Preface
A funeral is underway, but the family of the deceased is particularly eye-catching, the gray-haired widow with two childish faces standing at the front, looking like grandchildren, but the face is extremely similar.
The widow in front of her is named Sheng Hailin, and it was her husband who died, and these two immature girls are not her granddaughters, but her biological daughters. Now that her husband has died, the sadness of her and her daughter can be imagined.
Sheng Hailin's husband's funeral was simple but solemn, and relatives and friends looked at the surviving person who was over the age of six, but their eyes were full of pity and worry, especially the two young daughters who were still studying, and their future was even more worrying.
Sheng Hailin is already so old, why did she give birth to such a pair of daughters? It turns out that there is a sad story in this!
Lost his only daughter in an accident
Sheng Hailin originally had a happy family, she was a doctor who saved lives, her husband Wu Jingzhou was a soldier who served the country loyally, married for many years, and fell in love, but due to the nature of work, the husband and wife got together less and left more, and they never had children.
Seeing that Sheng Hailin was almost thirty years old, not only her relatives and family members were anxious, but even the units of both sides were anxious. In the anticipation of family and colleagues, the couple's only daughter, Yingying, was born.
Sheng Hailin carefully cared for her daughter's growth, and her husband loved her daughter to the bone, but whenever the child mentioned something he liked, the relatives of the Wu Sheng family hated to go out with the whole family, for fear that the little princess would be disappointed if she bought it late.
Yingying thrives in love and care, and the couple will educate her with excellent character and learning, lively and cheerful and generous, without the slightest arrogance. Sheng Hailin has become a very famous parenting star in the circle of relatives and friends, showing a happy smile every day.
Yingying graduated with excellent grades, and her daughter inherited her father's business and became an officer, and what made Sheng Hailin even happier was that her daughter fell in love soon, the two were really talented and beautiful, which made the old couple very satisfied, and soon her daughter was happily married.
After her daughter got married, she often took her son-in-law home to live, and her son-in-law was a young man with a great sense of responsibility, who loved his wife very much, and was also very filial to his father-in-law and mother-in-law. Just when Sheng Hailin felt that her life was complete and she had no regrets, tragedy happened.
During the Spring Festival of 2009, after the family had a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, the young couple planned to return to their in-laws' house to pay their respects. At noon on the fifth day of the new year, my daughter reported to Sheng Hailin that she had arrived at her in-laws' house, and said that the drive for a few days was too hard, and her daughter had an accident on the morning of the sixth day of the new year!
After receiving a call from her in-laws, Sheng Hailin still didn't believe her ears, how could it be? How could the baby who was still coquettish with herself last night suddenly be poisoned by gas? How could she not be saved? How old is her Yingying!
In the corridor of the hospital, Sheng Hailin was completely out of control, all medical knowledge and reason were gone, she was just a mother who was crazy in pain, pulling the doctor's clothes like a shrew and paralyzing on the ground crying helplessly, not listening to anyone.
A surprising decision
The bad news of the unexpected death of Yingying and his wife directly knocked Sheng Hailin and his wife down. For a long time, Sheng Hailin couldn't break tears in her eyes at all.
At home, the breath of her daughter has always permeated her side, but she can never come back.
The husband who has been heroic all his life suddenly collapsed his waist. The two couples are sixty years old, and the only one daughter has died suddenly, leaving no offspring, this blow is too heavy, and there is no way for the two of them to alleviate it.
Until the familiar doctor seriously warned the couple that her husband's cardiovascular and cerebrovascular problems had serious problems, and Sheng Hailin's retina was also in danger of falling off due to long-term crying, "It's a pity for the child, but do the adults have to follow?"
The advice of his colleagues has brought Sheng Hailin and his wife back to some senses, how can they alleviate the unforgettable pain of losing their daughter? The husband and wife looked at each other, smiled bitterly and shook their heads, it is impossible to have another child, let's see if they can adopt a child.
For a long time, the couple have been running around for their children, but adopting a child is not as simple as imagined, the couple have visited the children in the welfare home, and also inquired about the orphans of martyrs, children in disaster areas, etc.
In the end, she couldn't help but think of her daughter. When I came back, I would always look at the woman's photo stupidly, and I would cry and be sad for several days.
Blossom and get two daughters
When the old couple sighed and worried every day, Sheng Hailin ran home happily one day and told her husband that she had decided to do IVF and have another child, but her husband was stunned and resolutely opposed.
