The problem of school bullying continues to heat up, and now it has affected the orphans of pilot martyrs. Shu Fan, the son of a martyr pilot, was recently maliciously bullied by his classmates at school for more than a month. On April 1, the widow of the martyr posted a request for help through an online post, hoping that all sectors of society would enthusiastically lend a helping hand to help Shu Fan tide over this difficult time. This kind of bullying of the children of martyrs will never be tolerated by the entire people.
Here's why
It is reported that on April 2, the widow of the pilot martyr had to send a message asking for help on her personal account, and she bitterly said that her child was suffering from school bullying.
According to the child's mother's account, because her son Shu Fan lost his father when he was a child, this made him a target of bullying at school, and this situation has continued. Today, bullying is even more severe. Not only did his classmates mock him by giving him all sorts of nasty nicknames, such as "fatty" and "snail". Even when Shu Fan went to the toilet, there would be other ill-intentioned classmates who would pry the door and pick the toilet door for such bad provocations.
What's even more distressing is that sometimes when my son walks on the road and accidentally touches those classmates who bully him, he will be punched hard in the backbone for no reason. This violence undoubtedly causes great physical and psychological trauma to children. And if it were replaced by other children who have a father to rely on, they may have stood up to seek justice for their children a long time ago.
However, the widow reluctantly said that her child's father had died a long time ago, and the child had lost his father's protection since he was a child, and he was particularly helpless in the face of bullying.
Xiao Shufan's father was an admirable second-class pilot in the Hong Kong Garrison. In the process of a flight mission, he unfortunately died heroically, and since then, Xiao Shufan has lost his father's solid support forever.
And the group of people who bullied Xiao Shufan seized the fact that Xiao Shufan had no father and no one to support him, and bullied him unscrupulously. These children behave so badly at such a young age, without the slightest empathy, it is really hard to imagine what will happen to them when they grow up, and they will surely become the scum of society!
When Xiao Shufan's mother learned about these things, she was both angry and distressed. She could never have imagined that she taught her children to learn to be tolerant, but in exchange for their intensification! So, she did not hesitate to take Xiao Shufan, who was full of grievances, to the school to seek justice for the children. Unexpectedly, the parents of the bullies not only did not show a trace of guilt and remorse for this bad behavior, but also had an extremely arrogant attitude, which is simply unreasonable!
If young and ignorant children don't understand anything, can parents, as adults, still be unreasonable? Don't they know why Xiao Shufan doesn't have the support of his father? But it is really incomprehensible that they can still put on such an arrogant and unreasonable attitude.
Xiao Shufan's mother negotiated with the other party to no avail, and she didn't want to entangle with this kind of person too much. She only dropped a cruel sentence, warning the other party to keep his child away from Xiao Shufan in the future, otherwise she would ask the organization to come forward to solve the matter!
However, the bully and his parents acted as if they had not heard the words of Xiao Shufan's mother, and vividly interpreted the appearance of "the ignorant are fearless".
Who would have thought that Xiao Shufan would be bullied again, only to see a classmate fiercely swing his fist and smash it on Xiao Shufan's fragile spine. Xiao Shufan's face was full of tears, and he cried to his mother sadly. But the bully's mother was unrepentant, holding her mobile phone and recording a video while deliberately stirring up trouble.
Afterwards, Xiao Shufan told his mother full of grievances: "Mom, I really feel so painful! When they beat me and insulted me, my heart was as painful as being eaten by thousands of ants. I think it's because we don't have our father's protection that we are always bullied like this. ”
Hearing this, I felt heartache on the other side of the screen, and my heart was like a knife, not to mention how much Xiao Shufan's mother should have a heart like a knife, and it was extremely painful.
In this regard, the majority of netizens were angry and angry.
Originally, the martyrs sacrificed their precious lives for the benefit of the country and the people without hesitation. What is sad is that the bereaved families of the martyrs not only did not receive the respect they deserved, but were also subjected to all kinds of bad treatment, bullying, ostracism, and bullying. They are supposed to be the ones we respect and care for.
In order to defend the country and the people, the martyrs died heroically in the line of duty, which is undoubtedly a heavy psychological blow to young children. They may not have time to feel the warmth and companionship of their father, and they will have to endure the pain of losing a loved one. The father was desperately bleeding at the front, while the young child could only cry helplessly in the rear. Is this how we treat the descendants of martyrs?
The bereaved families of martyrs need all-round care and protection from the whole society, but the reality is that everyone ignores and cares about them.
Don't the parents of those children who bullied Xiao Shufan have a sense of shame? They bullied the bereaved family of a soldier who sacrificed his life for the country, but they did not repent, neither admit their mistakes, nor apologize! Have they lost their most basic conscience as human beings?
Such an act is really sad and infuriating, and we should respect and protect the bereaved families of the martyrs, so that they can feel the warmth and care of society.
What is your view on this?
Finally, what Xiao Chen wants to talk about is that I am deeply saddened and angry in my heart about this incident.
First, this is undoubtedly a blasphemy against heroes and martyrs. The pilot martyrs sacrificed their lives for the benefit of the country and the people, and their contributions and sacrifices deserve our respect and commemoration. And their children, as the descendants of martyrs, deserve our care and love.
Second, bullying is an extremely egregious behavior that cannot be tolerated. No matter what the circumstances, you should not behave in such a way that hurts others. For minors, they may not have formed the correct values and morals, which requires the guidance and education of parents, schools and society.
For this incident, we must attach great importance to:
1. Schools and educational institutions shall strengthen the management and education of students, and improve students' legal awareness and moral literacy, so as to prevent the recurrence of similar incidents.
2. Parents should enhance their care and education for their children, cultivate their kindness and compassion, and make them know how to respect others and not bully the weak.
3. Society should also provide more care and support for the families of martyrs, so that they can feel warmth and respect.
4. Bullies must be dealt with seriously, so that they realize their mistakes, and at the same time give them the right guidance and education to help them correct their mistakes.
Finally, each of us should reflect on our own actions and attitudes and consider whether we have caused harm to others. We must promote positive energy and advocate a civilized and harmonious society, so that every child can thrive in a safe and healthy environment. I hope that we can work together so that such a tragedy will not happen again.