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Deming in inner struggle
At first, her husband was so gentle and considerate to her. But it wasn't long before this once romantic man changed. He began to drink heavily, punching and kicking at every turn, torturing Deming to the point of bruises.
Deming remembers one time when she just wanted to go to a scenic spot in the suburbs with her colleagues, her husband became furious and asked her if she had another man.
Deming was so humiliated that he couldn't feel ashamed, tears came out of his eyes, and he could only hug his two daughters tightly in his arms. Looking at the innocent eyes of her daughters, she made up her mind to re-inject love and warmth into this home.
Although his relatives and friends have repeatedly dissuaded him, he believes that divorce will tarnish the honor of the family. But Deming gritted her teeth and insisted, she would rather bear the criticism of public opinion than be tortured by violence all her life.
So, she plucked up the courage and took her two daughters to the court to file a lawsuit to divorce her tyrannical husband.
This was quite out of the ordinary in the 90s of the last century. The idea was deeply entrenched, and it was widely believed that divorce was a blasphemy against morality. Uyghur women are subject to strict religious constraints and are expected to serve only one husband for the rest of their lives.
But Deming never cared about all this criticism. She knew that if she stayed in that violent family, she and her daughters would sooner or later go insane. In order for her daughters to grow up healthy and happy, she had to show 120,000 courage and declare war on the old customs.
After some twists and turns, Deming was finally granted a divorce and custody of his two daughters. Determined to start a new life, she left Xinjiang with her two daughters and settled in the capital, Beijing, in order to escape the gloom of the city.
Rising stars
Leaving his homeland in the grasslands of Inner Mongolia, 14-year-old Battle came to the strange and noisy city of Beijing alone with a dream. For the son of a native herdsman, everything here is so new and unfamiliar.
The first thing that made Battle feel out of place was his heavily accented Mandarin. As a pastoral child in Inner Mongolia, he has spoken his mother tongue since he was a child and knows almost nothing about Mandarin.
In Beijing, the dialect capital, Battle's blunt pronunciation is often eye-catching, and it has become an important reason for his isolation in the circle of teammates.
In addition to the language barrier, the concrete jungle of Beijing is also a new experience for Battle. He has lived in the vast grasslands of Inner Mongolia since he was a child, and he has innate skills in riding, grazing, and wielding Mongolian roughness.
In Beijing, apart from dunks and whistles on the court, he was at a loss for everything he wanted to live here.
For a while, Battle even missed life in his hometown and escaped from the unfamiliar environment of Beijing. He dreamed of being able to return to his homeland, run across the vast grasslands, blow fresh air, and get away from the concrete for a while.
Fortunately, coach Jiang Xingquan discovered Battle's confusion in time, and he guided the young man to rediscover the meaning of basketball. Jiang Xingquan told Battle that as a seeded player of the national team, he carries not only his own dreams, but also the ardent expectations of the whole country for basketball.
Battle was deeply touched by these words, and no longer had the idea of running away.
Since then, Battle has become more conscientious, thinking about how to improve his basketball skills all the time. He has grown from a simple rural boy to a brilliant professional athlete.
In this way, with the full support of Deming, Battle walked to the pinnacle of his life step by step, and formed the famous "Mobile Great Wall" with Yao Ming and Wang Zhizhi, becoming the mainstay of the national team, winning the gold medal of the Asian Games, the Asian Championships, and the first Chinese player to win the NBA championship.
From an obscure child in the pastoral area of Inner Mongolia to a basketball superstar who has attracted the attention of the world, Battle has written an extraordinary legend with tenacity and perseverance.
Battle and Deming's encounter stemmed from a fierce basketball game. At that time, Deming was living alone in Beijing, and his heart was uneasy. In order to relax her sister, her sister Deli, a sports reporter, deliberately took her to watch the game.
Watching the game, Deming was not very interested in the players' scramble. It wasn't until she saw Battle's heroic and fearless figure that her eyes were firmly drawn.
Standing 2.1 meters tall and tall and burly, Battle is energetic and fierce on the field, and is affectionately known as the "Great Wall of Movement" by fans.
After the game, Deli took his sister Deming to meet the popular star. At first, Deming just wanted to get a closer look at the "Great Wall". But the moment she met Battle's eyes, her heart was inexplicably attracted to him.
