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When I was a child, other people's mothers took their children around to make up for classes, but my mother took me on trips. I was fortunate to follow my mother and traveled through the mountains and rivers of the motherland and experienced exotic customs.
My mother's guidance made me curious about the world, and she sowed the seeds of exploring the world in my heart. It also laid a solid foundation for me to study abroad and even live and work in the future.
It was my mother who made me realize that the world is like an open book, waiting for me to explore and read.
(I'm Happy Ich-an)
My name is Yi'an, I am an only daughter born in the 90s, and I am from Zhejiang. When I was a child, my mother loved to travel and often took me to walk in the north and south of the motherland, allowing me to appreciate the customs and customs of various places.
In the eyes of most people, traveling abroad is still a distant dream, but my mother's heart is full of yearning for the world. She hopes that I will broaden my horizons and appreciate a wider world.
The idea of embarking on a trip to the UK stemmed from my strong curiosity about different cultures. My previous experience of traveling abroad made me deeply feel the vastness and diversity of the world.
When I was in middle school, I made foreign friends on the Internet, which further stimulated my enthusiasm for exploring the unknown. In order to better practice my English skills, I decided to come to the UK to experience life here in depth and experience different customs.
For me, this is not only a study abroad, but also a life experience, a valuable opportunity to explore different cultures and exercise my abilities.
(When I was an undergraduate, I went to a castle in the Scottish Highlands with my classmates and teachers for a weekend)
I excelled in physics as a student, and I had a keen interest in the subject. Physics has not only improved my cognitive level, given me a deeper understanding of how the world works, but also stimulated my curiosity about the universe.
When I was 16 years old, I came to the University of St Andrews in the UK for my foundation and undergraduate studies, and then to the University of Edinburgh for my master's degree.
When I first arrived in the UK, my biggest challenge was the difference in English accent and speaking speed. Even though I had learned English well before, the accent and fast speaking speed made me struggle a bit.
In order to overcome this dilemma, I took the initiative to communicate with people from different countries, forcing myself to communicate in English.
This immersion in the language allowed me to adapt quickly to the British language environment, and after about four or five months, I was able to communicate without any barriers.
(Wearing a red robe on Sundays is a school tradition)
Through continuous hard work and adaptation, I managed to overcome the language barrier and integrate into life in the UK.
After graduating from the University of St Andrews, I applied for a master's degree at the University of Edinburgh, but also two degrees from Cambridge University.
I was confident that my first-class degree would meet the entry requirements for a second-class degree at the University of Cambridge.
I naively thought that admission to Cambridge University was a sure thing, but it turned out that I was rejected.
This dedication to Cambridge was actually influenced by my growing up in the exam-oriented education environment in China.
In that environment, both the people around them and the media have given institutions of higher learning a special honor and status.
(Interviewed as an environmental ambassador at the company)
Even though I attended the University of St Andrews, where my degree in physics was among the best in the UK, I still aspired to have a degree from the University of Cambridge as a crowning honour.
So when I received the rejection letter, my self-confidence took a heavy hit.
During that time, I gradually realized that my way of thinking was gradually becoming negative, and I was constantly caught in a spiral of self-doubt, and I had deep doubts about my own worth and abilities.
With the guidance of a counselor and my own positive efforts, I finally got out of the shadow of depression and regained my self-confidence and courage.
That experience taught me that while it is important to pursue honor and achievement, it is even more important to maintain a calm mind. In the face of setbacks, we need to learn to accept them and learn from them.
(The school's traditional bubble fight)
After all, the journey of life is not all smooth sailing, and only by constantly challenging ourselves and surpassing ourselves can we finally achieve our dreams.
During my time in the UK, I had the privilege of meeting many unforgettable characters. Among them, I was particularly impressed by the professor of physics at the University of St Andrews.
He is not only a charismatic educator, but he also captivates us deeply in his unique way. Whenever he went to class, he always wore a cloak and recited his favorite poems while wiping the blackboard.
In addition to his achievements in the field of physics, he also made contributions in the field of philosophy. On one occasion, he gave a public lecture that attracted a large audience.
During the lecture, some students had a whim and asked the professor if he would like to sing a song for us. He smiled and pointed to a piano in the corner of the room, then walked over and sang affectionately as he played a beautiful melody.
(Funny Physics Teacher)
The lectures were on physics, time and philosophy, and the professor was not only knowledgeable, but also admired for his versatility and wide range of interests.
He has always maintained his curiosity about the world, constantly breaking through the identity of a physicist and exploring various unknown areas.
This experience has taught me that no matter what challenges and difficulties you face, it is important to maintain a calm mind. Only by being brave enough to try new things can we gain valuable lessons from them.
Although my relationship journey is not rich, every one is unforgettable. While studying in the UK, I reunited with my boyfriend from high school and started a long-distance relationship. A year later, we chose our respective paths and parted peacefully.
After that, I met my current boyfriend, and we met on a dating app. For six years, we have been with each other and have experienced the ups and downs of life together.
(We're happy together)
Our love is both ordinary and precious, it is not vigorous, but it is full of tacit understanding and understanding.
On the economic side, we adhere to the principle of AA system and set up common accounts to plan for future life and travel. This arrangement allows us to maintain our independence while supporting each other in a shared life.
