In this bustling city, there is a girl named Xiaoya, she is 28 years old, she is gentle and lovely, and she works in a well-known advertising agency. Xiaoya's family background is ordinary, but with her own efforts, she has worked hard in the workplace step by step and has become the backbone of the company.
Xiaoya and her boyfriend Xiao Li met at a friend party, and the two fell in love at first sight. Xiao Li is a gentle and considerate boy who takes good care of Xiaoya. Not long after the two dated, Xiao Li proposed to Xiao Ya, which made Xiao Ya both surprised and delighted. However, in the process of preparing for the wedding, Xiaoya fell into a deep entanglement: should she confess her past sexual experience to Xiao Li before getting married?
Xiaoya and her ex-boyfriend had a brief relationship when they were in college. At that time, they were young and vigorous, full of curiosity and longing for love. After a drunken session, the two broke through the last line of defense and had a relationship. However, the relationship didn't last long, and the two broke up for various reasons after graduation. For Xiaoya, this experience is an episode in her youth, and it is also a secret in her heart.
As time passed, Xiaoya gradually stepped out of the shadow of that relationship and started a new life. She worked hard, kept improving herself, and made many new friends. Xiao Li is one of them. They met on a sunny afternoon, and Xiao Li's smile and warm temperament deeply attracted Xiao Ya. The two started as friends and gradually developed into lovers.
In the process of falling in love, Xiaoya and Xiao Li shared many stories of each other's lives and the past. However, whenever it comes to emotional topics, Xiaoya always avoids her past experiences, intentionally or unintentionally. She was afraid that if she confessed, it would ruin the relationship between the two. However, as the wedding date approached, Xiaoya felt more and more that she was pressing a stone in her heart and couldn't let go.
She remembered what her mother had told her: "Sincerity is the foundation of a relationship." Xiao Ya knew that her mother's words were reasonable, but she was also afraid that Xiao Li would not be able to accept her past. She was conflicted and didn't know what to do.
The night before the wedding, Xiaoya lay in bed tossing and turning, unable to sleep. She thought of the bits and pieces since she met Xiao Li, and thought of the joys and pains they experienced together. She knew in her heart that if she continued to hide it, she might feel guilty and upset for the days to come. So, she decided to confess everything to Xiao Li before the wedding.
Early the next morning, Xiao Ya asked Xiao Li to the park they frequented. She took a deep breath, mustered up her courage, and told Xiao Li about her past experience. She candidly told Li that she had a brief relationship in college and had a relationship with her ex-boyfriend. After finishing speaking, she looked at Xiao Li nervously, waiting for his reaction.
Xiao Li was silent for a while, and then gently shook Xiao Ya's hand. He looked at Xiaoya gently and said, "I know everyone has a past, and I don't care what happened to your past. I only care about the present and the future, and I only care about whether you are willing to go down with me. ”
Hearing Xiao Li's words, Xiao Ya was moved to tears. She is glad that she made a frank decision, and she is also grateful to Xiao Li for her understanding and tolerance. From that moment on, she was determined to cherish this hard-won relationship and spend the years to come with Xiao Li.
Life after marriage is plain and happy. Xiao Ya and Xiao Li support each other, understand each other, and face various challenges in life together. Xiaoya has also learned to let go of the shadows of the past and bravely face the present and the future. She understands a truth: sincerity is the foundation of a relationship, and understanding and tolerance are the bonds that make the relationship stronger.
Now Xiaoya and Xiao Li have gone through many years of marriage, and their relationship is still the same. Whenever she recalls the tangled time before she got married, Xiaoya will be full of emotion. She is glad that she made the right choice, and she is grateful to Xiao Li for her continuous companionship and support.
This story teaches us that sincerity and understanding are indispensable in the face of love. Only when we are brave enough to face our past can we have a better future. At the same time, we must also learn to cherish the people around us who are willing to understand and tolerate us, because they are the most precious wealth in our lives.