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My name is Zhang Xiaomin, I am 25 years old this year, and I am an ordinary white-collar worker. This time I went back to my parents' house to participate in my sister's full moon banquet, and I didn't expect such an embarrassing thing to happen with my uncle, and I still feel hot when I think about it.
That morning, I hurried to my parents' house, and my sister Li Xiaoping was busy in the living room, and when she saw me coming, she happily greeted me: "Sister, you are here! Come into the house and sit down for a while, and I will let my mother give you hot porridge to drink." I hurriedly said, "It's okay, I just had breakfast, you can do your business." The sister said, "Okay, you can rest for a while, and then I will call you to have lunch later." "
I nodded, walked over to the couch and sat down. After a while, my mother came over with a bowl of steaming millet porridge: "Daughter, what are you doing sitting there just now, drink hot porridge to warm up." I hurriedly said, "Mom, I've already had breakfast in the morning, so don't heat it for me." When my mother heard this, her brows furrowed slightly: "This child, why don't you like to eat so much, you are the eldest girl in our family, and the wedding date is set, so you can't be a picky eater." I hurriedly explained, "No Mom, I've really eaten, so don't bother me." Reluctantly, Mom put down the bowl and turned to go about her business.
At this time, Uncle Li Ming walked in, saw me sitting on the sofa, and said with a smile: "Xiaomin, you are here, I thought you would not come today." I hurriedly stood up and said, "Uncle, why didn't I come, this is my sister's big day." The uncle nodded, and said, "Okay, sit down, and we'll have lunch together later." I smiled and said, "Okay uncle." "
When it was time for lunch, my mother and sister were busy serving the food, and I took the initiative to help. My sister said gratefully, "Sister, just sit and rest, we're too busy." I quickly said, "It's okay, I'll help." Seeing this, the uncle also came over and said, "Xiaomin, don't bother, let's do it." I smiled and said, "Uncle, you're welcome, I'm happy to help." "
Finally, a sumptuous lunch was set on the table, and I sat next to my uncle. My sister said with a relieved face, "Okay, let's go!" I picked up a piece of braised pork and put it in my mouth, the fragrance was fragrant, the meat was elastic, and my lips and teeth were full of joy. I involuntarily made a satisfied sound of "um~". Just as I was intoxicated with the delicious food, I suddenly heard my uncle coughing, I subconsciously looked up, but saw that my uncle was staring at me, his eyes were a little displeased. I panicked, could it be that there was something wrong with what I had just done?
I felt a panic in my heart, could it be that there was something wrong with what I had just done? I looked at my uncle cautiously, his face was a little gloomy, and he didn't know what was going on. Seeing this, my sister asked with concern, "Uncle, what's wrong with you?"
When I heard this, my face turned red and I lowered my head, ashamed and annoyed. Why did I forget to pay attention to my image in front of outsiders? My sister hurriedly explained: "Uncle, you are too outside, this is just that my sister is too happy to taste the delicious, there is nothing wrong with it." "
I raised my head and said timidly, "Uncle, I'm sorry, I was so excited just now that I didn't notice my behavior. I'll definitely pay more attention to my demeanor next time. "
The uncle snorted, didn't say anything more, lowered his head and continued to eat. I had mixed feelings in my heart, on the one hand, I was annoyed by my faux pas, and on the other hand, I felt that my uncle's reaction was a little too harsh.
After the meal, I took the initiative to help my sister and mother clean up the table. My sister noticed my depressed mood and asked with concern, "Sister, what's wrong with you?" Did your uncle's words just now make you uncomfortable?"
I sighed and said, "No, I just think my uncle's reaction was a little too harsh." I knew I wasn't acting very decently, but he could have said to me in private, why would he criticize me in front of everyone?"
