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Mention Xu Lu may be strange to everyone, but speaking of Keyun will definitely evoke everyone's memories.
In the TV series "Deep Love", Xu Lu, who plays Keyun, can be described as crazy for love;
Xu Lu in real life is an actor who "goes crazy" for the play.
I thought that Xu Lu would give up everything for the sake of her career;
Unexpectedly, during the rising period of her career, she chose to marry an ugly man to marry and have children to retire.
What kind of person made her give up her favorite career, and now 46-year-old Xu Lu regrets it?
When I first entered the entertainment circle, I was questioned
When Xu Lu first entered the entertainment industry, she could be described as hitting a wall everywhere.
Finally, once she had the opportunity to audition in the crew, her acting skills and image met the requirements of the role.
But I didn't expect to be poured cold water by the director: you are too thin and photogenic and have no taste.
Other actors will continue to lose weight in order to be photogenic, but Xu Lu is disgusted by the director for being too thin;
This is simply picking bones in the egg, in the face of such doubts, Xu Lu went directly to the director:
"You can say that I can't act, or you can say that I don't fit my image, but saying I'm too thin is not a reason to reject me"
After all, after making such an unpleasant trouble with the director, Xu Lu has no reason to stay in the crew anymore.
After being rejected, Xu Lu did not slump, but chose to learn her major better.
The kung fu pays off, Xu Lu has a scene to film;
She went to audition for "Passing Through Shanghai" and was caught by the director at a glance.
At that time, the director also directly praised Xu Lu, which was very in line with the temperament of a supporting role in the play.
Xu Lu, who got the role, was very happy, after all, this was the first time she appeared on the screen since she learned acting.
However, success was not easy, and the broadcast of "Through Shanghai" did not cause too much attention to Xu Lu.
This also made Xu Lu begin to doubt herself, and even began to feel that she had chosen the wrong path;
Until 2000, Xu Lu got the role of Keyun in "Deep Love" through the introduction of a friend.
As we all know, Qiong Yao's strictness in casting has been heard by everyone.
If it is discovered by Teacher Qiong Yao, it will not be far from the big red and purple;
Because when choosing the role at that time, Teacher Qiong Yao saw Xu Lu's photo;
When she arrived on the set, Xu Lu began to be afraid that what if she felt inappropriate when she saw her?
However, the meeting of the two surprised Xu Lu, and the unexpected harmony made her fear disappear.
When Qiong Yao left, Xu Lu was still immersed in sudden happiness.
In "Deep Love", Keyun is a woman with a miserable life.
She and Erhao are happy, but they are not allowed to be broken apart by the world.
Keyun, who had experienced a huge blow, had mental problems and became insane.
It's easy to play a normal person, but it's a little difficult to get a normal person to play a crazy role.
This is a huge challenge for Xu Lu, who has just graduated.
The exaggerated expression all the time, and the need to remain "beautiful", made Xu Lu unbearable.
But she cherished this hard-won opportunity very much, and could only choose the stupid bird to fly first day and night to study the script.
Even after filming, Xu Lu couldn't get out of her emotions for a long time.
It turns out that hard work and gain are directly proportional, and Xu Lu succeeded;
Xu Lu played this role vividly, and at the same time won high praise from the director;
And after the broadcast, it made the audience remember this role.
Xu Lu also finally became an actress, which also made her crazy for acting.
But she never thought that she would give up the career she loved because of a "picky" person.
Challenge the characters and toss and turn
With the success of "Deep Love", the fame of the character of Keyun has played loudly.
Xu Lu finally didn't have to run back and forth anymore and went to find the character by herself.
The director of "Wutong Rain" took the initiative to come to the door, hoping that Xu Lu would play the heroine He Junlan.
From a crazy girl to a young grandmother, from a supporting role to a protagonist.
This is exactly Xu Lu's rebirth, but all kinds of bitterness are only known to him.
This allowed more resources to gather towards Xu Lu.
After filming "Wutong Rain", "Golden Fan Family" invited Xu Lu to play the role of maid Xiaomeri.
Like Keyun, Xiao Mercy is also a pitiful person who is crazy about love.
Under such a bonus, Xu Lu received many advertisements and variety shows.
Xu Lu's three dramas, which can be said to be very rare for a fledgling actor.
However, it also means that he has been labeled.
When this label is deeply rooted in people's hearts, it is not easy to be removed.
Obviously, this is not what Xu Lu wanted.
However, just as Xu Lu was actively looking for opportunities for transformation, the direction of the story began to change.
Xu Lu heard that a modern drama was recruiting actors, so she came to Shanghai to audition.
When she arrived at the crew, she met an unexpected person, Jiang Kaiyang, the person who had poured cold water on her.
When I met again, Jiang Kaiyang apologized for what happened last time;
Seeing that the director apologized to himself, Xu Lu also communicated with him a lot regardless of previous suspicions.
Xu Lu didn't expect that the first meeting was so unpleasant, but now it's too late to meet.
The two left each other's contact information, and that was just the beginning of the story.
