After the live broadcast with Dong Yuhui, I finally understood why Chen Jianbin left Wu Yue and chose Jiang Qinqin
Chen Jianbin and Jiang Qinqin, happiness visible to the naked eye, when they are middle-aged, there is still a flash of love in their eyes when they look at each other.
In this materialistic era, especially in the entertainment industry where there are countless temptations, it is really rare.
In Dong Yuhui's live broadcast room, Jiang Qinqin and Chen Jianbin talked about the secret of marriage, and happiness was about to overflow the screen.
Over the years, whenever Chen Jianbin and Jiang Qinqin are in love, netizens will always think of Wu Yue.
In many people's cognition, Wu Yue was heartbroken by Chen Jianbin and broke off his love so far.
Because of this, Chen Jianbin has been criticized and criticized over the years, and Jiang Qinqin has also been questioned for destroying other people's feelings.
It wasn't until I watched the interview between Chen Jianbin and Jiang Qinqin in Dong Yuhui's live broadcast room that I understood the reason why Chen Jianbin left Wu Yue and chose Jiang Qinqin.
01
In 2000, when Chen Jianbin made a cameo appearance in "Chrysanthemum Tea", he met Wu Yue.
Chen Jianbin is rough on the surface, but in fact, he is a genius who loves to write poetry, and he is full of artistic cells in his bones.
Since ancient times, beauties love talents, and after becoming famous, Wu Yue rejected the pursuit of many rich sons, but was moved by the unknown Chen Jianbin .
At that time, Wu Yue was becoming more and more famous, but Chen Jianbin was unknown, and Wu Yue's sentence "Your talent is more than this" made Chen Jianbin quite happy to meet a confidant.
When love was strong, Chen Jianbin and Wu Yue lived together, and Wu Yue unconditionally supported Chen Jianbin and believed that he would shine one day.
It's just that it's easy to fall in love and hard to get along.
Chen Jianbin has a little machismo of a northwest man, Wu Yue has the independence of the Shanghai heroine, and after the initial sweetness, there are always some small contradictions between them.
The days passed uneventfully, and their relationship slowly became tepid.
At this time, Chen Jianbin met "Qiao's Compound" and Jiang Qinqin.
It has been rumored on the Internet that "Qiao's Courtyard" is a resource found by Wu Yue for Chen Jianbin , but they did not respond, and the truth is unknown.
Jiang Qinqin and Chen Jianbin originated from "Qiao's Courtyard", but it was far from love at first sight, and even, they were almost to the point of incompatibility.
Chen Jianbin often changed the scene beyond recognition, so that Jiang Qinqin couldn't deal with it, and after several quarrels, he asked Jiang Qinqin to call his agent, "This scene can't be filmed, I want to go back." ”
As a straight man, Chen Jianbin not only spoke openly, but also always ridiculed Jiang Qinqin and gave her a nickname, which made Jiang Qinqin cry and laugh.
Later, the state of the two people slowly changed, because Chen Jianbin did improve the play better, and Jiang Qinqin began to look at him with admiration.
Jiang Qinqin began to accept Chen Jianbin 's "fingers", and in the final analysis, most women are infatuated with talented men.
After the filming of the TV series, Chen Jianbin was a little reluctant, and he began to keep finding excuses to contact Jiang Qinqin and ask Jiang Qinqin to help him buy things abroad.
Chen Jianbin found that he had a strange affection for Jiang Qinqin, and he decided to leave Wu Yue.
02
Chen Jianbin and Wu Yue were living together at the time, and one day, Wu Yue, who pushed open the door of the house, found that Chen Jianbin was missing, and only a breakup letter was left for her.
Wu Yue was stunned, a huge tide of sadness rushed towards her, and she felt that she couldn't breathe.
Chen Jianbin didn't have the courage to face Wu Yue, and he couldn't even say anything about breaking up, Wu Yue didn't do anything wrong, and he chose to leave quietly because of his guilt.
Chen Jianbin probably didn't have the courage to face Wu Yue's tears, and he used a letter and "I'm sorry" to bring their love to an abrupt end.
Wu Yue didn't ask questions or blame, rarely mentioned that relationship, and refused to evaluate anyone, it took a long time to heal to calm down, she has always been so proud.
Unlike Wu Yue, Jiang Qinqin and Chen Jianbin showed their attitudes when they decided to be in love.
"The life I want is not only passion, but can give me a home, marry me and have children, can you give me the kind of life I want?"
Chen Jianbin didn't say a word, took Jiang Qinqin with him, and went to get a marriage certificate.
After marriage, they were in love and sweet, and after giving birth to two sons, their feelings were not lost, but they were even happier.
Wu Yue, who let go of that relationship, devoted himself to his work, and his career became more and more exciting.
As he grew older, relatives and friends began to talk about Wu Yue's singleness, Wu Yue's parents were very open-minded, not only did they not urge marriage, but they would go back directly.