My sister comforted: "Sister, uncle cares about us, but the expression is a little blunt." Don't take it personally, just pay more attention to it in the future. "
I nodded and said gratefully, "Thank you, sister, I'll remember." "
After a while, Uncle Xiao also came over, his expression was much softened than before, and said, "Xiaomin, I may have been a little heavy just now, don't mind." "
I hurriedly said, "Uncle, it's my fault, I should pay attention to my behavior." In the future, I will pay more attention to my demeanor. "
Uncle nodded and said, "That's good, you will grow up soon, and you will win glory for your family in the future." "
I smiled and said, "I will, uncle, don't worry." "
At this moment, my sister shouted, "Sister, uncle, come and help decorate the living room, the guests are coming soon!"
We hurriedly walked over to help. I have been careful in setting up the living room, for fear of being rude again. Finally, everything was ready and the guests arrived.
I stood at the door, watching my friends and relatives enter the door one after another, and expressed their blessings to my sister. I am also sincerely happy for my sister that she has finally married and lived her own happy life.
At this moment, I saw my brother-in-law Wang Ming walk in, and as soon as he entered the door, he came straight to me, and said happily: "Xiaomin, you are here! I thought you would not come today." "
I smiled and said, "Brother Ming, how could it be? This is my sister's big day, how could I not come." "
Wang Ming nodded again and again and said, "That's great, my sister has been thinking about you." By the way, I see that you are dressed up so beautifully today, you must enjoy the festive atmosphere today. "
I hurriedly thanked you, and secretly breathed a sigh of relief in my heart, it seems that today's events have been forgotten by everyone.
At this moment, I saw my uncle standing not far away, his eyes staring at me. I was a little uncomfortable, and I didn't know if he still cared about what had just happened.
Just when I was hesitating whether to take the initiative to greet my uncle, I saw my uncle suddenly walk over quickly, slap it on the table, and shouted: "You people, why are you so uneducated when you eat, you don't even know the most basic table manners!"
I was startled and looked at my uncle in bewilderment, wondering why he had a sudden seizure. My sister and Wang Ming were also taken aback, and hurriedly stepped forward to persuade them: "Uncle, don't be angry, everyone is just tasting delicious food in a happy atmosphere." "
The uncle pushed my sister away, turned to me again, and said sharply: "You, you just ate as if you didn't grow up, why are you so uneducated, is my usual teaching in vain?"
Uncle interrupted me and continued, "You're just too spoiled to take anything seriously. Today is your sister's big day, you should behave well and fight for the family, but you are making a fool of yourself at this time!"
I was speechless and didn't know what to do. The surrounding guests were also stunned and looked at each other at a loss. I was ashamed and sad in my heart, and I was completely disgraced underneath.
At this time, my mother hurriedly stepped forward and took my uncle's hand to persuade her: "Brother, don't be angry, everyone is excited and wrong, don't take it too seriously." The kids are good kids, so don't be too harsh. "
The uncle snorted coldly, shook off his mother's hand, and strode out of the living room. I froze in place, tears streaming down my eyes, and I felt very aggrieved.
Watching my uncle leave in a rage, my heart was filled with frustration. I don't understand why my uncle is so angry with me? Obviously, he just accidentally made the sound of food in a happy atmosphere, is there anything worthy of such harsh criticism? I felt very aggrieved, and tears flowed involuntarily.
The surrounding guests were also taken aback by the uncle's actions, and looked at the "infighting" of our small family at a loss. My sister and mother hurriedly walked up to me and comforted me softly: "Sister, don't be sad, uncle is just too concerned about face, don't take it too seriously." "
I bit my lip, held back my tears, and whispered, "I know, but I'm really sad, I didn't do anything wrong, why would he say that about me?"
