Speaking of Song Dandan, the first thing that comes to everyone's mind is classic characters such as "Liu Mei" and "Bai Yun", it seems that there is no shadow of a girl in her, and she is synonymous with aunt.
In the Spring Festival Gala, she frequently uttered golden sentences, and she chattered in the TV series.
But Song Dandan on the screen has a completely different side, she used to have a girl's heart that was eternally young, full of dreams and romantic feelings.
In the winter of 1987, the corridors of Beijing Renyi were filled with the busy sound of preparations for the new play "The Arsonist".
In the brewing of this art, the story of the young Song Dandan and Yingda slowly kicked off.
Song Dandan, the later "national aunt", only appeared in a small role with an easy role at that time, and Yingda was the assistant director with a bit of self-deprecating humor.
In the tense script reading meeting, Song Dandan asked Yingda if she could drink his water because she was thirsty, and this small interaction turned out to be the first heart-to-heart collision between the two.
Who would have thought that this seemingly accidental encounter would become the beginning of their love story.
Two years later, in the summer, Song Dandan and Yingda entered the palace of marriage.
Song Dandan can not only stand alone in her career, but at home, she is also an all-round superwoman, whether it is repairing lights and locks, or a car breaking down, it will not be difficult for her.
And Yingda's occasional laziness did not become an obstacle to their happy life, but added a bit of fun to life.
In Song Dandan's heart, this sense of happiness that is needed is the best proof of Yingda's deep love.
Not only is she full of energy at home, but even on stage, she has always maintained her true character – both authentic and powerful.
The sketch "Blind Date for a Lazy Man" was a success, and Song Dandan also became an instant hit, and most of the characters she played in the subsequent sketches were rural women.
The filming of "I Love My Home" made Song Dandan's image deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
The eldest daughter-in-law of the Jia family, Heping, played by her, has become a warm memory in countless families with her kind and kind image, and the sweater that has never been knitted.
That is, after this drama, there was a gap between Song Dandan and Yingda.
As the scandal between Yingda and Liang Huan is increasingly amplified by the public, family harmony is gradually replaced by quarrels and uneasiness.
During that time, the family seemed to have become a battlefield without peace, which affected the elderly elders and plunged the originally warm family into chaos.
In those difficult days, Song Dandan admitted that she had also stumbled and tried to solve the problem in the wrong way, which made the already fragile marital relationship even worse.
Faced with a broken marriage, she once resolutely filed for divorce from Yingda.
In January 1997, their ten-year marriage finally came to an end.
Although the breakdown of the relationship has caused deep damage to both parties, they have chosen their own life paths.
Song Dandan took on the responsibility of raising her son alone, and Yingda and Liang Huan entered the palace of marriage soon after.
Before the divorce, Batu was the jewel of the family, but after the divorce, everything changed.
At that time, Yingda was in a prosperous career, and Liang Huan later gave birth to Ying Rudi for him.
At the age of three, he began expensive piano training, and later became interested in ice sports by chance.
Seeing his son's enthusiasm, Yingda immediately arranged professional ice hockey training for him, supporting his hockey dream almost at any cost.
In that era when it was not wealthy, Yingda invested almost astronomical resources for Yingrudi.
From sky-high training fees to the purchase of high-end equipment to the private construction of an ice rink for his son, these actions seem almost incomprehensible luxuries to outsiders.
But in Yingda's eyes, all this is for his son to be able to fly in his favorite field.
Over time, Ying Rudi lived up to expectations and quickly became the star of the ice hockey club.
His outstanding performance on the international stage has not only earned him the honor of MVP, but also won the favor of NHL league teams.
All these achievements are inseparable from Yingda's silent dedication and support as a behind-the-scenes hero.
As Yingda's eldest son, Batu did not enjoy these fatherly loves.
As Batu's strong and brave mother, Song Dandan mentioned the changes in this family in the book "The Depths of Happiness".
She depicts not only the pain of a child losing a complete family, but also the helplessness and sadness seen in the eyes of a mother.
In 2011, he appeared on the TV screen with his mother Song Dandan, which was a beautiful moment to show his talent and share stories.
However, Yingda followed up and also appeared on TV with Yingrudi, and Yingda's all-round care for his youngest son and his display of fatherly love were in stark contrast to his alienation from Batuu.
In an interview on a TV show, Yingda's words were like a cold blade, severing the last bond with his eldest son, Batu.
He said he would rather be called Ying Rudi's father.
For Batu, this sentence is not only the loss of father's love, but also the complete disappearance of family warmth.
When asked why he continued to reject Batu's attempts to seek contact, he claimed that he sacrificed his father-son relationship with Batu in order not to harm the harmony of the existing family.
And the most heart-wrenching thing is that after the death of his grandfather, Batu was still rejected by Yingda.
But is Batu really inconspicuous?
Although initially misunderstood, his honest exterior hides a resilient spirit and a talented soul.
When Batu stood on the stage of "The King of Crossover Singers" and sang "When You Are Old" with his gentle voice, he not only moved the audience, but also proved his worth and talent.
This seemingly ordinary man actually has extraordinary perseverance and talent.
Although Batu's life seems more ordinary than that of his younger brother Ying Rudi, it does not mean that his life lacks brilliance.
In the filming of "Kintaro's Happy Life", Wang Bogu and Batu sparked, and in the face of his son's choice, Song Dandan obviously had reservations.
For Song Dandan, the age gap between Wang Bogu and Batu, as well as some of Wang Bogu's living habits, have become reasons for her to oppose this relationship.
But Wang Bogu proved himself with his actions, and also eliminated the estrangement between her and Song Dandan, the two got married in 2017 and had a child a year later.
The beauty of life does not always come from the recognition and applause of the outside world, but more often comes from the recognition of one's own value and the cherishing of happiness.
Everyone's life is unique, and finding your own happiness is the most important thing.
Maybe Ying Rudi is too ordinary compared to Batu, but ordinary days are the most touching people.