"My daughter's life's events are up to her, how she wants to live, it's her own business, no matter what she chooses, we will respect her. It is estimated that she is like this, anyway, there is no shortage of her alone to reproduce on the earth. ”
Wu Yue was very moved by her mother's understanding, and she has always been transparent about life: "There is nothing to be proud of in marriage, there is no marriage, and it is not an inferiority complex, everything goes naturally." ”
Ma Yili once commented on Wu Yue: "She is one of the few actors who always maintains a clear stream of self, out of the mud without staining."
After the age of 40, Wu Yue became more determined: marriage only follows fate, there is it, there is not, and a person's life is also great.
03
When he left Wu Yue, Chen Jianbin was mentally prepared that he would be reprimanded as a "scumbag", but he still chose Jiang Qinqin.
It's not Chen Jianbin who is distracted, after all, for so many years, he has never had a scandal.
It's not that Jiang Qinqin is good, or that Wu Yue is worse than Jiang Qinqin, it's just that Chen Jianbin and Jiang Qinqin's thoughts and personalities are more compatible, and Jiang Qinqin is the right person for Chen Jianbin .
From the interaction between the husband and wife in Dong Yuhui's live broadcast room, we can know that the premise of their love for many years is not only love, but also suitability.
Dong Yuhui heard that Chen Jianbin and Jiang Qinqin had always called each other "teacher", and asked them the secret of love preservation.
Chen Jianbin is quite frank: "Teacher Jiang and I are lucky, we found each other. She was very tolerant of me and I liked the things in her. I deeply believe that the phrase "Shih Tzu in the eyes of the lover" means that you must find your eyes, she looks at you as if she looks at Shih Tzu, you live in these eyes, how happy you are! If you find someone and find fault with you every day, then your life will be bleak. There is no perfect person in the world, but the right person can establish a perfect relationship together, and you must always have a respect and love for the person who falls in love with you. You always have to thank the person who can take a fancy to you, each of us is imperfect, you have to thank that person for accepting you for the rest of your life. ”
Jiang Qinqin made no secret of his love and admiration for Chen Jianbin and looked at each other with a girlish affection.
"He is a wise man, and he can give me positive guidance and emotional value for many things that I can't figure out, confused, self-doubt, and self-denial. I'm a person who is more anxious and sensitive, and he's a person who can resolve these things. ”
Chen Jianbin wrote poems on the spot and sent them to Dong Yuhui, and also hid the names of Jiang Qinqin, Wu Lei and Dong Yuhui.
"The industrious grass and trees, Lei Lei in the world, the new day of the East, the glory of the universe. ”
"Now you know, his good points make you ignore all his other shortcomings. ”
Jiang Qinqin's words are full of affirmation, love and admiration for her husband, these are what Chen Jianbin needs, and they can give each other what they want, which is very compatible.
Before, when he went to receive the actress award, Jiang Qinqin thanked Chen Jianbin in public on stage, thanking her husband for always praising himself and praising himself, Chen Jianbin stood up and applauded, and responded to his wife with a flying kiss, bursting with happiness.
In this relationship, Chen Jianbin and Jiang Qinqin have been nourished by each other, making each other better and happier people, they are always praising each other, loving each other from the bottom of their hearts, and meeting the right person is what they look like.
Wu Yue always reminds people of "Ai Lian Said".
"Out of the mud but not stained, clear ripples but not demons, straight through the outside, not vines and branches, fragrant and clear, pavilions and clean plants, can be seen from a distance and can not be blasphemed. “
She is beautiful and cold, arrogant in her bones, she has high self-requirements, high expectations for her other half, and is unwilling to be wronged and compromised.
Jiang Qinqin is different, she is so beautiful that people look forward to it, Qiong Yao commented on her "a tear in the sky, a star on the ground", when she cried, a glance made people feel pity.
She loves Chen Jianbin with admiration, Chen Jianbin just needs and enjoys Jiang Qinqin's worship, and at the same time reciprocates her care, respect and pampering, and can also take her out of the dilemma of thought.
The right person, in love and marriage, is more important than anything else.
If Wu Yue marries Chen Jianbin , they may not be happy today.
20 years have passed, there is no need to be upset about Wu Yue, she has been filming in a low-key manner, living quietly, exuding a fragrant fragrance like an empty valley orchid.
The so-called her being single for Chen Jianbin and the so-called loneliness and loneliness is a low opinion on Wu Yue, and Wu Yue does not need such sympathy.
Wu Yue lives so freely and transparently, Chen Jianbin is just a past tense when she was young, her life is wonderful, where do you need sympathy!
I wish Wu Yue the happiness of a lifetime and a couple, if not, she will continue to be a radiant self.
One part, two wide, Chen Jianbin and Jiang Qinqin are happy, Wu Yue is also very exciting, let's be happy.