In order to please the cheating man, the junior pretends to be virtuous, how should the wife solve the extramarital affair?
What does it mean to do things according to human nature?
To put it bluntly, you have to understand what other people are thinking.
Able to understand others and at the same time gain insight into the weaknesses of human nature.
Only by knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent can you survive a hundred battles, you don't know about cheating men and mistresses.
It is a tear by hand, not only has no effect, but it is easy to be counterattacked!
Think twice before you act, find out the enemy's weaknesses before acting.
Before, an original partner confided in Su Yue, saying that her husband couldn't see through the true face of Xiao San,
Xiao San is obviously a woman who is not enterprising and lazy.
But because the original partner is a strong woman in her career, the cheating man feels that the original partner is not a good wife and mother enough.
Looking for a mistress is to find a woman who is different from his wife,
Xiao San saw this clearly, so he did what he liked, pretending to be the appearance that the cheating man liked.
The cheating man still believes in Xiao San very much, and thinks that Xiao San is the virtuous woman he likes.
The wife found out the real situation and found some evidence to cheat on the man.
The cheating man didn't believe it, but felt that his wife was framing the mistress.
Although the cheating man will not divorce for this junior who is not as good as his wife,
But he didn't want to break up with Xiao San, and his wife couldn't accept a threesome, so she came to Su Yue and asked what to do.
Now that she knows that Xiao San is in disguise, what her wife needs to do is to let Xiao San reveal her true colors.
But don't think about it, you directly tell the cheating man that the mistress is pretending,
The cheating man felt that what his wife said was true, and then he went to find the real side of the mistress.
Even if the wife provides some evidence, the cheating man will not believe it.
On the one hand, it is because people are always more convinced of the situation that they recognize.
Compared with what his wife said, the cheating man believes more in what he sees and feels.
The mistress is very virtuous in front of the cheating man, and the cheating man believes in the mistress.
On the other hand, the wife and the mistress are opposites.
The cheating man knew that his wife wanted to break up him and the mistress,
So what the wife says and does, the cheating man will be defensive and will not believe it easily.
The wife said that the mistress was not good, and the cheating man would only think that his wife was using means and scheming.
is preparing for the breakup of the cheating man and the mistress, so naturally he won't believe it.
So don't talk to the cheating man directly, but guide the cheating man to find out for himself.
Sometimes wives may need to take risks,
For example, forcing the cheating man to live with the junior for a period of time,
Since Xiao San is disguised, she is not a virtuous woman herself,
She can disguise for a while, and it is absolutely impossible to do things against her character all the time,
Usually cheating men and mistresses don't have many opportunities to meet, and they don't meet every day.
Twice a week, together for a few hours each time, cheating men rarely spend the night at the mistress's side,
So the junior pretends to be a few hours a week, and he can still pretend to be able to go down.
But the cheating man went to live with the mistress, except for the cheating man who went to work,
The rest of the time, the junior has to pretend, and people will feel doubly tired when they do what they don't want to do.
The junior will feel physically and mentally exhausted, and the cheating man will take it for granted,
The junior will inevitably be dissatisfied, and the cheating man may not be aware of it.
The wives drove the cheating man to the mistress, not completely ignoring the cheating man and the mistress,
It's about paying attention, looking for a junior from time to time, finding a cheating man,
Analyze it from their words, especially the state of the junior.
It's no longer a state of showing off and proud, there is some meaning of being strong on the outside and doing something in the middle.
The wife can start to take the opportunity to break up the relationship between the cheating man and the mistress.
What the wife has to do is to let the mistress know more that you are not cheating on a man, and you are living a very chic life.
Although the cheating man lives with the mistress, he still does not plan to divorce.
The cheating man treats the mistress as a free nanny, and the original partner has nothing to lose, and he saves money on taking care of the cheating man.
The words were suppressed, which angered the mistress, and made the mistress's already unstable mood completely collapse.
In this way, the mistress will not be able to pretend and begin to contradict the cheating man.
A little bit in the contradictions, revealing the true face of the little three,
The cheating man needs to see the exposure of the mistress and discover the true face of the mistress himself.
He will be sure of what the mistress is like, and it is a wrong choice for him to find the mistress.
The cheating boy takes the initiative to end the extramarital affair, and the extramarital affair will end completely.
In the end, Su Yue wanted to say that not all extramarital affairs can be solved by conventional means.
Many cases are special, and wives also need to have the courage and courage to go off the rails.
The junior does what he likes to the cheating man, and all kinds of coax the cheating man,
The wife knew that the mistress was disguised, and you saw the true face of the mistress.
The cheating man doesn't trust you, you can't debunk the cheating man,
Then what you have to do is to find a way to let the cheating man see the truth himself.
Instead of blindly wanting to debunk the mistress, blindly trying to prove the disguise of the cheating man to see the mistress,
People always believe that what they perceive and approve, and this is human nature.
To solve extramarital affairs, you need to do things according to human nature.
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