A man in Shanghai held a farewell ceremony at a funeral parlor and threw his father's ashes directly into the trash after going out. Once the incident was exposed, it caused heated discussions on the whole network, and many people criticized and derogated the man, what a big rebellion, etc. However, there are also wise people who believe that men's treatment is the best way to bury, which is both environmentally friendly and economical, and there is no other way, and it is the most worthy way to promote. From an ethical point of view, children raised by their parents with hard work should be grateful for the grace of parenting, not to mention the glory of their parents after death, at least they should follow the tradition and settle down. But starting from materialism, any form of funeral after the death of a parent in the current society is self-deception and serves nothing but a waste of resources.
A tomb in Shanghai can range from tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands, plus the various expenses of eating a running water seat for many days, even the wealthy feel difficult, let alone ordinary people. After emptying your savings, exhausting and even going into debt, you don't even know the point of doing this, you just know that people have no money and no money, and life has to go on. What makes people speechless is that the situation of parents when they are alive should be the most worthy of people's attention, but people deliberately ignore it, and after death, it should be the least worthy of attention but the least worthy of attention is the issue that deserves everyone's profound discussion: Should the hundreds of thousands of dollars earned by doing their best be used for filial piety when their parents are alive or for red tape after death? In fact, many people ignore their parents when they are alive, and after their parents die, they are forced to complain in the world but have to empty their families for funerals.
Many people think that there is nothing wrong with the man's approach, but it is too casual and seems to be disrespectful to life, and this comment is the most pertinent. There are also many people who suggest secretly throwing them into the sea or river, burying them under trees, etc., which is illegal and must not be done. More people think that men are forced, and the current profiteering of the funeral industry is unbearable, so this is the only way to do it. Although the state continues to reform funeral methods, the funeral industry's exploitation of the family of the deceased in various ways is too outrageous, resulting in a social consensus that we cannot afford to die. In fact, the funeral reform can be done in one step: only a small part of the cremated ashes of the deceased are taken, in fact, it can be completely discarded, which saves the man's discarding behavior and causes huge controversy.
As long as you do your best to fulfill your filial piety during your parents' lifetime, you will naturally feel at ease after you die, and you will be benevolent and righteous to those who have been turned to ashes, and what is wrong with not caring about the stereotypes and bad habits of the world?