On the day of the wedding, the bride dressed up and waited for the groom to greet her, but after the auspicious time did not see the groom, the bride called him, unexpectedly, the groom directly said: "I will not get married this time, you really take me for a fool!" In front of all relatives and friends, the groom said a shocking thing.
In 2024, Xiaoya (pseudonym) and her boyfriend Xiaotian (pseudonym) have been in love for several years, and after understanding, they decided to enter the palace of marriage.
She chose a gorgeous Xiuhe, imagining the appearance of the groom when he picked her up, and her heart was full of anticipation, but she didn't expect that it was almost 11 o'clock at noon, but the groom's wedding party had not yet come.
Her house is not far from the groom's house, only about an hour away, but their family waited and waited, but they still didn't hear the sound of firecrackers outside.
Xiaoya's younger brother was in a hurry, and when he saw that his sister couldn't hold his face, he hurriedly called his brother-in-law to urge, and asked him if the car had broken down and put it on hold halfway, but he didn't expect that the groom had an indifferent attitude.
On the other end of the phone, he said coldly: "I won't get married this time!"
Xiaoya was stunned, she didn't know why the groom suddenly had this attitude, the groom had never treated her like this.
When she tried to ask him when, the groom's angry voice came, and everyone present heard: "What have you done yourself, don't you count in your heart?"
Xiaoya was silent, and then the groom said: "Don't think I don't know, you drank with a man last night and spent the night at his house!"
It turned out that Xiaoya was not at home last night to prepare for marriage, she went to a "male girlfriend" house to drink, saying that she wanted to celebrate her last "single night".
After drinking, the two were drunk, the male girlfriend said that it was inconvenient to drive her, Xiaoya spent the night at his house, until she woke up in the early morning, she hurried home, began to freshen up and wait for the groom.
Faced with the groom's questioning, Xiaoya hurriedly explained that she and her male girlfriend were pure friendship, even if they spent the night together, they were pure, and nothing happened.
But the groom Xiao Tian can't listen to her explanation, in his opinion, there is no pure friendship between men and women at all, he has endured it for a long time, when he made an appointment with Xiao Ya before, sometimes he would change his plan because of this "male girlfriend".
For the sake of his lover, he endured it, but he never expected that until the night before their wedding, male girlfriends would also appear, and even share a room with his bride, a lonely man and a widow, this time, he decided to have a direct showdown.
Xiaoya cried and cried, and explained to the phone for a long time, but Xiao Tian still replied coldly, taking advantage of the fact that the wedding had not yet been completed, and it was still too late to break up, so he hung up the phone after speaking.
After hanging up the phone, Xiaoya had a nervous breakdown, she sat on the ground, kept hitting herself, and a few bridesmaids beside her couldn't pull it.
I have been preparing for so long, finding relatives and friends, and attending my own wedding banquet, but in the end I made a big joke, no matter how much the bride cries, it is irreparable.
So, how should we look at this matter from a legal point of view?
1. According to article 1046 of the Civil Code, marriage shall be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and no one else shall interfere in any way.
On the eve of the wedding, when the groom Xiaotian learned that the bride did not return home at night and stayed alone with his male girlfriend all night, he had the right to choose to regret the marriage.
2. Article 1043 of the Civil Code shall attach importance to the construction of family civilization and promote family virtues.
Husband and wife should be faithful to each other, even if Xiaoya and male girlfriends are innocent, but lonely men and widows should also avoid suspicion, instead of being alone without scruples, if you want to learn from the West to hold a "bachelorette party", if you invite more friends, maybe you will not be misunderstood by the groom.
A good marriage was ruined because of the fault of one party, and the bride's actions were too unwise.
What do you think about this?Is there innocence between Xiaoya and her male girlfriend?
(Source: Financial News 2024.3.2, China.com "The day before the wedding, the bride asked a male girlfriend, and the groom regretted not coming to pick up the kiss after knowing it, and the bride collapsed instantly")
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