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Choking on milk can be a very dangerous thing for small babies.
It's no exaggeration to say that severe choking can really be fatal.
However, a confinement lady ignored the danger and forcibly fed the baby.
The incident happened in Shenyang, Liaoning Province.
A mother posted a video saying that her confinement sister-in-law pulled out the pacifier of the bottle and fed the 9-day-old baby, and the baby was choked and coughed.
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Video source: @四川观察 @春野 (in confinement)
watched the video, and the baby in the video was indeed choked.
Bao's mother said that she was just going to the toilet, and this happened.
During the period, when the confinement lady gave the baby milk, she also poured it once and looked at the door.
Seeing that her baby was treated like this, her mother immediately dismissed her confinement sister-in-law and decided to take the baby by herself in the future.
"Even if you don't sit well in confinement, you don't have to worry about handing over your baby to any outsider. ”
Mom also reminded: Be cautious when looking for a confinement lady, I still have a monitor at home and the baby sleeps in the same room.
It's really infuriating for something like this to happen.
The 9-day-old baby, even if she feeds normally, is afraid that the child will choke, how can she dare to fill it directly.
Many netizens watched the video and were also angry:
"See, there are people in the family who dare to do this, what would happen if there was no one? ”
"The threshold for this sister-in-law is too low, where did you get the certificate? This is not a mistake, it is murder!"
"This is the so-called confinement sister-in-law, for the safety of the child, the child should bring it himself, the nine-day-old child can be fed like this, which is fatal. ”
"The nine-day-old child doesn't know anything, so pitiful, how can he do it. ”
That's right, forcibly feeding a baby is really very dangerous.
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How scary is it for a baby to choke on milk?
It's not scary, if the choking is serious - it will choke to death!
Pregnant mothers have seen a lot of this news.
In Nanjing, Jiangsu, a 4-month-old baby choked on milk and died due to untimely rescue. Seeing the small body being pushed away in the big cart, the mother collapsed and collapsed to the ground......
The baby choked when he was feeding, and the parents were in a hurry, but they didn't know what to do, so they could only call 120 for first aid.
But it took time for the ambulance to come, and by the time the paramedics arrived at the scene 15 minutes later, it was already too late.
Sent to the hospital, the doctor can only announce the unfortunate news of the child's death.
The medical staff pushed the child out of the hospital on a trolley, and the child's small body was covered with a white cloth, lying there motionless, and a fresh little life was lost. (Source: Pirate Army)
A 10-month-old baby in Henan was suffocated due to choking, and the mother was so frightened that she cried on the spot, and hurriedly ran to the hospital with the child in her arms. She rushed into the emergency room with the child in her arms: Come on, come and see my child, please.
The doctor immediately examined the child, and the child was pale, his chest and abdomen did not rise and fall, and the child was unconscious.
At this time, 35 minutes have passed since choking, the child loses consciousness, breath sounds disappear, heart sounds disappear, suffocation, breathing, and heartbeat stop......
Resuscitation begins immediately, with CPR, airway opening, and epinephrine injections........ Seven medical staff competed for every minute and second, racing against death.
Fortunately, the baby was rescued. (Source: The Third People's Hospital of Henan Province 2021-09-24)
That's how dangerous it is to choke on milk.
In order to prevent choking, many parents are careful to feed their babies and burp for fear that their children will choke.
But the confinement lady above actually gave milk to a baby who was only 9 days old, which was really infuriating.
Taking care of a small baby, there are some things that are absolutely forbidden!
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Confinement lady takes care of the newborn baby
These behaviors are absolutely forbidden!
Raising a baby is really no small matter.
If you can't take care of the baby patiently, don't really engage in the confinement industry.
Because young babies can't stand any rudeness and violence.
First: the baby cannot be forcibly fed
Forced feeding can easily cause food regurgitation, causing babies to spit up and choke on milk.
Do you know how dangerous it is to choke on milk?
Mild choking can cause aspiration pneumonia or otitis media.
Severe choking causes mechanical obstruction of the respiratory tract and suffocation, resulting in a lack of oxygen in the baby's brain, and the baby's brain cells are very sensitive to oxygen, and suffocation for 5 minutes can cause death.
Second: The baby's head should not be violently pushed
For babies under 1 year old, their brains are as fragile as tofu blocks, and any rude shaking and pushing can lead to brain damage.
There are also children whose necks and cervical vertebrae are also fragile, and any posture that does not protect their head and neck is dangerous for them.
Third: The baby's mouth can't be kissed casually
Too many babies have been seriously injured or even killed by inappropriate kisses.
A new-month baby in the UK nearly lost his sight because of a kiss that infected him with the herpes virus.
Another father kissed his 2-month-old son, who contracted the herpes virus and eventually died of multiple organ failure.
There is no alarmism at all, for a small baby, a kiss can spread thousands of germs and germs, which can be fatal to the child.
Like herpes viruses, colds, Helicobacter pylori, oral bacteria, can all be passed on to children with a single kiss.
If you don't know the basics of childcare, don't babysit.
There are many jobs to eat, and if you can't treat every baby gently, please don't work as a childcare caregiver.
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Black babysitter, how to put it?
Do 7 steps to protect your baby!
If your father or mother can't take care of your baby due to special circumstances, you must carefully choose your baby's caregivers, including nannies and confinement nannies!
People are sinister, please do not leave your children in the care of strangers.
So how to hire a reliable nanny, and how should parents screen it?
● Plan ahead
If you want to return to the workplace after giving birth, plan 2-3 months in advance.
If the elders in the family are coming, do some communication and arrangements in advance.
If you are looking for a nanny, it is best to let the nanny integrate into the family environment before you go to work, so that the baby can get used to getting along with the nanny, and parents can also observe in advance to understand the nanny's character and ability.
●Find an acquaintance to recommend
It is best to be recommended by acquaintances or relatives, and it is more reassuring to know the roots, if not, you must also find a regular qualified housekeeping company to find, don't look for it casually.
●Do a health check-up
Take the nanny to a regular hospital for a comprehensive physical examination, including internal medicine, surgery, gynecology, functional medicine, liver function, hepatitis B markers and other key infectious diseases.
●Understand some parenting knowledge
Taking care of a baby must require skills, and the nanny must know some parenting knowledge and know how to feed and take care of the baby.
The babysitter is not required to be a parenting expert, but the basic knowledge must be understood.
●Do a background check
It would be best if the contact details of the previous employer could be found, as they knew best what the babysitter's character was.
In addition, it is important to understand the family background of the nanny, especially to understand whether there are extremists in the family, and if so, it is best not to avoid accidents.
●During the probationary period, you should observe thoroughly
Whether you can complete the basic work of taking care of the baby, whether you pay attention to hygiene, whether you will communicate with the employer, whether the child is happy with the nanny, and whether the child often has accidents, these are all points to observe.
●Communicate well if you have any questions
Communicate with the nanny with a peaceful attitude and give enough respect, a good nanny will also transfer this kindness to the child when she feels cared for and respected.
Of course, if it is an obvious wrong behavior, such as feeding the child indiscriminately, putting feces and urine, or shaking the baby, it is also necessary to correct it in time and point out the seriousness of the matter.
Finally, parents should pay more attention to the people who are separated from the belly, even if they trust the person, and check it from time to time, especially if the child suddenly cries.
At all times, the safety and health of children is the first priority, and I hope that every child can be treated gently!