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I am a 27 year old woman who has just been 5 months pregnant this month. The news of my pregnancy was a surprise to me, but it also made me feel joy and worry.
That day, when I was home alone, I suddenly felt a little unwell. I decided to check it out, and it turned out to be pregnant! I couldn't believe the fact in front of me, and with trembling hands I picked up the pregnancy test, on which two red lines were clearly displayed. I sat there, excited and scared.
I was relieved to hear his response. We made an appointment to meet in the evening to discuss our next steps.
In the evening, I plucked up the courage to tell my parents the news. I knew they were going to be very angry, but I decided to confess anyway. Mom, Dad, I have something to tell you. I spoke nervously.
Hearing my words, Chen Ming frowned, How could your father be like this? We have been in love for so long, and marriage is also an imminent matter for us. What's more, the children are already pregnant, and we should hurry up to enter the marriage hall and give the children a complete family environment.
I looked at Chen Ming helplessly, and I didn't know what to do, my father was so angry that he didn't want us to get married now. He said it would be a big blow to the family.
Chen Ming held my hand comfortingly, don't worry, I'll find a way to communicate with your father. I'll explain it to him about what happened between us. The most important thing for you right now is to take good care of yourself and your baby, and don't worry too much about that.
I nodded, tears streaming down my head I was really scared, Chen Ming. We're in a really difficult situation right now. I was afraid that our children would not have a complete family.
Chen Ming gently hugged me, I am, I will always be there. No matter what happens, I will be by your side and face it with you. We'll be able to convince your father.
I hugged Chen Ming tightly, feeling his warm body temperature. In his arms, I finally relaxed, and the tears gradually stopped. I know that as long as I am there, I will not feel alone.
Chen Ming sighed Your father has a very tough attitude, and he completely disagrees with us getting married now. He said you can't get married until you've had a baby, and the child is one year old.
My eyes widened in amazement? By the time the child turned a year old, it would take more than a year! We should be married now, and the child was already pregnant.
Chen Ming nodded helplessly, and I also explained this problem to your father, but he just didn't agree. He said that this would protect the family's reputation.
Chen Ming hugged me gently, and I knew it must be difficult for you. But we will always find a way to solve it, and I believe that everything will be fine.
Chen Ming was silent for a moment, looking at me seriously, we can ask for help from other relatives and friends. Maybe they will be able to convince your father to change his mind. We must find a way not to allow our children to be born into an incomplete family.
Hearing Chen Ming's words, a glimmer of hope suddenly ignited in my heart. Maybe the persuasion of friends and relatives can make my father change his mind.
So, we started asking for help. I first found my best friend Xiao Li and told her about my situation. After hearing this, Xiao Li immediately said that he would definitely help us. She said she would talk to my father first, hoping to convince him.
Xiao Li came back soon, with a look of regret on her face I just went to talk to your father, but he just didn't agree with you getting married now. He said that in any case, he would wait until the child turned one year old.
I nodded in disappointment, and I knew my father wouldn't agree easily. He cared more about his family's reputation than he cared about me.
Xiao Li patted me on the shoulder comfortingly, don't be discouraged, we have other ways. I'm going to go to your uncle and aunt next, hoping that they will persuade your father to change his mind.
I nodded gratefully Okay, then please. I really appreciate your continued help.
Xiao Li smiled and said this is what I should do, you are my best friend. I'll definitely help you figure it out.
In the days that followed, Xiao Li visited my aunts and uncles separately, hoping to convince them to help. Chen Ming and I have been waiting for news from them, hoping that our father will change his attitude.
Finally, a week later, Xiao Li came to my house again. She had a look of relief on her face, and your uncle and aunt agreed to help us convince your father! They thought it was reasonable for you to get pregnant and marry so early, and they would definitely help us communicate with your father.
I was relieved to hear the news. Perhaps after the persuasion of his uncle and aunt, his father will be able to change his mind. I can't wait to know the results.
We were startled and hurriedly turned our heads to Dad, you're back. We're just talking about something.
I nodded appruffled yes, Dad. We just want to ask for their help and hope that you will agree to our marriage.
I looked at my father and father nervously, can't you understand our situation? The children are pregnant, and we really need to get married as soon as possible.
I was stunned for something. How could we have such a purpose? We just want to give our children a complete family.
Hearing my father's resolute refusal, my heart sank. I looked at my father nervously, unable to believe that he would think like that. Dad, how can you say that? We really just want to give our children a whole family, and we don't have any other purpose. I choked up.
Father snorted coldly, the whole family, heh, you are trying to persecute me through this means. But, let me tell you, no matter what you do, I will not agree to you getting married now, but, Dad, the child is pregnant, we really need to get married as soon as possible. I pleaded. Heh, do you think I don't know your tricks? You just want to take advantage of this opportunity to get married, right, my father sneered.
I was speechless, not knowing how to refute it. I looked helplessly at Chen Ming and Xiao Li on the side, hoping that they could help me convince my father.
