In a relationship, there are often girls who ask such questions: Does he really love me? Does he want to marry me?
If you have such doubts, then the answer is already obvious, that is, he does not love you enough, and if he really loves you, it will not make you worry about it all day.
So, how do we judge whether the other person has real feelings for you, or just use you as a spare tire and want to play with your feelings?
In fact, if a woman wants to judge whether a man loves you or not, it is enough to pay attention to the performance of men in these two aspects.
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Pay attention to what men say and do
Words are the voice of the heart, and deeds are the extension of the voice of the heart. Men's emotional attitudes towards women are often unconsciously revealed in their words and deeds.
First of all, it depends on whether the man is willing to pay for you.
True love is something that is willing to give to the other person, and this kind of dedication is not only material, but more importantly, time, energy, and emotional investment.
A man who truly loves you will be willing to accompany you when you need it, he will care about your daily life, and he will solve your problems. He will also take your needs to heart and do his best to meet you.
On the contrary, if a man is always indifferent to you and is not willing to devote time and energy to you, then his feelings for you are definitely not true enough.
Second, observe whether men respect your opinions and choices.
A man who loves you will respect your independence and will not impose his will on you. He will listen carefully to your ideas, respect your decisions, and build an equal, harmonious relationship between you.
If a man is always dictating to you and never taking your feelings into account, then he has no respect for you and his love for you is greatly reduced.
Also, pay attention to how men approach you in public.
A man who truly loves you will give you enough attention and care in public to make you feel his love and respect.
He will pay attention to your mood changes and give you comfort and support in a timely manner. On the other hand, if a man is indifferent or even ignores you in public places, such as during meals or on the subway, then he must not have you in mind.
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Pay attention to men's emotional responses
Emotions are a direct manifestation of what you really feel inside, and by observing men's emotional reactions, we can gain a deeper understanding of their inner world.
First, observe the man's emotional state in front of you.
A man who loves you usually shows a positive, pleasant emotional state in front of you. He will be happy because of your joy and sad because of your sadness.
In his daily life, he will also try to make you feel his warmth and love, so that you feel at ease and comfortable around him.
On the contrary, if a man always shows indifference, impatience, or irritability in front of you, then he does not really love you.
Second, pay attention to the man's emotional reaction when faced with the problem between you.
A man who loves you, when faced with problems, will remain calm and rational and work with you to find solutions to problems. He will care about your feelings and will be willing to work hard for the development of your relationship.
On the other hand, if a man always likes to evade, shirk responsibility, or get angry when faced with problems or conflicts, then he doesn't really care much about you.
Finally, observe how the man behaves emotionally when he loses you.
True love is often accompanied by the fear of loss, and a man who loves you will show intense anxiety, insecurity, and distress when faced with a situation where he may lose you. He will try to redeem you and show his appreciation and reluctance to you.
On the contrary, if a man behaves indifferent or indifferent in the face of losing you, then his love for you is certainly not genuine.
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In short, when a man truly loves you, he will not be hot or cold towards you, and he will not contact you for a long time or disappear from playing with you.
True love is often traceable, if you love him, so that you can't feel love, in fact, it is "not love". So, don't try to change or do some menial useless work to make him fall in love with you.
If his love for you is not true enough, then the only thing you have to do is turn away and let yourself have the last dignity in the relationship.