I firmly believe that in a relationship, the man should not be responsible for providing me financially. I am an individual, not an appendage of anyone. When we are equal to each other and share the responsibility of life, the relationship will be healthier and longer.
We don't look forward to the future love life too much, but cherish every moment of the present even more. Because for us, living in the moment and cherishing the people in front of us is the greatest happiness.
The experience of traveling together is unforgettable, but more important is the understanding and understanding of each other.
(Photo from the early days of the pandemic)
The little surprises in life, such as the occasional breakfast he prepared for me and the gifts I chose for him, became the most valuable treasure in our relationship.
These seemingly insignificant details make our feelings deeper and our lives more fulfilling.
During the pandemic, we started living together. During that time, we couldn't go out, so we walked hand in hand through the nearby forests, golf courses and lakes, feeling the peace and beauty of nature.
During that time, our minds were relaxed and happy like never before.
Back on our first date, in the seaside town of St Andrews, we strolled along the beach, sipping ice cream, swinging, and chatting about each other's dreams and futures.
Today, we still cherish these good memories, but what makes us happier are the small details of life.
(When my parents came to the UK, I was at my boyfriend's brother's coffee shop)
Together, we painted the walls of the new house, installed the furniture, took the dog for a walk, and all the little things I set up for the house.
These things, although they may seem insignificant, make our feelings deeper and our lives more fulfilling.
He's an Englishman and doesn't have much of a story background. When we met, I was in school and he was working in a coffee shop run by my brother.
Since then, whenever I need to relocate for life or study, he will not hesitate to choose to walk with me to find our place in a new city.
In our lives, it is not only about taking care of and supporting each other, but also about growing together. I take care of the housework and he is good at cooking.
We support each other, provide emotional value to each other, and comfort and support each other when they are lost.
(First solo tour on the Charles Bridge in Prague)
These frequent interactions in everyday life: shopping for groceries together, cooking, going for a walk, constitute the deepest memories of our relationship.
We don't pursue vigorous love, we just hope to be able to walk through every ordinary and beautiful day hand in hand.
Because for us, true happiness is to spend time with each other, every moment, cherish every opportunity to get along.
Due to financial reasons, I didn't see much of the scenery around the place. Now, I wish I could have gone out more, but most of my time has been reserved for returning home to see my family.
When traveling, I prefer to explore on my own and experience the unique atmosphere of each city.
Solo travel has given me a taste of the vastness of the world and given me the opportunity to learn more about different lifestyles and values, and this experience has kept me humble, and I have been more appreciative and respectful of diverse cultures.
I chose to work as a programmer because of my love for programming in college.
(Drinking and chatting with colleagues on the lawn after work)
At that time, the programming language I studied was mainly for modeling, and since I majored in theoretical physics and had relatively few experiments, programming became an important tool for my daily learning and research.
This experience made me deeply feel the fun and logic of programming, and I gradually fell in love with this industry.
What appeals to me most about programming is how challenging and logical it is. Every day, I am facing new problems and using logical thinking to solve them, which does not make me feel bored, but makes me passionate.
Photography is one of my great passions in life, and occasionally I take some photos for my friends to capture beautiful moments. However, photography is more like a relaxation and adjustment after work than programming.
As for the positive attitude and enthusiasm in my work, a lot stems from the sense of accomplishment I feel as a programmer.
(I got the house the day after my 24th birthday)
When we build a product from scratch and watch our results come to life on the screen, the joy and pride are indescribable.
It is this sense of accomplishment that drives me to devote myself to my work with full enthusiasm every day, and constantly pursue higher goals and a better version of myself.
I now have a very fulfilling life, and since I work from home, I wake up every morning and start my day at home.
In between work, I read some books or go out for a walk to enjoy the peace and beauty of life. In the evenings, I take a break to watch some movies and relax.
The decision to buy a property is mainly due to the fact that rent in the UK is quite expensive, and a mortgage is more cost-effective than rent.
Owning my own house is like having a world of my own, which gives me a strong sense of belonging.
I have dogs because I've always loved dogs. Dogs can bring me endless joy, and with such a small creature in the house, the atmosphere becomes extra warm.
(The dog is like a clingy child)
Over the past few years, I have felt a noticeable growth. Since graduating with my own income, I am more independent in all aspects than before and no longer need to rely on my family for support.
I have a clear plan and expectations for the future. I want to be able to continue to work hard to make money, save money, and buy another property to rent out or invest in other ways.
Ideally, I would be able to accumulate a certain amount of passive income so that I could retire early and have a break when I don't want to work to pursue something I am truly passionate about.
I want to have a more colorful life, so I try new things like going to stand-up comedies or picking up my paintbrush and developing it into a hobby.
(This is my home)
At the moment, I consider my biggest hobby to be reading. This hobby has had a profound impact on my career, school, and life, and it has completely changed my way of thinking and values.
"Tianxingjian, the gentleman is unremitting in self-improvement, and the terrain is kun, and the gentleman is virtuous. As the ancients said, being independent, being kind to yourself, and stepping out of your comfort zone should be the mind and pursuit that young people should have.
Only by stepping out of their comfort zone can young people bravely face unknown challenges, broaden their horizons, increase their knowledge, and achieve self-transcendence. As the famous saying goes: "How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?" Only by forging ahead in the wind and rain can we bloom the brightest light under the rainbow.
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[Dictation: Yi'an]
[Edit: Ruyu]
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