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Text丨Xingyue
Editor丨Xingyue
I have two daughters, the eldest daughter is married to a person with a very ordinary family, while the second daughter is different, married to a rich family, and life can be described as "very different".
However, I treat poor sons-in-law and rich sons-in-law equally, and do my best to help them. It wasn't until I had a serious illness that I saw the difference between them.
So what exactly is their gap, and what did they do after I got sick?
grow
I was born in an ordinary family, the family is relatively wealthy, I don't have to worry about running out of snacks since I was a child, because my parents opened a supermarket in their hometown, and the business is not bad.
I am the second oldest in my family, and I have an older sister and younger brother. It is said that if there is a boy in the family, the parents will be very partial to the son, but my parents are different, and they always have a bowl of water.
I grew up in such a happy family, and because my academic performance was not very good, I chose to drop out of school early, and my parents arranged for me to work in a factory.
Here, I met my favorite partner, who was one of the leaders of the factory, and his family was very wealthy. From acquaintance to love, our relationship has always been stable.
He was very protective and obedient to me, and after getting along for a while, we decided to get married. But when I met my parents, I had some small accidents.
When I decided to get married, I took him to my house to meet my parents officially. However, his parents were not very happy with him, because he was three years younger than me and found him unreliable.
But at my insistence, my parents agreed to the marriage. In this way, under the witness of family and friends, we entered the palace of marriage together.
After I got married, my husband asked me to quit my job, worried that I would be too tired from work. I followed my husband's advice and stayed at home as a housewife.
Soon after, I became pregnant, and my husband was very excited. During my pregnancy, my husband and mother-in-law did their best to take care of me and cook me all kinds of nutritious meals, which was very touching.
Pregnant in October, the process can be described as very painful, and finally my husband and I welcomed our first child, a well-behaved and beautiful daughter.
We put all our energy into our daughter and give her the best life. With our careful company, our daughter has grown up healthily.
When my eldest daughter was four years old, my husband and I welcomed our second child, who is still a girl. When the second daughter was born, the parents-in-law were a little disappointed, and they still hoped that there would be a boy in the family.
But the husband didn't mind this, for he was the same for boys and girls, all of them were his own children. My husband's attitude made me feel very relieved, and with his persuasion, my parents-in-law's attitude also changed.
The birth of my second daughter made me feel very happy and happy, but it also made me a little anxious, worried that I would not be able to make a bowl of water and ignore one of the children.
When it comes to educating my children, my parents have a deep influence on me, and I have been learning from them to try my best to be as flat as possible and not to favor any child.
And my husband's concept is the same as mine, when the children have conflicts, my husband and I are not responsible for the matter, whoever is wrong, the first to apologize, to be fair and just.
Whether it is clothes or snacks, etc., they are all double-serving, never ignoring the children's ideas, providing them with a comfortable and happy living environment.
My husband and I attach great importance to their studies and also pay special attention to the cultivation of interests, the eldest daughter loves piano, and the second daughter loves ballet.
So my husband and I enrolled them in interest classes, let them study systematically, and taught them not to give up halfway, and since they decided to study, they should persevere.
The eldest daughter's studies are better than the second daughter's, and her academic performance has always been among the best, so I am not worried about my eldest daughter's studies.
On the contrary, I am more worried about my second daughter's studies, which are always up and down and very unstable. Fortunately, the second daughter knows how to work hard, so I don't have to worry too much about it.
Time flies, and both daughters have grown up. The eldest daughter was admitted to an ideal university and chose to major in law. My second daughter was admitted to the dance academy, and my husband and I were very happy about it.
Chengke
The eldest daughter studied hard during her school years and worked hard to improve her professional ability. After graduating, he joined a well-known law firm and the salary was very good.
Her work is very busy, my husband and I are very worried about this, and my daughter has never had the idea of starting a family, which makes me a little anxious.
Later, the eldest daughter finally met a boy she liked, but I was a little dissatisfied. The two met at a party of mutual friends, the boy was sunny and handsome, and he was a perfect match for his daughter.
It's just that his family is not very wealthy, but the boy's job is very good, he is a doctor in a tertiary hospital, and the salary is good.
However, the boy's job is still on the rise, and he does not have much savings. When we were discussing the marriage, my husband and I wanted the boy's family to buy a house in the city, so that it would be closer to us and our daughter's life would be secured.
However, the boy's family could not afford to buy a house, and even if they took out all the family's savings, it would only be enough for a down payment, let alone a bride price.
My husband and I were not very satisfied with this family business, but my daughter insisted on marrying him, and we had no choice but to agree.
We decided to leave all the money for the bride price to them and let our daughter and son-in-law use the money to make a down payment. But when renovating the house, the two of them had some financial difficulties.
So, I gave them money again and asked my daughter to decorate first. With the help of my husband and I, my eldest daughter's house was finally renovated and she has a home of her own.
The second daughter met a boy during her school years, and her family was very wealthy. The two decided to get married after graduation, and the boy's home met all our requirements, including a house, a car, and a bride price.
