Thank you for your support by clicking "Follow", which is not only convenient for you to discuss and share, but also can bring you a different sense of participation, thank you for your support!
Musical paths
1999 was a turning point for musician Dai Jun. Over the years, he has won countless admirers in the music industry with his magnetic voice and outstanding creative talent.
Just when his career was at its peak, an unprecedented confusion enveloped his mind.
On that sunny morning, Dai Jun sat alone in the recording studio, his fingers plucking the guitar strings for a while. This was originally the scene he was most familiar with and loved, but at this moment, his brows were tightly locked and his expression was solemn.
Do you still want to stick to this thorny musical path? Dai Jun fell into deep contemplation.
After much deliberation, he finally made a difficult decision - to say goodbye to his music career for the time being, change tracks, and find a new direction of development. As a singer-songwriter, leaving the stage is undoubtedly a painful choice.
But Dai Jun knows that only in this way can he regain his passion for life.
At this juncture, a phone call from a TV station brought Dai Jun a new opportunity. A choreographer called inexplicably and asked him if he was willing to participate in a talk show and serve as a host.
This is undoubtedly a new challenge, but for the energetic Dai Jun, he has no choice but to take on it bravely.
The trajectory of life
The director's phone call opened the door to a new life for Dai Jun. Although the status of the host seems to be incompatible with his musical background, Dai Jun does not dwell too much, and he has a gut feeling that this job may bring him unexpected surprises.
Sure enough, at the recording site, Dai Jun got acquainted with a colleague who made him awe-inspired-Li Jing. She was originally an excellent host, with a professional and energetic demeanor at work, and her enthusiastic attitude is unforgettable.
Soon, Li Jing discovered the unique charm of Dai Jun.
So, in the interval of a recording, Li Jing boldly sent an invitation to Dai Jun, hoping to partner with him and participate in the next program recording. For a while, Dai Jun felt a little confused, after all, as a musician, he didn't have much experience in hosting this job.
But on the other hand, Li Jing left a really good impression on him, and he had great admiration for the hostess.
After a brief hesitation, Dai Jun finally chose to accept the challenge. He believes that as long as he fights side by side with Li Jing, he will be able to make a breakthrough in a new career path.
In this way, fate tricked two unrelated people together without warning, and they became a community of destiny from strangers, writing a moving chapter in the exchange of life.
Deep friendship
In this way, Dai Jun and Li Jing started a new career as co-hosts. In the first few episodes of the program, the two did seem a little rusty and reserved.
After all, they come from completely different backgrounds, almost like strangers. But gradually, through continuous communication and running-in, they cultivated an unexpected tacit understanding between them.
As time went on, the show they co-hosted, Super Interview, grew in popularity and ratings climbed. Although the format of the show is very simple, it is full of strong human touch and has deeply touched the hearts of countless audiences.
It is this show that has achieved a deep friendship between Dai Jun and Li Jing.
At first, they were just working partners, but they soon discovered that they had a lot in common. Dai Jun is sunny and energetic, humorous, and can always make Li Jing laugh at the show; Li Jing, on the other hand, always looks gentle and elegant, giving timely encouragement and care to Dai Jun when he needs support.
Sometimes Dai Jun would feel tired from work, and Li Jing would thoughtfully brew him a cup of fragrant coffee; And when Li Jing encounters some difficult questions, Dai Jun will also answer them patiently and meticulously.
In this way, they often talk to each other after work and discuss the bits and pieces of life.
The famous director Ang Lee once said, "Real performance is to face your inner thoughts truthfully". The long-term cooperation has allowed Dai Jun and Li Jing to see through each other's inner world and establish a deep friendship beyond ordinary friends.
Dai Jun sincerely praised "Li Jing is the only heroine in my career"; And Li Jing also sincerely said, "Dai Jun is like a family member by my side, no matter when and where, he will be by my side."
wedding
Everything was stormy until one day in 2003, a major event happened that changed the friendship between Dai Jun and Li Jing.
It was a sunny day, with a white carpet and bright daylight shining through the stained glass.
The groom Huang Xiaomao was dressed in a crisp suit and was full of energy, while the bride Li Jing next to him was covered with lace tulle and was very shy. When they clasped their hands tightly and slowly walked to the altar with the blessings of all the guests, Dai Jun's heart was full of mixed feelings.
As a close friend, of course, he is sincerely happy that Li Jing has found the other half of her life, and hopes that she will be happily married. But on the other hand, how can the feelings he secretly harbor for this woman easily give up? Dai Jun was entangled in every way and couldn't sleep at night.
He was in great pain, but he also knew that this was a helpless fact.
On the wedding day, Huang Xiaomao was enthusiastic and attentive. From time to time, he would cast a loving gaze, and then take Li Jing's hand, as if holding the treasure of the whole world.
Dai Jun, on the side, was trying to suppress the sadness in his heart. He forced a smile and offered his most sincere wishes to the two newlyweds, but he couldn't hide the gloomy look in his eyes.
However, when Li Jing turned around and threw a grateful glance at him, Dai Jun's heart softened again. This woman is the most important person in his life! How many days and nights he secretly called her name, looking forward to the fate of life to go to the end with her.
After the wedding, in the face of doubts from the outside world, Dai Jun admitted that he did not give Li Jing sincere blessings. He said: "Since Li Jing got married, I have not been able to sincerely bless her.
But I hope from the bottom of my heart that this woman can be happy because she is the most important person in my life.
Genuine friendship
Despite all the contradictions and struggles in her heart, the deep friendship between Dai Jun and Li Jing has never changed because of her marriage. In the days after marriage, whenever Huang Xiaomao went on a business trip, Li Jing would call and invite Dai Jun to come as a companion.
So, Dai Jun would drive to Li Jing's house in the dust. As soon as I opened the door, I was greeted by Li Jing's familiar smile. She would thoughtfully prepare delicious home-cooked dishes for Dai Jun, and the two would eat and chat happily, talking about work and life.
Occasionally, Li Jing would bring out a brand new outfit and ask Dai Jun's opinion. Dai Jun will look at it carefully and give a pertinent evaluation with a sharp eye. Sometimes he inadvertently showed a hint of melancholy, but as long as he heard Li Jing's warm comfort, he could instantly regain his former glory.
In this way, Dai Jun became the closest friend of Li Jing's family. At the same time, however, a very different side of him was discovered. He became more reticent and often fell into meditation alone, indifferent to everything around him.
Even on the recording site, I often wander for no reason, and my eyes are dull.
Fortunately, under Li Jing's enthusiastic care, Dai Jun gradually came out of the haze and regained his strength. However, in the face of those who are angry with him, he has never responded positively.
It's just that one night, when a friend privately asked him if he would choose to pursue Li Jing if he could do it all over again, Dai Jun didn't speak for a long time, just quietly stared at the stars outside the window.
"If I could do it all over again, I would still choose to pursue her, but I wouldn't be so persistent. After a while, he finally spoke slowly, and his tone was calm: "Because she has married another wife, I am not qualified to disturb her life anymore."
But no matter what, I will love her as always until the last breath of the rest of my life.