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●○ Preface ○●
An actress who can also become popular by playing a crazy woman, she is Xu Lu.
In 2001, with the hit of "Deep Rain", almost all the actors in it were popular at that time, and the popularity was no less than that year's "Huan Zhu Gege".
Xu Lu, the actor of Keyun in the play, also quickly became popular with this drama. But soon after becoming popular, Xu Lu, who had a good future, gradually faded out of the public's vision.
She chose to get married at the peak of her career. She chose to flash marry and quickly married a director who was not good-looking and was seven years older than her.
Now, many years have passed, how is Xu Lu, who chose to get married during the popular period, living now? Do it all over again, will Xu Lu make the same choice as in the past?
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●○Tohoku girl who loves to dance○●
Xu Lu was born in Shenyang, Liaoning Province, and is a native of Northeast China. Like other Northeast girls, Xu Lu has a bold personality, generous and enthusiastic. Xu Lu, who has lived under the favor of her family since she was a child, has grown into an excellent and beautiful girl.
When Xu Lu was a child, her family doted on her. Xu Lu's grandparents even regarded Xu Lu as a little princess. When Xu Lu was a child, what Xu Lu wanted, her grandparents bought for Xu Lu. Eat, play, wear, you name it.
Once, Xu Lu and her grandparents were visiting the market, Xu Lu saw a handicraft and wanted to buy it, so she took out a 2 yuan bill from her small bag and handed it to the boss. In those days, when the per capita monthly salary was only thirty or forty yuan, a little girl took it from her bag casually, it was 2 yuan, which was enough to see her family's love for Xu Lu.
Xu Lu, who grew up in a honeypot, is not arrogant, on the contrary, Xu Lu is very sensible. She has the enthusiasm, boldness and crispness of a Northeastern girl. But the only thing that made Xu Lu unhappy or Xu Lu was dissatisfied with herself when she was a child was that she was not tall.
In the first year of junior high school, the surrounding classmates gradually became taller than Xu Lu, and he became the only little man in the class. Xu Lu was very unhappy, she arrived at that time less than one meter six. Among the girls in the northeast, it belongs to the short category.
In order to grow taller, she wanted to learn to dance.
Xu Lu's family couldn't resist Xu Lu's request, and couldn't bear to see Xu Lu sad, so they immediately got a place for Xu Lu to apply for a dance academy.
Xu Lu was already standing tall at that time, and her figure was relatively slender. Although Xu Lu does not have as many advantages as others in height, other external conditions are very good, and the recruitment teacher saw this, gave Xu Lu a chance to learn dance, and suggested that she learn ballet.
Xu Lu began her journey to learn ballet with great interest.
Learning ballet is a very hard thing, often on tiptoe, which requires strong perseverance and self-discipline. Xu Lu, who has not suffered since she was a child, suddenly couldn't stand it. Every time while the teacher is not paying attention, secretly put down your heels.
Xu Lu, who is lazy, is always caught by the teacher. Disobedience is punished. So Xu Lu's legs were covered with bruises, which was the lesson given by her teacher when she put down her heels.
Xu Lu's parents saw that their precious daughter's legs were full of bruises, and they felt distressed and wanted Xu Lu to give up learning dance.
Unexpectedly, the young Xu Lu said to her parents very seriously, "But I like dance." Seeing this, Xu's father and Xu's mother no longer could bear to stop their daughter's hobbies, respected her daughter's own decisions, and let her daughter continue to run on the road of chasing her dreams.
Time stumbled forward, and in the blink of an eye, Xu Lu came to a critical period in her life - the third year of high school. At this time, Xu Lu was very distressed, on the one hand, her favorite dance, on the other hand, the performance suggested by the teacher.
Xu Lu wandered between the two, and finally chose to perform ruthlessly. Although Xu Lu gave up her further study in dance, she did not give up her love for dance, but she no longer regarded it as her career.
●○Life best friend○●
When Xu Lu was in high school, she could be described as a beautiful student, and her grades were in the top three of her class almost every time. However, after entering the university, the top students became scumbags in seconds and were often criticized by teachers. In front of many excellent students, Xu Lu's acting talent is not very prominent.
Once, during an acting class, the teacher asked Xu Lu to temporarily perform a crying scene. Xu Lu couldn't cry for a long time, and under the attention of teachers and classmates, Xu Lu had no choice but to make a noise and turn on the faucet-like crying scene.
Because she cried too loudly and too intensely, Xu Lu's style was messed up, and her makeup was spent. Seeing this, the teacher said mercilessly: "If you go to act, the audience will be scared away by you." ”
Xu Lu, who does not have much acting talent, can only practice over and over again by herself, locking herself up all day to improve her acting skills while performing, but there is not much progress.
Seeing this, two of the classmates decided to help Xu Lu. They are Li Bingbing and Ren Quan. Coming and going, the three became friends.
Seeing that Xu Lu's acting skills had not improved, and she couldn't find the trick through her own practice, Li Bingbing took Xu Lu to the crew. Two people in the crew, motionless in the corner watching others act.
Through repeated practice over and over again and carefully observing other people's acting skills, with the help of her friends, Xu Lu's acting skills quickly improved.