My sister sighed and said, "Sister, you also know that my uncle is such a real character. Don't take it too seriously, believe that he will calm down on his own in a few days. "
I nodded, smiling reluctantly. At this time, Wang Ming also came over and asked with concern: "Xiaomin, are you okay?" Uncle's reaction just now was indeed a little too excited. "
I shook my head and said, "It's okay, I'm okay." Don't worry too much, it's just a little conflict in our family. "
Wang Ming nodded and said, "That's good." But if you want me to say, my uncle's approach is indeed a little inappropriate, and it is really not good to criticize you in public on such a grand occasion. "
I looked at Wang Ming gratefully, and his words were full of sympathy and made me feel warm. I said, "Thank you, Brother Ming." I know that Uncle cares about us, but the way he expresses it may be a little blunt. "
At this moment, my sister suddenly took my hand and said excitedly: "Sister, come and see, the guests are all here, let's hurry up and meet them!"
I wiped my tears, nodded, and followed my sister into the living room. At this time, the living room was already full of friends and family, who waved to us when they saw us come in. I pulled myself together, put a smile on my face, and responded one by one.
The whole full moon banquet went smoothly, and the guests stepped forward to send blessings to their sister and brother-in-law, and the atmosphere was particularly joyful and peaceful. I tried my best to restrain my inner troubles and devote myself to this joy.
Towards the end of the banquet, I saw my uncle walking over with an apologetic look on his face. He walked up to me and whispered, "Xiaomin, I was a little too excited just now, don't take it to heart." "
I pursed my lips and said, "Uncle, I know you're doing it for our good." I also realize that my behavior just now is indeed a little inappropriate, and I will definitely pay more attention to my demeanor in the future. "
Uncle nodded and said, "Good boy, you are really sensible." I just hope that you young people can maintain your due cultivation in public and fight for your family. "
I gradually relieved myself and took the initiative to say, "Uncle, you are right. I'll definitely pay attention to it later. By the way, were you hungry just now? Would you like me to get you something to eat?"
Uncle looked at me with some surprise, and then showed a relieved smile: "Okay, then I'll trouble you." "
I hurriedly walked to the table, picked up a few dishes for my uncle, poured another glass of water, and brought it to him. Uncle took it and said gently, "Thank you, Xiaomin." "
I smiled and said, "You're welcome, uncle." "
At this time, my sister also came over and asked with concern, "Uncle, are you okay?
The uncle shook his head and said, "No, your sister just sent me something, and I'm very satisfied." "
My sister breathed a sigh of relief and said, "That's good." By the way, would you like to try this pastry? I asked the chef to make it, and it was said to be delicious. "
After the banquet, I took the initiative to help my sister and mother clean up the scene. My sister smiled and said, "Sister, just now Uncle Yao said that you are very sensible, I am really happy for you." "
I nodded and said, "yes, I also know that I was a little immature before. After this incident, I will pay more attention to my words and deeds. "
My sister patted me on the shoulder and said, "Yes, my sister is also a big girl now, so she has to learn to be more restrained in public and win glory for the family." "
I smiled and said, "Don't worry, I will." "
At this moment, Wang Ming walked over and asked with concern, "Xiaomin, are you okay with what happened just now?"
I hurriedly said, "It's okay, Brother Ming, I'm fine." My uncle apologized to me just now, and the conflict between us has been resolved. "
Wang Ming nodded and said, "That's good." I see that your relationship with your uncle is still very good, which is really gratifying. "
I smiled and said, "Yes, after all, my uncle is the elder of our family, and he cares about us out of good intentions." In the future, I will definitely pay more attention to my words and deeds and live up to everyone's expectations. "
Wang Ming nodded approvingly and said, "This is what a good girl looks like." By the way, why don't you go out for dinner together in the evening to celebrate?"
I thought about it for a while and said, "Okay, then it's time for Brother Ming to lead the way." "
Wang Ming smiled and said, "No problem, let's go find delicious food together!"
Looking at Wang Ming's excited appearance, I was also very happy. Although this episode made me a little sad, it was finally resolved, and the relationship between the family members became more harmonious. I believe that in the future, I will definitely pay more attention to my demeanor and win glory for my family.
