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Happy life
48-year-old Xu Lu sat quietly in the study at home, her gentle gaze falling on her daughter opposite. Nineteen-year-old Lyman Marism is concentrating on editing a video footage, looking attentive and serious.
Xu Lu looked at her daughter's side face that was put into work, and the corners of her mouth couldn't help but show a relieved smile.
Although she chose to retire many years ago when her acting career was at its peak, she never regretted this decision. 7 years ago, she resolutely married Jiang Kaiyang, a director who was 7 years older than herself.
Despite his mediocre appearance, Jiang Kaiyang is a talented artist. Many of his film and television works have won many awards, and he has won the "Best New Director Award".
After getting married, Xu Lu completely shifted her focus to family life. She used all her hard work and energy to take care of her baby daughter's growth. Today's daughter has grown into an outstanding young girl, who has shown extraordinary talent and attainments in many artistic fields such as music, photography, and painting.
Xu Lu knows in her heart that all this comes from her and her husband's careful cultivation of their daughter's artistic potential.
Whenever she watched her daughter devote herself to creation, Xu Lu's heart was always full of pride and happiness. She is glad that she made the difficult choice of putting her career aside for the time being and plunging herself into the embrace of family life.
Now that she has a happy marriage and a talented baby daughter, her life could not be more perfect.
Highlight reel moments
Before Xu Lu chose to devote herself wholeheartedly to family life, she was once a high-profile powerful actor with high popularity and praise in the film and television industry.
In 1994, the broadcast of the costume drama "Heaven and Dragon Slayer" brought Xu Lu the first peak of her career. In the play, she brilliantly interprets the rich and tortuous inner world of the character Keyun.
As the youngest daughter of Adjutant Li's family, Ke Yun is gentle and sensitive, and she spent her childhood with Lu Erhao intimately. However, fate plunged her into a whirlpool of suffering, suffering both physical and mental trauma.
Through her superb acting skills, Xu Lu vividly presented Ke Yun's life course of perseverance and hardships in front of the audience. Her delicate and nuanced performance made the audience feel heartache for this poor woman, and as soon as the play was broadcast, Xu Lu's fame soared, and her popularity soared.
In the following years, Xu Lu starred in many excellent film and television works, such as the suspense drama "No Compromise", etc., and her career was at its peak. Her focused and serious expression and control of the subtle emotions of the characters have won praise from countless audiences and industry insiders.
Many people have greater expectations and aspirations for her acting career.
Just when everyone was full of longing for her future, Xu Lu made a shocking decision, that is, she chose to retire and no longer participate too much in the filming of film and television works.
This decision undoubtedly surprised and regretted many people.
Reason for retirement
Xu Lu's decision to retire when her career was at its peak was indeed unexpected by many people.
At that time, her friends Li Bingbing, Ren Quan and others had already made their mark in the entertainment industry, and their popularity was rising. However, Xu Lu chose to retire during this critical period, giving up opportunities that might take her career to the next level.
In retrospect, Xu Lu's search for marriage fate can be described as full of twists and turns. When her career was in full swing, her family and friends always joked about why she is still unmarried.
Once, Xu Lu's father asked her directly and publicly about the reason, and she replied so bluntly: "My husband is fat and ugly, and I am worried that our children will inherit his imperfect appearance."
From these words, it can be seen how much Xu Lu attaches importance to appearance. For many people, appearance is often an important consideration when choosing a mate. But in the end, Xu Lu still chose to marry Jiang Kaiyang, a mediocre-looking director.
The reason is very simple, in her opinion, she and Jiang Kaiyang have a high degree of compatibility in life philosophy and values, and he is the person with whom she can spend the rest of her life hand in hand.
Although Jiang Kaiyang's appearance is not outstanding, he is a talented and artistically accomplished director, and many film and television works directed by him have won many awards and praise.
Therefore, Xu Lu's choice to retire when her career was at its peak was not a passive choice caused by marriage or family, but a life choice she made after careful consideration.
Her desire to live an ordinary and simple happy life, rather than being tied up by fame and fortune, is the fundamental reason for her retirement.
