1. Relatives want you to be good, but they don't want you to be better than him.
2. Don't ask when chatting with relatives: don't ask about your child's grades, don't ask about your child's object, and don't ask about your child's income.
3. When you work, you have to save money, and no one wants to try it a second time
4. When a friend borrows money from you, don't be busy agreeing or refusing, first understand the reason, if there is an emergency, for the sake of a good relationship between the two, help within the scope of your ability;
5. Take care of your mouth, say what you should say, don't say what you shouldn't say, talk about people when you see people, and talk about ghosts when you see ghosts.
6. Say something nice to get 50% of people, send something can get 70% of people, say just right, and send something that others like, you can get 90% of people;
7. Don't say anything that is done through a relationship.
8. The weak are always jealous and cautious, and the strong are always reminding and cultivating themselves.
9. When a bowl of water is uneven, sacrificing the kind one will be quelled, and if the kind one is unwilling, he will be deducted as an ignorant hat.
10. If you are alone in a rental house, you must close the door.
11. Think about it before spending money, and don't spend it if you can. Spending money is also to enhance one's ability to make money.
12. There are people outside the world, and there are heavens outside the sky, and showing off too much will only lead to unnecessary trouble and jealousy.
13. Respect the privacy of others, and do not inquire and disseminate at will. Respecting the privacy of others is the basic social etiquette, and only by not inquiring into and spreading the privacy of others at will can we maintain good interpersonal relationships.
14. A person's dignity is supported by his own ability, confidence, and strength.
15. If a friend works in a different place for three months, he can't be trusted, and three months is enough to change a person.
16. For a person who can't swim, it is useless to change to as many swimming pools as he wants.
17. Most people who like to swear will not keep their promises.
18. When others ask you how much your salary is, if your salary is 10,000 yuan, say 7,000 yuan to your family members, so that they can feel at ease; say 3,000 yuan to your relatives, you can be self-sufficient, you will not borrow money from them, and there is no extra money to borrow from;
19. You can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people. How can there be so many bosom friends, the better the person who starts to behave, the more he hurts you. When someone else comes over, you first smell what he smells like and what kind of heart he has.
20. Don't trust anyone easily, only the number in the bank card is the only sense of security.
21. If a person hates me, that's because he has a problem, and a group of people hates me, because they know each other.
22. Ask relatives and friends to borrow money, and the other party says to go home and discuss with his wife, in fact, this is a tactful refusal, don't hold out too much hope.
23. The person who stabs the knife in the back is usually an acquaintance, and only he knows where the knife is appropriate
24. Don't lend your own house to relatives as a wedding house.
25. Families with no money are full of laughter and jokes all day long.
26. The food just served on the wine table, you must know how to turn to the leader first, and the leader will definitely mind if you move the chopsticks first.
27. Don't think that acquaintances will treat you well, sometimes acquaintances are more terrible than strangers. If you weren't a friend, no one would ruin you.
28. People who look down on you are relatives, and those who are afraid that you are rich are acquaintances.
29. Don't always chat with those two or three colleagues, but know how to chat with different colleagues, which is called information exchange.
30. Indifference can save 80% of the trouble. No matter what the relationship is, it can't provide emotional value, can't give financial support, can't give positive companionship, and the three points don't account for the same, and it is wise to give up.
31. When a man is poor once, he will know which woman loves you the most; once a woman is ugly, he will know which man will not leave you; only once when he is down, he will know who cares about you the most.
32. Doing things is nothing more than people's hearts, and seeking things is nothing more than human nature, the most powerful thing in this world is not money, not power, but a way of thinking. Really powerful people are masters who play with people's hearts and are proficient in human nature.
33. The person who deceived you will still lie to you until you no longer believe him.
34. Stay away from people who habitually hit you and prohibit you from being excellent, even if it is a knife-mouthed tofu heart, try to stay away from it.
35. The mother's home is not stable, and the relatives are not full.
36. What should I do if someone invites you to dinner and doesn't call you? Smart people will choose not to ask, just don't know.
37. Most of the people who like to laugh when they see everyone are scheming.
38. Most people will want you to live well, but the premise is that they don't want you to live better than him.
39. Those who are self-disciplined are outstanding, and those who are self-defeating are out. There is no shortcut to success, repeat the simple things! Do the repeated things seriously!
40. WeChat application to add the other party as a friend, if the person fails to pass 2 times, don't try again.
41. Don't overestimate your relationship with anyone, the fish stinks for three days, the guest stays for three days, and the guest stays for more than three days, then it is not a guest, but a diaphragm.
42. If you regard a person of the opposite sex as your god or goddess, in fact, you subconsciously think that you are not worthy of him.
43. Don't give your savings to your children too early, the money is in the hands of others, and it has to go through the mouth of others, even if it is a child, it is difficult to speak.
44. The poor like to talk clichés and nonsense, the rich like to say cruel things and do cruel things, the poor always want to marry a beautiful woman as a wife, and the rich will only spend money on short-term rentals, because beauty is a depreciating product.
45. The more perfect the person behaves in front of you, the more they don't trust you.
46. Entrust someone to do things, don't say as soon as you come up: After the work is done, I won't treat you badly, and I will give it before I do it.
47. The salary is 10,000, 7,000 to the family, 3,000 to relatives, and about the same as you to the colleagues.
48. Adults can't just verbally express gratitude, material thanks is a compulsory course for adults.
49. In the process of work, things should be traced. This way, in the event of any controversy or misunderstanding, these records can be a strong proof for you.
50. Don't always say that let your child win at the starting line, your life is his starting line.
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