As a man, Lao Wu's thoughts are very realistic and objective: Sheng Hailin is 59 years old, she has long been menopause, she has long passed the age of childbearing, and if she wants to obtain follicles, it is simply a fantasy, and even if there is, the health of the child cannot be guaranteed.
Economic problems, doing IVF is a choice that requires strong economic strength, the old couple has worked hard for half their lives, although they have a certain amount of savings, but if they do IVF, it is still a big financial burden.
What's more, even if they really give birth to a child, raising a child also requires financial strength, and both of them are not young, can they raise a child well with only the savings in their hands? In the end, both of them are over sixty years old, and their physical condition is not good.
Ten years later, the two of them are over seventy years old, and the children are still young, if there is an accident, who will the children rely on? However, Lao Wu's worries did not deter Sheng Hailin, she looked at her husband with red eyes: "I just want a child."
Looking at his wife who was crying, Lao Wu sighed helplessly, knowing that the early death of his beloved daughter had made his wife lose the motivation to live, and if there was no new hope, his wife would probably not survive.
In order for his wife to come out, Lao Wu agreed.
In order to get healthy follicles, Sheng Hailin suffered unimaginable, exercising every day, taking all kinds of medicines, not to mention the sin of progesterone injection.
After suffering countless hardships and spending more money like dripping water, finally one day, after careful examination by the doctor, he happily informed the old couple that this time it was finally successful, and it was twins. Sheng Hailin cried with joy and began the long October pregnancy protection.
In 2010, Sheng Hailin successfully gave birth to a pair of twin baby girls, and the news that the sixty-year-old woman who lost her lone and gave birth to a daughter became explosive news for a while.
After the confinement, Sheng Hailin hugged her twin daughters and went to the cemetery of the eldest daughter, she looked at Yingying's quiet smile with tears, and muttered, "Baby, this is your sisters, don't worry about your parents, my sister will accompany us in the future!"
It is difficult for husbands and daughters to travel
Sheng Hailin lovingly named her daughter Zhizhi and Huihui, hoping that they would be smart and healthy.
As his daughter grows up, Lao Wu's worries are fulfilled one by one.
In order to conceive a child, Sheng Hailin has spent most of the family's savings, and now that the child is growing, the couple is even more reluctant to wronged the child, so the family's financial situation began to be stretched.
Thinking that the children would have to go to school in the future and receive the best education, Sheng Hailin was ruthless and began to go out to work at the age of sixty, leaving her two children to be taken care of by her husband and nanny.
As the children grow up, the old couple feels more and more powerless, especially Lao Wu, his heart is not good, and the two children need to get up all the time, Lao Wu is not worried about the nanny to take care of them, and they come and go, and naturally rest is not good.
In 2016, Lao Wu suddenly got up in order to take care of Huihui, who jumped up and down from the bed, and then became dizzy and went into shock. Sheng Hailin was so shocked that she rushed to the hospital overnight, only to learn that Lao Wu had a stroke.
Her husband lost her ability to move, and the children were still young, so all the pressure was on Sheng Hailin's body for a while, and every night, looking at her haggard and thin husband and a pair of daughters waiting to be fed, she would always secretly blame herself and cry.
Slowly, she began to learn to reconcile with herself, work less, spend more time with her husband and daughter, and do her best to take care of her family and take care of herself. As the daughters grow up, they are well-behaved and sensible, helping their mothers take care of their fathers.
In 2023, Lao Wu, who has been sick for many years, still reluctantly closes his eyes with his concern for his wife and love for his daughters. Although Lao Wu has been ill for several years, his sudden departure still makes the mother and daughter feel that the sky has collapsed.
At the funeral, the daughters knelt in front of their father's tablet and kowtowed, crying so much that although Sheng Hailin's eyes were full of tears, they were full of unyielding and strong, she looked at the eyes of her husband in the portrait, and silently thought: Don't worry, I will raise my daughters.
Today, Sheng Hailin is still running around on the road of making money and raising her daughter, and a friend once asked her if she regretted giving birth to the twin daughters?
At last
Regarding the choice of Sheng Hailin, an elderly man who lost her independence, there are many debates on the Internet so far, some praise her as a heroic and great mother, admire her strength and bravery, and quite a few netizens disagree with her behavior.
If there is an accident with a sixty-year-old girl, the girl is likely to be reduced to the point where she has lost her relatives and has no obstacles to rely on, so why should the children be innocent? They have to bear the pain of losing their relatives at an early age, and are they irresponsible to the children?
Fortunately, Sheng Hailin is still healthy now, and the children are also thriving, what do you think of these two points of view?
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