Xu Lu still has some gap compared with her classmates in the same period. At that time, Xu Lu was still studying seriously at school, and her friend Li Bingbing had already begun to become popular. Ren Quan also made several works himself, and the response was good.
Seeing her friends' careers rising day by day, Xu Lu felt a little sense of urgency and began to go out to find job opportunities.
Xu Lu's job search at the beginning was not smooth, and was rejected by many crews. Xu Lu, who has been running for a long time, still hasn't found the role.
Once, Xu Lu finally had a chance to audition. Before the audition, Xu Lu had already studied the role and figured out the psychology of the character.
Just when Xu Lu went to the audition full of confidence, the director's words completely angered Xu Lu.
The last time Xu Lu auditioned, the director of the other party said that Xu Lu was too fat and wanted to lose weight. I finally lost weight and said that she was thin. This moment is thin, the next fat, which makes Xu Lu very annoyed.
After thinking about it, he still couldn't bear it, and Xu Lu scolded the director. The beam of the two can be regarded as knotted. Two people, no one could have imagined that they would end up as a couple.
●○Family is more important than career○●
Xu Lu mixed in the circle for another year, and later, through the introduction of a friend, got the role of Keyun in the drama "Deep Rain".
In order to play this role well, Xu Lu carefully studied the script every day, and the final performance effect lived up to expectations. Xu Lu created the role of "Mad Woman" Keyun very successfully, which also made her a little fire.
Because the role of Keyun opened Xu Lu's popularity, Xu Lu's drama path was much better later, although there were no heavyweight roles, but the supporting roles in it were also very outstanding.
Relying on these supporting roles, Xu Lu turned red. After everyone thought that Xu Lu would continue to shine, a decision surprised everyone.
Xu Lu chose to get married. The marriage partner is still a man who is ugly and has not a very good career.
This man, that is, the director who pointed out that Xu Lu was too thin during Xu Lu's audition before, causing Xu Lu to scold angrily. His name is Jiang Kaiyang.
The two were together for six days, and they quickly got married. At that time, Xu Lu's parents did not know. After receiving the license, Xu Lu told her parents that she was married.
Xu's father and Xu's mother were confused, especially when they heard that the two had only been together for 6 days, they felt that their daughter had been deceived.
Jiang Kaiyang brought his parents to the door, and everything was done for weeks, and Xu's father and Xu's mother recognized him.
After the two got married, Jiang Kaiyang devoted himself to his career, while Xu Lu focused on taking care of his family. They have a clear division of labor and get along very harmoniously, but they have never had children.
Xu's father and mother asked the reason, and Xu Lu always prevaricated. Seeing that his daughter had something on his mind, Xu's father and Xu's mother were even more concerned. Finally, one day, Xu Lu confessed. She said that she did not want to give birth because her husband was too ugly and afraid that the children he would give birth to would be like him.
When Xu's father and Xu's mother heard this reason, they laughed and said, people are chosen by yourself, and the children born will not be ugly if you look at them.
After Xu Lu gave birth, her life was not happy, and she even suffered from postpartum depression. It turned out that after marriage, her husband Jiang Kaiyang's career improved, and he spent most of his time at work, and he had less company for Xu Lu. In order to take care of Xu Lu and the child, he took his parents to live together.
Xu Lu and the older generation of parents have great differences in raising children, coupled with her husband's busyness and postpartum sensitivity, Xu Lu is depressed.
Xu's father and Xu's mother, who learned of this, quickly called Jiang Kaiyang to inform him of the matter. When Jiang Kaiyang heard this, he immediately pushed off the work behind and came back to accompany Xu Lu.
Accompanied by Jiang Kaiyang, Xu Lu gradually improved.
Jiang Kaiyang was also afraid that Xu Lu would think too much when he stayed at home, so he proposed to Xu Lu to go out to film. Xu Lu hesitated and agreed.
Unexpectedly, during Xu Lu's filming, Xu Lu's daughter was hospitalized due to illness and fever. Because of the breach of contract to pay liquidated damages, Xu Lu, who was anxious, had to call her parents and ask them to go to the hospital to help take care of her daughter.
Xu Lu herself called her daughter every hour to inquire about the situation.
After filming, Xu Lu stopped filming for a long time, and devoted herself to her husband and children at home.
Someone asked Xu Lu, what do you like about Jiang Kaiyang? After all, Jiang Kaiyang at that time was not very handsome, and his career did not improve much.
Xu Lu's answer was even more surprising. Xu Lu said that she took a fancy to Jiang Kaiyang's talent.
Jiang Kaiyang did not have a high education and entered society very early to make a living, but he himself read a novel. With his own self-study and hard work, he was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
Today, Jiang Kaiyang's career is developing better and better, and his daughter has grown up. The relationship between Xu Lu and her husband Jiang Kaiyang is also very stable, and the two are happy and sweet.
●○Epilogue○●
It can be seen from the photos of Xu Lu and her daughter that Xu Lu now has a sweet life and is in good condition. Many netizens said that 48-year-old Xu Lu and her 19-year-old daughter looked like sisters.
If someone asks, does Xu Lu regret choosing to get married at the peak of her career and retire to the entertainment industry? The answer is most likely no.
Xu Lu once said that in her opinion, family is far more important than career.
Now Xu Lu has lived what she wants. Many netizens sent their blessings.