Wang Shuo once said: "In the world, the purest relationship is the relationship of money. ”
Indeed, although life in the world is not all about money, it can also be said that a person is most sober in facing money and talking about benefits generously.
After all, a relationship can be relaxed only if you can talk about money, and a relationship can last long if you talk about money generously.
Talking about money between friends is frank
Many people talk about "money" and feel that when they talk about money, they will hurt each other's feelings.
However, talking about money between friends is a kind of openness and trust.
A few days ago, Hua Hua took over an advertising design job from a friend's company.
At first, the communication between the two parties was smooth, and the friend even made an advance payment.
However, after the design was completed and accepted by the other party, the friend did not mention the final payment.
At first, my friend was still sorry, but later, he kept saying that it was the third party's reason, and he waited and waited, and the message was not returned.
Thinking that it was a friend, Hua Hua was not always urging, but he secretly made up his mind in his heart that he would never be able to make this friend again in the future.
And this friend is in stark contrast to Huahua's other friend, Xiaoqi.
Hua Hua and Xiao Qi are good friends who grew up together, one studying design and the other studying software engineering.
Say that after graduating from college, we will start a business together and start our own anime journey.
At the beginning of the cooperation, Hua Hua said that friends don't need to be so clear.
But Xiaoqi still insisted on being a brother, and he also had to settle accounts, and even wrote a cooperation sharing agreement.
At first, even if the division was not much, the two worked together very happily, and never affected each other's friendship because of the lack of money.
It has been said that between friends, there should never be interests involved.
Because when it comes to money, you never know what the other person will become.
However, no one lives in a vacuum, and a friendship can last forever without intertwined interests.
The better the friendship and the closer the relationship, the more you have to negotiate the money clearly.
In this way, not only will it be easier for both parties to get along, but the relationship will also be more stable.
As the saying goes, brothers, settle accounts.
A good relationship must be built on the basis of not hiding from each other and talking generously about money.
Good cooperation must also be based on mutual respect, value recognition, and equivalent returns.
Source: Visual China
Talking about money between husband and wife is cherishing
If it is said that when friends talk about money, it is a frankness between "brothers", then when husband and wife talk about money, it must be a mutual cherishment between partners.
A marriage that can talk about money can be more stable and long-lasting.
A netizen shared such an experience.
More than ten years ago, when she and her husband just got married, the living expenses of the two were in the AA system.
She has always been worried that her husband will look down on her, so she never dares to take the initiative to ask for money.
Even, even the prenatal examination fee and the child's milk powder money are paid by themselves.
And the husband doesn't care about this, and even always feels that giving birth to a child is his wife's business, and it has nothing to do with him, as long as he takes care of himself, he can do it.
It's just that after the birth of a child, there are more and more places where money needs to be spent.
The first time the wife opened her mouth to ask for money, the husband said that he had no money.
At this time, she realized that she had borne the trivialities of life.
Therefore, all the money in the husband's hands was used for gambling, not only lost all his savings, but also owed a large amount of foreign debt.
At this time, she had the heart to divorce.
However, she cherishes this marriage from the bottom of her heart and cherishes this family.
Later, the couple made the issue of money clear, and after discussion, the two transferred their monthly wages to a joint account and took out part of the money as the family's living expenses.
At this time, the husband realized that he had lost not only his savings, but also the support of a family.
So, he began to slowly retract his gambling heart and run the family with his wife.
After they started talking about money, they discussed everything, and they understood each other's difficulties and the hardships of life.
In the book "Buying Intimacy", it says: "Money and emotion are mutually reinforcing. ”
When many couples fall in love, they are ashamed to talk about money because of their face, which has planted a lot of time bombs for their marriage.
The firewood, rice, oil, and salt in life need money, and children's milk powder diapers also need money.
Learning to talk to your partner about money is both an honesty and a cherishing.
In marriage, only by learning to talk about money can the other party learn to bear it and let yourself find support.
Source: Visual China
Talking about money in the workplace is recognition
As the saying goes: when people have money, they have motivation to work.
It is true that people work because they need to make money. With money, you can live well and live better.
The boss talks about money generously, which is the greatest recognition and respect for employees.
One of the most important factors in Huawei's success is that Ren Zhengfei is very generous to his employees.
This approach not only allowed him to retain many outstanding talents, but also cultivated a team with a fighting spirit.
Huawei is one of the Fortune 500 companies that is not listed, and Huawei has implemented a virtual equity system internally, and all employees hold shares.
According to more data, the proportion of employee shareholding accounts for more than 90%, and its founder and president Ren Zhengfei only holds 1.01% of the company's shares.
In addition to salaries and bonuses, dividends account for a significant proportion of Huawei's employees' income.
This keeps employees motivated.
On the other hand, many companies can save on the wages of their employees.
If the performance is good, you can pay an extra month's salary at the end of the year, and if the performance is not good, it is estimated that even this money will be saved.
Some bosses also like to "talk" with their employees: "Don't worry too much about salary, when you are young, the most important thing is to grow." ”
However, Huawei always puts the interests of its employees first.
Even, the more difficult the company, the more poor the performance, the more we must give employees the treatment they deserve.
Huawei has also established a scientific and reasonable compensation system and incentive mechanism to share the company's development achievements with employees.
This has also greatly reduced Huawei's job-hopping rate and turnover rate.
Ren Zhengfei said: "Any strong company can't talk to employees about feelings, but use income to stimulate everyone's creativity, so that employees become strong and self-improving." ”
For employees, talking generously with the company about money is also a recognition of their own respect and self-work value.
Therefore, in the workplace, there is no shame in talking about money.
While bringing value to the company, we get the corresponding remuneration, which is our right as a "worker".
Source: Visual China
Yang Jiang once said: "Money is a material need, and happiness is a spiritual satisfaction." ”
Indeed, the economic base determines the superstructure.
Although money is not everything, no money is absolutely impossible.
A relationship that dares to talk about money can be more stable. You have to believe:
A friend who talks to you about money is more real than a friend who only talks to you about friendship;
A person who talks to you about money loves you more than someone who only talks to you about feelings;
A leader who talks to you about money is more reliable than a leader who only talks to you about feelings.
When people reach middle age, the more things they experience, the more they understand that when it is time to talk about money, they are not shy and twisted, which is the real maturity and wisdom.
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Author: Xiaoyi.