"You just came out?" said at half past nine in the evening, when he came back from a walk with Brother Hei, and just walked into the gate of the community, he saw a silver-haired woman with a boy of three or four years old.
Brother Hei exchanged a few words with the silver-haired woman, she took the child out of the community, and we continued to walk back, during which Brother Hei told the story of the silver-haired woman.
Brother Hei said: The woman's name is Tian Dani, and she is 58 years old this year.
In August 2020, when Brother Hei moved to this new community, he walked every morning and evening, and often saw Tian Dani, who lived in the same building, taking her little grandson out to play at 5 o'clock in the morning and 9 o'clock in the evening.
The more they see each other, the more they communicate.
Tian Dani is a native of Lanzhou, Gansu Province, her son is employed in Xi'an, married a family, and after having a grandson, Tian Dani came to Xi'an for the first time.
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My husband is still taking care of his in-laws in his hometown, planting responsible fields, and doing some odd jobs in the neighborhood when he is not working.
After the grandson was half a year old, as soon as the daughter-in-law's maternity leave ended, she started to work.
Tian Dani took on all the responsibilities of taking care of her grandson.
The grandson loves to move, cry, and make trouble, and whenever he eats, he always makes a lot of noise.
Every night at 6 o'clock, Tian Dani was busy cooking porridge in the process of coaxing her grandson.
It wasn't until half past seven in the evening that the son and daughter-in-law came back from work.
When her son and daughter-in-law come back from work and take care of their grandson, she can free up her hands to prepare dishes.
The daughter-in-law's mother's family is from a big city in the south, and she is more particular about eating, only eating dinner at home once a day, and she is required to make one meat, three vegetables and four dishes, and the amount of each dish does not need to be too large, but it must be exquisite.
In order to let her son and daughter-in-law eat dinner smoothly, every day, after Tian Dani cooks the meal, she lets her son and daughter-in-law eat first, so that she can take her grandson to play outside.
After her son and daughter-in-law had dinner, Tian Dani took her grandson home for dinner.
After eating, start to brush the pots, wash the dishes, and clean up the hygiene.
After Tian Dani finished working in the kitchen, it was already more than 9 o'clock.
The son and daughter-in-law handed over their grandson to Tian Dani and began to buckle their mobile phones.
The grandson fell in love with his daughter-in-law, crying and not letting her buckle her mobile phone.
The daughter-in-law didn't even shout at her mother and said: "Milk, you won't coax the baby."
Tian Dani hugged her grandson, but he still cried.
In order to make her son and daughter-in-law feel at ease and quietly buckle their mobile phones, Tian Dani had no choice but to take her grandson downstairs to play.
She played until half past 10 o'clock, when her grandson was really sleepy, so she hugged her grandson, returned home, quietly returned to her room, and coaxed her grandson to sleep.
The next day, before dawn, the grandson woke up earlier than the chickens, and when he woke up, he liked to jump around in the house, which seriously affected the rest of his son and daughter-in-law.
Tian Dani took her grandson and went downstairs early to play.
At 7 o'clock, her son and daughter-in-law went to work and left, and Tian Dani came back with her grandson and prepared a little breakfast by herself.
During the day, while her grandson was sleeping, Tian Dani began to wash clothes and clean up.
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The daughter-in-law is more particular about dressing, and the clothes that are changed each time are placed in different categories, which can be washed in the washing machine, which need to be washed by hand, and which need to be sent to the dry cleaner to wash, and you must not make a mistake.
Once, Tian Dani mistakenly put a coat that needed to be washed at a dry cleaner and washed it in the washing machine.
The daughter-in-law came back furiously and complained and blamed for several days.
Tian Dani thought to herself: In order not to wash her daughter-in-law's clothes, then simply don't wash them.
Tian Dani didn't wash her daughter-in-law's clothes for two days, and was severely reprimanded by her daughter-in-law.
Tian Dani did housework, but it was not right, and if she didn't do it, she couldn't do it, and if she didn't do it well, she did it wrong, and she was reprimanded; if she didn't do it, she was even more resented, and she walked on thin ice every day, trembling.
Especially on weekends, Tian Dani took advantage of the fact that her grandson did not wake up and wanted to make breakfast early, if she made a noise and woke up her daughter-in-law, it was not a trivial matter.
When breakfast was ready, the daughter-in-law didn't think the food was well done, so she didn't eat anything, so she ordered takeout or simply went out to eat.
Tian Dani simply didn't cook in the morning, and her daughter-in-law yelled unrelentingly, saying that we eat at home, why don't you even cook.
My husband is at home alone, and while taking care of the two elderly people, I have to find ways to earn money, and often call Tian Dani to make her daily expenses.
Whenever her grandson fell asleep in the dead of night, Tian Dani couldn't fall asleep, so she could only lie down on the operation and cry secretly.
Tian Dani endured, boiled, and looked forward to it, and her hair gradually turned white, and in only 4 years, she turned from a full head of black hair in the past to a silver strand......
Sometimes, Tian Dani thinks about leaving her son's house, returning home, and living with her husband.
I feel sorry for my grandson and no one to take him, and as soon as I leave, my daughter-in-law will be even more unforgiving, and my son's life will be even more difficult.
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In order for her son to live a safe and stable family, Tian Dani can only endure - if she can't bear it, she has to continue to endure it.
Now that her grandson has entered the kindergarten class, Tian Dani thinks that one day she will come out and return to her hometown to reunite with her wife......
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