Before we read this article, we invite you to click to follow and let's explore more exciting content together. I am Zhang Yu, and I have been with my wife Lin Meng for eight years, and our baby daughter Xiaoqing is six years old.
That day, I returned home from a busy day at work to find my mother sitting on the couch, her eyes fixed on the TV screen. I was slightly stunned, and then smiled and stepped forward: "Mom, why did you visit suddenly?" Mother put down the remote control and frowned slightly: "Didn't I say that I would come to stay for a few days? You are so busy that you even forgot about this?" I hurriedly apologized, and secretly blamed myself for my negligence.
What makes me even more troubled is that Lin Meng is not at home at this time, she is working overtime on a project. When my mother saw that I was alone, she seemed to be a little dissatisfied, and complained: "You young people, you always focus on your work, and you don't care about your family. I hurriedly explained, "Mom, don't be angry, Meng'er is also for work." The mother sighed and stopped talking.
After a while, Lin Meng hurried home and was stunned when he saw his mother in the living room. The atmosphere between the two was suddenly a little awkward. I was busy playing a round and introducing my mother to Lin Meng. However, her mother's pickiness and dissatisfaction made Lin Meng's face more and more ugly. I know that this time my mother came to stay for a few days, and I am afraid that the family will not be at peace.
In the following days, there was a lot of trouble at home. Her mother's personality is eccentric, and she always does things in her own way, which makes Lin Meng feel very uncomfortable. The escalating contradictions and conflicts between the two made me feel very embarrassed.
On the one hand, I have to take care of my mother's emotions, and on the other hand, I have to appease Lin Meng's dissatisfaction, I am really in a dilemma. Whenever there is an argument between the two, I can only try my best to persuade them, hoping to resolve the conflict. However, the differences in the personalities of the mother and Lin Meng are too great for it to be difficult to agree.
Seeing the situation at home getting worse and worse, I also felt very anxious. I know that going on like this will not only be detrimental to family relationships, but will also have a bad impact on Xiaoqing. So, I decided to do something to fix the problem.
First of all, I found a suitable opportunity to have an in-depth communication with my mother. I told her about Lin Meng's personality and habits, hoping that she would be more understanding and tolerant. At the same time, I also explained my mother's temper and personality to Lin Meng, hoping that she could be more patient and tolerant.
With the communication between me and both parties, the atmosphere at home gradually eased. Although there is still some small friction between her mother and Lin Meng, it is no longer as tense as before. I also started to get more involved in family matters and try to reconcile the relationship between the two sides.
After a period of hard work, the atmosphere at home finally returned to normal. The relationship between the mother and Lin Meng has also improved, although there are still some minor frictions, but it is no longer the main conflict. Seeing the joy and laughter in my home is also very gratifying.
This experience has taught me a truth: conflicts and conflicts in the family are inevitable, but as long as we communicate and understand with our hearts, we will definitely be able to resolve the problems and make the family more harmonious and happy.