Like-mindedness, hate each other
Although the two are 7 years apart, the two have many common topics after abandoning the unpleasantness of meeting for the first time.
After meeting, the two had similar interests and often talked about some professional issues.
And in the process of communication, it is inevitable to talk about some trivial things in life.
Thousands of miles of marriage, as the relationship between the two warmed up, Xu Lu was naturally with Jiang Kaiyang.
The two have the same view of marriage and love.
They think that since they have met the right person, they should not waste time.
So the two really contacted for just six days and chose to get married.
Before getting married, she did not tell her family, found the household registration book and came to the Civil Affairs Bureau with Jiang Kaiyang.
Xu Lu's own conceptual problems made her give up her career and choose her family in her career and family.
Why did Xu Lu marry Jiang Kaiyang so quickly? Is it coveting Jiang Kaiyang's directorial status, or something else?
Either way, it seems so "shaky".
After all, Jiang Kaiyang at that time was just a little-known director.
Compared with these remarks, the consistent personality adaptation of the two people's three views seems to be more tenable.
Is it because Xu Lu gave up her career so decisively because this is not her true passion?
Love "play" like a fascination, like an obsession
Xu Lu is a northeastern girl who was born into a relatively well-off family.
My father was an architect and my mother had a stable job.
And her parents gave her enough love, saying that love is easy to destroy;
Xu Lu, on the contrary, although the family dotes on Xu Lu, she has not become perverse.
Xu Lu, who is obedient and sensible, sits in front of the window and reads more in her spare time.
At the age of 11, she was introduced to ballet.
Seeing that their daughter rarely liked one thing so much, her parents sent her to a dance school.
Dancing ballet requires pressing the instep and practicing flexibility.
The teachers at the school are strict and will be relentlessly whipped if they are found to be lazy or have irregular movements.
Xu Lu, who had not been trained, was naturally the target of beatings.
When parents see the bruises on their daughter's legs, they are reluctant to let their daughters suffer anymore.
However, how could Xu Lu give up lightly, and finally stayed in school at her insistence.
And Xu Lu does not live up to expectations, and is often praised by teachers for being talented and hardworking.
Xu Lu's artistic performance is among the best, and her cultural class results are also enviable.
Xu Lu had excellent grades in the college entrance examination and was admitted to Beiwu and Shangxia at the same time.
"Swan Lake" jumped from small to large, when everyone thought that Xu Lu would choose the North Dance;
No one expected her to choose Shanghai Theater Academy.
After all, from dance to performance, the difficulties can be imagined.
Why did Xu Lu make such a choice?
It turns out that acting has been her dream since childhood, and she hopes that she can choose her passion.
Since Xu Lu has never been exposed to acting, her grades in college are not as dazzling as before.
The lack of systematic training performance made Xu Lu always look a little dull.
When the teacher asked everyone to perform dramas or sketches, Xu Lu's performance was always not so agile.
Unsurprisingly, Xu Lu received praise from her teachers.
After experiencing the teacher's rhetorical lessons, Xu Lu felt very sad.
However, she did not easily admit defeat, and after class, she would also use her free time to learn acting;
I even went to find a part-time job, hoping to hone my acting skills.
In their freshman year, the students in the class can already receive advertisements or some roles one after another;
Only Xu Lu, no one found her.
And it was that time that Jiang Kaiyang rejected Xu Lu on the grounds of "thinness", which made Xu Lu fall into self-doubt;
Fortunately, God will not fail everyone who works hard, and with the explosion of "Keyun", he and his husband meet again.
It also made her make the choice she thought was the most correct.
Give up your career and teach your children
After getting married, Xu Lu gave birth to her daughter Jiang Youning.
During the rising period of her career, Xu Lu chose to take her daughter full-time;
She hopes to accompany her daughter more in her growth than her career.
Who would give up their favorite?
And Xu Lu's dedication to her daughter has also reaped the benefits.
Today, Jiang Youning has been under the influence of his parents.
Xu Lu found that her daughter was like a father and was very interested in the director.
In order to cultivate her daughter's hobbies, Xu Lu often buys some relevant books to guide her daughter correctly.
Under the guidance of Jiang Kaiyang, Jiang Youning's short film in the third year of junior high school has already won the grand prize of foreign short film competitions.
Jiang Youning, who gradually got started, also became his father's assistant, and sometimes cut videos together.
The daughter is so good, and her husband also makes Xu Lu proud.
On anniversaries, large and small, Xu Lu will receive gifts carefully prepared by Jiang Kaiyang.
When he is free from work, he will often take Xu Lu on a trip.
The relationship between the husband and wife is very sweet, and Xu Lu bluntly said that her family is more perfect than career success.
Epilogue:
now Xu Lu is 46 years old;
Although she will never see the "Keyun" on the screen again, Xu Lu has received the happiness given by her family.
Once Xu Lusui also envied his classmates, he could achieve so much in the entertainment industry;
But if you want Xu Lu to say, if she starts over, maybe she will still make the same choice as she did at the beginning.