Hearing Wang Ming's invitation, I readily agreed. This unexpected episode when I returned to my parents' home taught me to pay more attention to my words and deeds in public, and also made me realize the cultivation and virtue that a mature woman should have.
I followed Wang Ming and my sister out of the house and embarked on a celebratory dinner trip. Along the way, Wang Ming gushed about the various restaurants in the neighborhood, each of which was appetizing. I look forward to feasting on this festive day.
After a while, we came to a well-known Sichuan restaurant. When I opened the door of the restaurant, the smell of the smell immediately whetted my appetite. I followed Wang Ming and my sister and found an empty table and sat down.
The waiter immediately stepped forward to order, and the three of us ordered several specialty dishes with one word at a time. After the dishes were ready, I couldn't wait to pick up a chopstick Malatang, the hot soup stimulated my taste buds and made my saliva almost run down.
At this time, I suddenly remembered the previous episode at home, and I couldn't help but feel a little cramped. I carefully blew on the piping hot spicy tang and carefully put it in my mouth. This time I paid extra attention and didn't make any noise.
Seeing this, Wang Ming asked with concern: "Xiaomin, what's wrong?
I hurriedly shook my head and said, "It's okay, I just want to pay more attention to my demeanor and don't want anything unpleasant to happen again." "
Wang Ming smiled and said, "You relax, everyone is an acquaintance, and you won't care too much about this." There's nothing wrong with how you looked at home just now, and everyone understands your excitement. "
I glanced at Wang Ming gratefully and said, "Thank you for your understanding, Brother Ming." I will definitely pay more attention to my behavior in the future. "
Wang Ming nodded, turned his head and continued to feast. I let go of the burden in my heart and began to eat in large gulps.
Soon, the three of us ate all the dishes on the table. After eating and drinking, we strolled through the streets and admired the lights of the city. This feeling of eating out made me feel as if I had returned to my school days, the carefree era.
Just when I was immersed in the good memories, Wang Ming suddenly said, "By the way, Xiaomin, how are you doing lately?"
I was stunned for a moment, then came back to my senses and said, "It's okay to work." The company has been quite busy lately, but it can handle it. "
I smiled and said, "I know, Brother Ming." I try to balance work and life. "
Wang Ming asked again: "By the way, do you have any personal plans recently?"
As soon as I heard this, my face flushed involuntarily. I hesitated and said, "Well, there's nothing special, it's just that I'm doing well alone." "
Wang Ming smiled and said, "Well, I know that you are very independent by yourself, but you should also consider getting married." I see that you are very good to our Xiaoping and me, should you two consider it too?"
I jerked my head up and looked at Wang Ming in surprise. I never thought there would be such a question, and I didn't know how to answer it for a while. Seeing that I reacted so much, Wang Ming hurriedly added: "Of course, it doesn't matter if you don't want to. I'm just casually mentioning it, you don't take it to heart. "
I hurriedly said, "No, no, Brother Ming, I don't mean not to want to." It's just that I never thought about it, and I was really caught off guard. "
Wang Ming smiled and said, "It's okay, you just think about it slowly." No matter what you decide in the end, Xiaoping and I will support you. "
I nodded, and a wave of emotion stirred in my heart. The word "married" is still a little too distant and unfamiliar for me, a girl who has just stepped into the workplace. But it seems that in the eyes of my family and friends, I have reached the age when I should think about it.
I wondered a little, did I really grow up? The criticism of my uncle at home just now also made me realize that I did have some lack of cultivation in the past. Maybe it's time to reflect on yourself.
Along the way, Wang Ming and his sister kept talking and laughing with me, and it felt like going back to school days. But my heart was faintly uneasy and wandering. Is marriage really something I should be thinking about right now, and am I ready to move on to the next stage of my life? These questions have been swirling in my mind and have left me pondering.
By the time we got home, it was completely dark. I said goodnight to Wang Ming and my sister and went back to my bedroom alone. After closing the door, I leaned against the head of the bed and fell into deep thought for a long time.