The second daughter's life is much better than the eldest daughter, there is no need to worry about life, she opened a dance interest class, life is very easy and happy, and her husband is very good to her.
When my second daughter was pregnant, I came to their house to help take care of her, but in fact, my second son-in-law hired a professional nanny for my daughter, and I didn't help much.
I don't worry about my second daughter's life, whether it is work or life, it is easy and happy. Her husband often buys her all kinds of small gifts, and the two of them go on trips to relax in their spare time.
But at the beginning of the eldest daughter's married life, she lived a tight life and was busy with work every day. The same is true for the eldest son-in-law, the doctor's work can be described as very busy.
However, I am glad that the eldest son-in-law is a very filial child, who often visits us, brings us all kinds of gifts, and sometimes makes a special trip to pick us up for dinner.
He is very caring and caring for his eldest daughter, and the most important thing is that the eldest son-in-law is not a lazy person, he is very motivated, his work is gradually stable, and his life is gradually on the right track.
The eldest son-in-law's ability is very good, and as he goes up a little bit, his salary and treatment have also improved. After accumulating a certain amount of savings, the eldest son-in-law discussed with his daughter and returned the money for the renovation to us.
The eldest daughter also agreed, and the two of them came to the house to pick up our old couple for dinner. When we were in the car, the eldest daughter insisted on giving us the money, and the eldest son-in-law was always by the side, so my husband and I had no choice but to accept it.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a big problem, and it is something that every girl who gets married and starts a family has to go through. In this regard, my eldest daughter is relatively lucky, and her parents-in-law are sensible people.
And my eldest daughter is also a very gentle and sensible child, and she gets along well with her parents-in-law. When the eldest daughter was pregnant, her parents-in-law made a special trip to their home and did their best to take care of the eldest daughter.
After the eldest daughter was confined, her father-in-law returned to her hometown, while her mother-in-law stayed at the eldest daughter's house to help take care of her grandson, which also reduced a lot of burden on the eldest daughter.
However, the second daughter and her mother-in-law do not get along very well, the second daughter has a more aggressive personality, is more straightforward in dealing with people, and is a very "playful" child.
Her mother-in-law was a little mindful of this, and felt that the second daughter did not care about the family, and the two had many disputes over this, but they were finally resolved by the second son-in-law.
The lives of the two daughters are different, each with its own happiness, but also with its own troubles. But that's how life is, as long as the husband and wife work together.
sick
As we get older, my wife and I are getting worse and worse as we used to be. The daughters were very worried about this, so they told us that we should go to the hospital for a full body check-up.
During the check-up, I was diagnosed with breast cancer, and the news came like a bolt from the blue for me, and I felt a little scared.
When my eldest son-in-law learned of this, he immediately arranged for me to be hospitalized, asked the director of the department about my condition, and arranged everything very properly.
During my hospitalization, my eldest son-in-law would come to see me whenever he was free, and the people in the department took great care of me. Fortunately, breast cancer is at an early stage, which is a "blessing in disguise".
After the operation, my two daughters took turns to take care of me, and my wife was the only one left in the family, and I was very worried about this, because my wife had bad legs and needed to be taken care of at home.
When the second son-in-law learned about this, he proposed to find a nanny to take care of me in the hospital, and let the two daughters take turns to go home to take care of my wife.
But I was a little unhappy with this proposal, and people want to spend more time with their children when they are old, and I am no exception. I don't want strangers to take care of me, and I'm not very comfortable about it.
The eldest son-in-law saw my hesitation, and proposed that my wife go to live in their house for a while, his parents were at home, and there was enough room so that he could be a companion and play chess with his father if he had nothing to do.
The eldest daughter also agreed, so the wife went to live at the eldest son-in-law's house. The eldest son-in-law will go home immediately after work, and the wife gets along well with the in-laws.
My in-laws often come to the hospital with my wife to visit me and chat with me, which relieves the two daughters of a lot of burden and allows them to concentrate on their work.
After I was discharged from the hospital, my eldest daughter insisted that my wife and I go to live at their house and send us home when we were completely recovered.
My in-laws didn't have any objections to this, which made me very touched and grateful, although our joining made this home a little crowded, but life was very harmonious.
After living at my eldest daughter's house for half a month, I felt much better, so I asked my eldest son-in-law to drive me and my wife home.
But when I'm fine, I still keep in touch with my mother-in-law and go shopping together. And my wife often plays chess with my in-laws.
Although my second son-in-law and second daughter did not have time to take care of me, they chose to pay for my hospitalization fee, and they took the "big head" for my hospitalization fee, while the eldest son-in-law took the "small head".
After this illness, my second son-in-law came to visit me more often than before, and every time he came, he brought me a bunch of gifts. During the Chinese New Year, they took me to their home to celebrate the New Year with their second daughter.
epilogue
Although the two sons-in-law have different family backgrounds, they take great care of my wife and me. My eldest son-in-law has a stable job and a lot of room for growth, and he did his best to take care of me and my wife during my illness.
The second son-in-law chose to pay for it, and he also cared about my wife and me very much, and often brought us various gifts. I am very satisfied with my two sons-in-law and very happy.
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