Care and cultivation
Although Xu Lu chose to retire at the peak of her career, she did not stop at the single role of a housewife. Instead, she devoted most of her energy to nurturing her daughter's artistic talents.
From childhood to adulthood, Xu Lu has carefully guided her daughter Lyman Marismu to grow step by step on the road of art in her own unique way. When her daughter first became obsessed with directing work, Xu Lu fully supported and personally participated in it.
She not only bought a large number of professional books on film production, encouraged her daughter to read and learn more, but also discussed the content of the script with her daughter and guided her on how to create high-quality film and television works.
He also did not hesitate to invest in the purchase of high-performance computer hosts, which provided convenient conditions for the father and daughter to learn and practice video editing.
Xu Lu's cultivation of her daughter not only focuses on the teaching of theoretical knowledge, but also highlights the importance of practical exercises. She will patiently accompany her daughter and explain in detail the details and problems that need to be paid attention to in each creative process.
When her daughter wrote and directed her first short film, Xu Lu did it herself, giving guidance and guidance, which benefited her daughter a lot.
It is under the influence of Xu Lu's careful carving that Lyman Marism was able to win the "Central European Light and Shadow Award" with "That's It" at such a young age of 14.
This is undoubtedly the best proof of her talent, and it is also Xu Lu's greatest pride as a mother.
In addition to the cultivation of artistic attainments, Xu Lu's love for her daughter is also reflected in the bits and pieces of life. She always observes all the changes in her daughter carefully and considerately, so as not to miss any problems that need to be detected and treated in time.
For example, when she found that her daughter's breathing became heavy, her face flushed, and her expression was painful, Xu Lu immediately realized that she might be suffering from rhinitis or nasal polyps.
Because she herself suffered from this problem when she was young, she is no stranger to it.
Sure enough, after taking her daughter to the hospital for examination, she was diagnosed with nasal polyps. If it weren't for Xu Lu's keen observation and decisive handling, I am afraid that this disease would seriously affect her daughter's appearance and physical health.
During her daughter's surgical treatment, Xu Lu was always by her side, taking care of her meticulously and giving her the greatest care and support.
Jiang Kaiyang saw it in his eyes and sincerely praised his wife Xu Lu as an "impeccable mirror, loyal and upright, selfless dedication to the family, and dedication". She uses her actions to interpret a mother's selfless and endless love for her children.
Behind this peaceful appearance, there have also been contradictions and conflicts between Xu Lu and her family because of differences in educational concepts. For example, when dealing with her daughter's wrong behavior, Xu Lu has always insisted on strict requirements and to the core, but her in-laws think that this is too harsh.
As a result, the two sides had disagreements, but Xu Lu did not compromise easily. She knows that her approach is out of responsibility and intentions for her daughter's growth, and only by giving proper restraint and guidance during the critical period can she truly grow into an excellent person.
Fortunately, Jiang Kaiyang has a neutral attitude in this regard, and strives to reconcile the contradictions between the two sides, creating a harmonious family environment for Xu Lu.
An episode
Dating back to the peak of Xu Lu's acting career, it is not difficult to find that there has always been a certain prejudice and prejudice in her attitude towards appearance.
Before works such as "Heaven and Dragon Slayer" won her reputation, Xu Lu was still full of ambition for marriage. At that time, her career was booming, but her family and friends always joked about why she was still single.
Once, Xu Lu's father publicly questioned her about the reason why she is still unmarried. Faced with her father's straightforward questioning, Xu Lu replied bluntly: "My husband is fat and ugly, and I am worried that our children will inherit his imperfect appearance.
From these words, it can be seen how much Xu Lu attaches importance to appearance. For many people, appearance is naturally one of the important considerations when choosing a mate, but Xu Lu's obsession with this seems to have risen to a paranoid level.
Despite this, in the end, she chose to marry Jiang Kaiyang, a mediocre-looking director. Because in her opinion, the two have a high degree of compatibility in life philosophy and values, and Jiang Kaiyang is the person she can really spend the rest of her life with.
It is based on this love for her inner soul that Xu Lu was able to make the decision to ignore her appearance, and finally chose to retire at the peak of her career and live an ordinary and simple happy life.
Her yearning for a better life goes beyond the superficial pursuit of appearance.