There are some things that parents don't teach, and children may never learn them

"Mom, why do you keep telling me that I can't do this and that can't be done?" the child asked, confused.

I looked at the child's innocent face, and a warm current welled up in my heart. I know that there are some things that children may never learn if they don't teach them.

"Child, do you know? We are not telling you this to limit you, but to protect you and make you grow better. I replied gently.

The child looked at me with a hint of curiosity in his eyes: "Then why don't you teach me something more important?"

I smiled and gently stroked his head: "Actually, we've been teaching you more important things, it's just that you don't realize it. ”

The child asked curiously, "What is it?"

I smiled and said, "For example, teaching you how to respect others, how to be grateful, how to persevere, how to face difficulties bravely, these are all things we have been teaching you." ”

When the child heard this, he fell into deep thought. I know, he's starting to understand.

As our children grow up, we teach them a lot of knowledge and skills, but there are some things that we can't teach through words and books. For example, how to deal with setbacks and failures, how to deal with interpersonal relationships, and how to maintain a positive attitude all need to be experienced and understood by children in practice.

As parents, what we need to do is not only to tell our children what is right and what is wrong, but more importantly, we need to provide them with a good environment for growth, so that they have the opportunity to try, fail, and grow.

There are some things that children may never learn if they don't teach them. But that doesn't mean children are necessarily on the wrong path. Because everyone's upbringing is different, and everyone's life experience is different. So, we can't expect our children to live their lives exactly the way we do, to make choices.

What we have to do is to guide and accompany. Guide them to the right path and accompany them through every stage of life. In the process of growing up, they can learn to think independently, learn to take responsibility, and learn to face difficulties.

There are some things that children may learn and comprehend through their own experiences and experiences. As parents, we just need to provide them with a supportive and encouraging environment so that they have the courage to pursue their dreams and realize their own values.

Therefore, there are some things that parents do not teach, and children may never learn them. But more importantly, we want our children to know that wherever they go, we will be behind them silently to support them and love them. In this way, they can move forward bravely on the road of life.