When we mention the 53-year-old "older" single person, the first thing that comes to many people's minds may be the frustration and loneliness of life, after all, there are too many voices in society telling us that not marrying and having children seems to be a failure in life, but this is really a joke for Dai Jun, he is a living example, telling us that "no marriage and no child" can also live a wonderful life, today let's talk about this different "older single dog", to see how he is in this stressful society, Find your own happiness and meaning in life
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At the beginning, what we are most concerned about is to talk about the society's views on singleness, have you noticed that there are always people around you who are asking "When will you get married?" Or, "Aren't you going to have children?" This kind of question makes many single people sometimes really puzzled: I like to live a lifestyle that shouldn't be scrutinized by others, right? The quality of life should not be determined by marriage! And Dai Jun has just become the negative teaching material for these questions, and his choice proves that the value of life is really not directly related to marriage
Dai Jun is 53 years old and still chooses not to marry and have children, which is a brave choice, you say, he chooses to be single, isn't he lonely? In fact, Dai Jun lived a kind of free and chic life, he focused on his career, became an excellent host and musician, in this industry, he is undoubtedly a leader, looking back on these years, his achievements in the field of music and television, whether it is the songs he has sung or the programs he hosts, are part of his choice, his success does not come by marriage, but through his own efforts and persistence
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Let's take a look at Dai Jun's interpersonal relationships, the friendship he has, so that many married people are envious, in his life, friends are an indispensable part, Dai Jun and friends have nothing to talk about, support each other, even in the most difficult moments of life, they still accompany each other, share the ups and downs of life, their friendship has gone beyond the label of single or marriage, understanding and companionship between each other is the most important, whether it is a party, travel, or the daily time spent together, All of this makes his life full of warmth
Speaking of which, many people have a high evaluation of Dai Jun, they think that he is a person who lives transparently, because he does not pursue secular recognition, but manages to find his own happiness, Dai Jun once said: "Life is a journey, the key is how far you are willing to go," such an attitude makes many people ignore, that is, everyone is the director of their own life, and every road they choose to take is determined by themselves
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The choice of not marrying and having children, in fact, provided him with more freedom and also gave him a deeper understanding of life, he proved in his own way that his true understanding and cognition of himself is the foundation of the pursuit of happiness, he never felt regrets, but often grateful for those shining moments in life
Here, we have to mention that the lifestyle represented by Dai Jun provides us with new possibilities, we can choose not to marry or have children, and still reap the abundance of life; It is also possible to be bound by the traditional marriage model and lose the pursuit of self, no matter what the choice, the most important thing is to understand that happiness is embodied in every moment of life, not just the traditional sense of the family
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Dai Jun's story is a powerful response to lifestyle choices, encouraging us to pay more attention to our own true needs rather than blindly following others, there are countless ways of life in this world, each of which can be the path to happiness, as long as we dare to live our own lives, admit our choices, and truly adhere to our own values, that is the confidence that everyone should have in this society
Perhaps, at least in Dai Jun's life, "no marriage and no child" is not synonymous with loneliness, but a kind of in-depth thinking about life with the unity of knowledge and action, happiness is not defined by others, happiness is what you and I feel at the moment, no matter how the society changes, the freedom of individuals to choose their way of life is gratifying, here, let us live a more real and wonderful life together!
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