Chen Ming stepped forward and said sincerely, Uncle, I understand your concern about the family's reputation. However, Miss and I really just want to give our children a complete family environment. We've been in a relationship for so long, and we were going to get married this year. It's just a matter of getting ahead of time. Please understand our situation and give us a chance.
Seeing this, Xiao Li also stepped forward to persuade Uncle Dao, I understand your concerns about the family's reputation. However, Miss and Chen Ming are indeed truly in love. They won't do it to force you. Please be considerate of their situation and give them a chance.
I was in despair when I heard my father's repeated refusals. I know he cares more about his family's reputation than he cares about me. I looked at Chen Ming and Xiao Li helplessly, and tears flowed involuntarily. Dad, please, can you give us a chance? The children are already pregnant, and we really need to get married as soon as possible. We really just want to give our children a whole family and have no other purpose. I choked up.
I looked at my father helplessly, and tears flowed uncontrollably. I was so desperate that I didn't know what I could do to get my father to change his mind.
At this moment, an unexpected discovery made me suddenly raise my head. I looked at my father with a glint of hope in my eyes. Dad, why do you have to wait until the child is one year old before we can get married?
The father was silent for a moment, then sneered and said Heh, it turns out that you found out. Well, I'll get straight to the point. The reason why I have to wait until the child is one year old is because I want to take this opportunity to lose your family register.
My father said coldly that it was very simple, if your household registration book is lost, you will not be able to complete the marriage registration within a year. In this way, you can only wait until your child reaches the age of one before you can re-apply for the household registration book and then get married. In this way, you can only get married after your child is one year old.
My father sneered and said, "Oh, that's what I'm for." I don't want you to get married now, that's why I'm doing this. Wait until your child is one year old, and then get married.
I was speechless with shock. I never imagined that my father would do such a thing. He even wanted to hide our family register and prevent us from getting married before the birth of our children.
I held Chen Ming's hand tightly and felt tears welling up in my eyes again. I never imagined that my father would do such a sinister thing. He even wanted to hide our family register and prevent us from getting married before the birth of our children. It left me feeling hopeless and helpless, and I didn't know how to deal with such a situation.
Seeing this, Chen Ming gently hugged me, trying to comfort my dear, don't cry. We will definitely find a way to solve it, don't give up hope.
Chen Ming pondered for a moment, and said seriously, We must find a way to stop your father's plan. We must find and keep it before he loses it.
Xiao Li also said nervously that this is indeed a tricky problem. We have to find a way to convince your father to change his mind, otherwise you won't be able to get married before the child is born, even with the hukou book.
I looked at them in despair, but, do you have any good ideas? I'm really worried that the child will be born into a family without parents.
Xiao Li pondered for a moment, and his eyes lit up, I have a way! We can find a way to find the place where your father hid the household registration book, and then take it out while he is not paying attention. That way, even if he doesn't agree, you will be able to register your marriage before the child is born.
Xiao Li smiled and said don't worry, I will find a way. I will keep an eye on your father's movements, and tell you as soon as I notice any unusual behavior from him.
Chen Ming also said seriously, well, we must catch any flaws. I will keep an eye on your father's every move and tell you at any chance.
I nodded gratefully Okay, then please. I really appreciate your continued help and support.
For the next few days, we watched my father's every move carefully, lest we miss any suspicious signs.
Finally, one weekend, Xiao Li came to my house excitedly, and I found it! Your father hid the household registration book in the safe in his study.
My eyes widen, really? Great! Let's go get it out.
Xiao Li nodded Well, but we have to be cautious, we must not be discovered by your father. Otherwise, the consequences will be unimaginable.
So, while my father was not at home, we quietly entered the study and opened the safe. Sure enough, we found my and Chen Ming's household registration books inside.
I breathed a sigh of relief, and Xiao Li smiled too, great, we got it!
I carefully took out the household registration book and held it tightly in my hand. I felt a pang of joy that I had finally stopped my father's plot.
I trembled and said Dad, I'm sorry. But you can't do that to prevent us from getting married. The children are all born, and we must get married as soon as possible.
I nervously held the household registration book, not daring to let go, no, Dad. We must marry before the child is born.
I took a step back, fear in my eyes. I don't know what my father would do to stop us.
At this moment, Chen Ming suddenly rushed in and tried to snatch the household registration book in my hand. He said anxiously, uncle, please, let's get married. The children are all born, and we really need to give the children a complete family.
As he spoke, he snatched the household registration book from my hand, and then turned around and left the study. We looked at each other, not knowing what to do next.
I looked at Chen Ming and Xiao Li in despair, what should we do? My father not only disagreed with our marriage, but also snatched away the household registration book. We are not even qualified to get married.
Xiao Li pondered for a moment, and said comfortingly, don't be discouraged, we will definitely be able to find a way. I'll continue to find ways to convince your father to change his mind. Rest well, I'll keep you updated as soon as possible.