In the vast sea of people, everyone is looking for their own fate. And for Xiaoli, her path to finding love seems to be more tortuous than others.
Xiaoli, a 28-year-old Jiangsu girl, grew up under the care of her grandmother. Grandma has always been concerned about her marriage, and Xiaoli herself is full of expectations for the future. However, as the years passed, Xiaoli's figure gradually became plump, which made her road to finding love more and more difficult.
On a sunny afternoon, Xiaoli returns to her hometown to attend a blind date. However, five days passed, and no one came. Grandma looked at her granddaughter, distressed and helpless. She picked up a ruler and measured Xiaoli's thigh circumference, and was surprised to find that it was 89 centimeters high. Grandma sighed and said, "Your size is really prohibitive. ”
Xiaoli was unmoved, she firmly believed in her beauty. She said: "I want to be a woman like Yang Guifei and marry a man who knows how to appreciate chubby beauties." After hearing this, Grandma could only shake her head helplessly.
In fact, Xiaoli's facial features are not ugly, and they can even be said to be delicate. However, in this era of thinness as beauty, her figure has become a stumbling block for her to find love. However, Xiaoli is not willing to change herself in order to cater to other people's aesthetics. She believes that everyone has their own unique charm, and her own charm lies in her plump figure and confident temperament.
As time passed, Xiaoli began to reflect on her own concepts. She realizes that while she is reluctant to change her figure, she can change her attitude. She began to try to accept her own imperfections, while also learning to appreciate the good in others. She no longer sees the search for love as a far-fetched thing, but as a mindset of enjoying the process.
In the process, Xiaoli also met some friends who understood her. They told her that love is not only about appearance, but more importantly, about inner qualities and character. These friends encourage her to stay confident and believe that one day she will meet someone who knows how to appreciate her.
At the same time, Grandma is slowly changing her perspective. She began to understand her granddaughter's pursuit of beauty, and gradually accepted her granddaughter's figure. She told Xiaoli: "No matter what you become, grandma will like you." However, you also have to understand the reality of this world. In this society, people tend to pay more attention to their appearance. So, if you want to find your own happiness, maybe try to change your image. ”
Xiaoli listened to her grandmother's words and fell into deep thought. She knows that her grandmother is for her good, but she also doesn't want to lose herself in order to cater to someone else's aesthetic. In the end, she decided to maintain her unique charm while also trying to improve her inner self-cultivation. She began to learn how to dress and look more appropriate, and at the same time, she began to focus on developing her hobbies and social skills to make herself more attractive.
After a period of hard work, Xiaoli gradually became more confident and charismatic. She also has more and more friends, including some boys who have a crush on her. Although she has yet to meet the person who knows how to appreciate all of her good qualities, she is no longer anxious and depressed. She knows that as long as she maintains confidence and a positive attitude, she will one day find her own happiness.
In this process, Xiaoli also understood a truth: love is not the whole of life, but a part of life. She doesn't want to lose herself in order to find love, and she doesn't want to change herself in order to cater to other people's aesthetics. She wants to find someone who can understand and accept all of her strengths and weaknesses and walk through every stage of life together.
Today's Xiaoli is no longer the anxious girl. She proved with her actions that she can have confidence and charm even if she is plump. Her story also tells us that everyone has their own unique charm, and as long as you maintain confidence and a positive attitude, you can find your own happiness.