Last night (April 6), on "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", Luo Songhuai's nonsense that dancing can cure everything really made me roll my eyes. This dance teacher boasts that dancing makes him full of confidence and happiness, as if all the troubles of the world are wiped out when he dances. We know that art has its charms, but don't treat it as a master key, okay? Real life doesn't follow a stave, and there are some ups and downs that can't even be bypassed by Michael Jackson's resurrection!
Next, let's talk about the "romance" of science students. Li Changchun, a doctor of chemistry, came up with the sentence "I am sodium, you are water, and meeting is the most brilliant appearance". Is this a chemistry class or a funny scene? The romance of a science student is like a sudden burst of colored smoke from a laboratory, which is stunning for a while, but then only the pungent smell of the room remains. It's not that I look down on it, this kind of romance is said to say, not to mention flirting with the girl, and even the beaker next to it has to laugh.
Let's take a look at Guo Qi's confession of "your conditions are my hard conditions", which directly made me happy. This is said as if he has won the lottery, as if every trait in the other party is the aura of the chosen son. It's really strange, what about your own standards? Could it be that as soon as you meet someone you like, you will retire from the previous set of selection conditions? This kind of desperate love sounds romantic, but in fact it is a bit reckless, love in life needs not only impulsiveness, but also a little sanity, okay?
Luo Songhuai has a set of love concepts that combine art and science. He fantasizes about finding a science partner to make life more colorful. It sounds like a perfect drama of arts and sciences, but it makes me want to ask: this brother, are you in love or engaged in a discipline integration project? The most attractive thing in love should be the spiritual fit of two people, rather than you competing with me to see whose discipline is more advanced. Love needs feelings and tacit understanding, not interdisciplinary research.
A long-distance relationship sounds very romantic, isn't it "you are at the head of the bridge, I am at the end of the bridge"? Luo Songhuai and his long-distance relationship are maintained by takeout and video calls, which sounds trendy and loving. But honestly, can this thing really replace the actual hug and kiss of real people? I think this is just the emotional barren self-comfort of modern people. Eating in front of the screen, no matter how fragrant the takeaway is, it can't compete with the little body temperature of the person opposite. We want a physical hug, not a virtual hug in front of a cold screen, which sounds creative, but in the long run, it's just a mental self-comfort.
When love becomes an experiment, what is left of the taste of feelings? Li Changchun's "love treaty" is quite fresh, and it is a small treaty that seriously plans the world of the two. But how does it sound like an operation process in a laboratory? Does the world of feelings need to be so rational? Life is not a laboratory, and love is not a step-by-step experimental operation. Love needs to be casual and unlimited. Normalizing love life into a treaty, this kind of love sounds like an experimental report, without waves and lack of emotional temperature. We want the feeling of a pounding heartbeat, not the shackles of a cold treaty.
Does the romance of the science and engineering man really exist? Or is it just a well-planned show? Although Li Changchun's attempt at this science and engineering man is commendable, one can't help but wonder if this is a genuine romance, or is it improvised to meet the challenges on the stage? The science and engineering man is labeled as "not romantic", although it is a little unfair, but from another angle, if you usually talk about mathematics at the head of the way, and suddenly change your face and say "I am sodium, you are water", this changes too quickly, right? We like the emotions that flow naturally, rather than the so-called "romance" that is done in a step-by-step manner, like an experiment.
Li Nianxuan wants to dance a pas de deux with Luo Songhuai, this combination of classical and modern sounds full of artistic atmosphere, but in fact, it is a matter of whether it can create sparks. Imagine a classical dancer with light steps and a graceful posture, and a modern dancer with strong rhythms and flamboyant movements, and this combination sounds like a rock candy thrown in a hot pot. Perhaps, this kind of cross-border attempt is more of a self-challenge and display, and what can really move people's hearts is the tacit cooperation and sincere emotional expression of both parties, rather than a simple innovation in dance style.
Oops, when it comes to this "I am sodium, you are water" chemical love story, I have to admit that this new era of love expression is really fresh and hilarious. It's like moving the reaction in the chemistry textbook to a love letter, which sounds unfathomable, but I don't know if the other party can really understand it, or can only laugh and think, "Is this talking to me about aliens?" It's just that, don't let romance become an open class, so that the other party has to take notes in a notebook to understand your love.
In this high-tech era, although we can video chat, and even watch movies and share dinner together through virtual reality, is that temperature, the feeling of being hugged tightly by a loved one, just lost in the digital signal? How can the warmth between couples be maintained by traffic and signal strength? Such a way of celebrating the festival can't help but make people sigh that no matter how advanced science and technology are, it can't replace the real gathering of two people.
Speaking of "your conditions are my hard conditions", this sentence sounds really sensational, and it is a bit of a climax of a TV series. But, oh my God, what the hell is this kind of unconditional surrender? Is there really such an absolute obedience in love? Isn't this kind of emotional acceptance setting up a big hole that may make you regret it in the future? True love is beautiful, but blindly following without setting a bottom line is like betting all over on the emotional table, and if you win, you can become a love winner, but if you lose? Directly overwhelmed by the waves of emotion, there is not even a lifebuoy.