Recently, Xinyu Dating App and Hangzhou Marriage Association jointly held the twelfth lecture on "36 Strategies for Marriage and Love", inviting legal experts to share the happiness of remarriage again. As a professional marriage and love public welfare organization, Hangzhou Marriage and Family Association provides psychological counseling, legal and other public welfare services related to marriage and love. In this program, Mr. Tao Tao, President of Hangzhou Marriage and Family Association, and Zhang Heming, member of Hangzhou Marriage and Family Association and director of Zhejiang Law Firm, were invited. Tao Tao has been engaged in marriage and family consulting services for more than 20 years, and has very rich experience in solving marriage and love problems; Zhang Heming is the executive vice president of Hangzhou Marriage and Family Association, and has won the honors of National Advanced Individual for Safeguarding the Rights and Interests of Women and Children, and National Advanced Individual for Legal Aid. The two experts gave authoritative answers to the question of remarriage happiness.
First of all, in the face of the failure of marriage, the heart left a shadow, although also longing for love, but the fear of remarriage mentality, Tao Tao teacher believes that the fear of remarriage is very common, and also recognizes the cautious attitude of the heart friend towards his marriage. In the face of this problem, Mr. Tao Tao gave several suggestions: say goodbye to the past way of life, say goodbye to the person in the past, say goodbye to those things in the past, and welcome a new life.
Faced with a series of legal issues related to remarriage, Mr. Zhang Heming also gave some answers. The agreement between the parties that the child cannot remarry until the age of 18 is null and void. The right to freedom of marriage is a personal right granted to citizens by the Constitution and the Civil Code. On the premise of not violating the laws and regulations on marriage, citizens enjoy the freedom of marriage without interference from others.
Regarding the inheritance of the remarried spouse and children, lawyer Zhang Heming replied: The law stipulates that if the party has a will, the will shall prevail, and if there is no will, the inheritance shall be carried out according to the legal succession order. Both daughters and sons are equally divided in legal inheritance. Regarding the question of whether the remarried spouse has the right to inherit personal property before marriage, lawyer Zhang Heming pointed out that there is the right to inherit in statutory inheritance, and the remarried spouse belongs to the first heir in line and naturally has the right to inherit.
On the issue of joint loans between husband and wife after divorce, lawyer Zhang Heming believes that this situation belongs to the joint debts of husband and wife incurred during the marriage, and as a joint debtor, they naturally have to bear the responsibility of repayment. At the time of divorce, the parties agreed on which party would bear the loan, and this agreement is valid, but the effect is limited to the husband and wife, and cannot be used against a third party. If the creditor sues for repayment, it still has to bear the repayment liability, but after assuming the repayment liability, it can recover the repayment from the debtor according to the agreement signed with both parties.
Finally, for the emotional problems caused by remarriage, Mr. Tao Tao gave some suggestions. After remarrying and starting a family, attention should be paid to the principle of ranking----- the new marriage and family relationship take precedence over the old marriage and family relationship, the husband and wife relationship take precedence over the parent-child relationship and all other family relationships, and the blood relationship takes precedence over the non-blood relationship. Pay attention to handling skills----- cherish the present, respect history, face together, be true and honest, and determine boundaries.
The stepchild relationship after remarriage may be an important goal of the remarried family, Tao Tao teacher believes that this problem requires remarried couples to pay attention to selfishness, inferiority complex, and vigilance, stepfather and stepmother need to play the role of stepfather and stepmother, do not expect to replace the position of biological parents in the child's mind, encourage children to have more contact with biological parents, do not want to change the stepparent-child relationship immediately, respect, understand, and support the emotions and frustrations that stepchildren have experienced, do not take supervision, coercion, and threats to children, and have patience and love to let time. Space changes everything, don't deliberately create the illusion of family harmony, don't hurry up, tolerate and accept the differences and personality characteristics of each family member, don't elevate yourself, belittle the original family and parents, pay attention to a gentle attitude and proper way to discipline your stepchildren, don't rush to show your authority in the family.
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