I am Chen Xiuying, a woman who has experienced the ups and downs of life. At the age of 53, I have been retired for many years, and my only son has started a family. However, the peace of life did not last long, because of the illness of Lao Liu, who remarried, made my life ripple again.
It has been ten years since Lao Liu and I remarried, and over the years, we have supported each other and faced the ups and downs of life together. However, while Lao Liu was hospitalized, he was dissatisfied that his son did not take care of him like his ex-husband, and even took his son to court.
I understand Lao Liu's feelings, he feels that he has raised my son for ten years and paid 350,000 yuan for the house, which is more than his ex-husband. Therefore, he thinks that my son should treat him like an ex-husband. However, I feel that Lao Liu is a little difficult to be strong. The ex-husband was hospitalized, and the son, as a son, naturally had to take care of him. And when Lao Liu is hospitalized, I will also take care of him wholeheartedly. But it is indeed unrealistic to let his son treat Lao Liu like his ex-husband.
Fortunately, after the persuasion of me and Lao Liu's biological son, Lao Liu finally withdrew the lawsuit, allowing us and our son to live a peaceful life. However, this incident made me reflect on whether it was necessary for me to continue my remarried life.
My ex-husband and I fell in love when we were in technical school, when we were young and frivolous and full of hope for the future. However, the reality of life has led us further and further away. My ex-husband works in the field all the year round, we get together less and leave more, and after the birth of our son, it caused a family conflict because he didn't look like his ex-husband. Eventually, we chose to divorce and I was left alone with my son.
After the divorce, I also had a period of reflection and regret, feeling that my approach was too extreme. However, when I met Lao Liu, I felt that there was new hope in my life. Lao Liu is a kind and responsible man, he is very good to me and good to his son. We held hands and remarried, and lived our own little life.
However, life is always full of uncertainties. Lao Liu's illness made me feel the impermanence and cruelty of life again. I began to wonder if my remarriage was still meaningful, and was it necessary to continue to do so?
I know that everyone has their own choices and persistence in life. And I will continue to stick to my choices, no matter how difficult the road ahead may be. Because I believe that as long as there is love and faith in my heart, I will be able to go through every difficulty in life.