provide for Mao Yingzhi in the future, and when she can't move or is sick in the future, he can take care of her, but there is no need to meet her normally.
The reporter informed Mao Yingzhi of Shen Yining's thoughts, and after Mao Yingzhi heard it, he just sighed and didn't say anything more, and then, under the reporter's arrangement, the mother and son finally got together for a meal.
Although Shen Yining didn't say a word during this meal, she was already very satisfied with Mao Yingzhi, and then the reporter couldn't help asking, why did Mao Yingzhi marry Shen Guanghuan in the first place?
7. Conclusion
Mao Yingzhi said that her family was poor back then, and she had a younger brother, and her parents married her to Shen Guanghuan, who had a good family at the time, for the sake of her younger brother's marriage, but at that time she felt that Shen Guanghuan was ugly and unworthy of her at all, and she resisted.
But she couldn't resist her parents, and finally married Shen Guanghuan, she thought that after a long time, the old people came over like this, but after giving birth to two children, Mao Yingzhi still felt that she didn't like Shen Guanghuan at all, so she always wanted to divorce.
In the end, although she divorced as she wished, no one in the family could get used to it, I don't know if Mao Yingzhi regrets it now?
Bibliography:
Documentary "Mother in the Township for 38 Years Waiting for You to Call Mom"