Battle's innocent eyes seem to be able to look directly into people's hearts, and Deming sees his enthusiasm and dedication to the game of basketball. Although his Mandarin is a bit stiff, the wisdom revealed in his conversation fascinates Deming.
In this way, Deming fell in love with this unknown young man from Inner Mongolia at first sight. She began to approach Battle on her own initiative, coming from thousands of miles to watch the battle, just to see him a little more.
Soon, Deming's deep love was noticed by his sister Deli. At that time, Deming was 38 years old, a full 11 years older than Battle, and had two daughters, the eldest of whom was Defie, who was only 12 years younger than Battle.
Deli was worried that her sister's infatuation would bring harm to both parties, so she firmly objected.
But the fire of love can't be lifted. Deming withstood the doubts of his sister and the outside world, and mustered up the courage to confess his heart to Battle. At first, Battle was frightened by Deming's age and status, and hesitated.
But gradually, this pure and kind big man was completely impressed by Deming's gentle and virtuous temperament.
Although De was 11 years older than him, Battle was deeply attracted to her good virtues. What's more, he had never seen a woman so wholeheartedly support and encourage his career development.
So, Battle accepted this criticized sibling relationship without hesitation.
Support her husband's career
After Deming and Battle got married, Deming's life focused entirely on helping his husband. As a professional footballer, Battle's daily life is undoubtedly related to his performance on the pitch.
With the help of Deming, he was able to train with peace of mind and display his basketball talent to the fullest.
After getting married, Deming began to take care of Battle's diet and daily life. She learns to cook a variety of nutritionally balanced delicacies, so that her husband can enjoy the food while taking supplements.
For example, Battle's favorite roast lamb, Deming will use fresh lamb with herbs and cumin to roast it to make it fragrant and full of flavor.
In addition to taking care of daily life, Deming also single-handedly took care of the tedious affairs of transfer brokers. At that time, Battle's contract with Beijing expired and the club wanted him to renew it.
However, Deming used "injury treatment" as an excuse to delay the contract renewal again and again. Until the expiration of the period, she Huo Ran sold Battle to the Xinjiang team at a high price, which was undoubtedly a heavy blow to the Beijing team.
However, in the end, Deming's "cunning" was exchanged for Battle's high-salary contract of tens of millions of dollars, and their family's financial situation has greatly improved since then. As his career progressed, Battle began to travel to the world.
And Deming was as busy in the rear as ever, sheltering her husband from the wind and rain.
For a while, Battle played in the NBA and the focus of his life shifted completely to the United States. Deming resolutely moved his family to the United States and took on the responsibility of raising children alone.
The monthly family expenses of more than 100,000 yuan all rely on Battle's hard work on the court to make money, and Deming has never complained.
What's even more difficult is that high-intensity exercise has caused Battle to develop diabetes. Life fell into the biggest trough, but Deming did not complain, just silently took care of her husband's diet and daily life, and waited by his side.
At this moment, Deming's love is as pure and persistent as iron, which is moving.
Recapture your basketball dream
At the age of forty, Battle had to face the end of his career. After bidding farewell to the green court, he was at a loss for a while, but his sincere heart for basketball has never been extinguished.
As a result, Battle resolutely founded the "Dioba" basketball training brand, hoping to discover and cultivate a new generation of basketball stars.
The responsibility for the company's operation naturally fell on his wife Deming and stepdaughter Difei. As CEO, Deming is responsible for the overall strategic planning of the company. Difei, on the other hand, focuses on expanding the business territory of "Dilioba" in the United States.
The mother and daughter worked together to give full play to their respective strengths, so that Battle could concentrate on teaching affairs.
This decision has other implications. Battle's son, Baenze, has been playing basketball since he was a child, but due to the lack of systematic training guidance, it may be difficult to enter the professional league.
Through the platform of "Dioba", Battle can not only train countless potential players, but also teach his skills to help his son.
With Deming's outstanding business acumen and execution, "Dilioba" received a round A financing of 20 million yuan in just one year after its establishment, which can be described as a high-spirited and siege of the city.
In a short period of time, the fledgling brand has become an idol in the hearts of the younger generation of basketball fans.
It is not difficult to see that Deming has always been steady, meticulous and never sloppy. Perhaps it is this spirit that allows "Dioba" to nurture more basketball talents in the future.
For Deming, her determination to support her husband's career from the bottom of her heart has never stopped, and she is still Battle's most solid backing and reliance.