"Call you out again, public, what's it called!"
In a lively Malatang restaurant in Jining City, a dispute over a child's crying became the focus of everyone's attention.
On March 31, this Malatang restaurant, which is quite large, was full of people, customers in an endless stream, and it was a busy scene.
Not only was the store full, but there were also many customers waiting in line after selecting the ingredients.
But
In the midst of such busyness and noise, a child who was eating suddenly burst into tears, and the cry was heart-rending and resounded throughout the store, making people have to look sideways.
This sudden cry obviously had a big impact on the dining experience of some customers.
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Especially for a woman sitting in the other row, this crying was clearly the limit of her patience.
After enduring it for a while, the woman finally couldn't hold it anymore and shouted to the child to "shut up". But the child's crying did not stop because of this, but seemed to be louder.
At this time, the woman put down the chopsticks in her hand, stood up, and pointed at the child more severely: "If you call you again, go out, don't call here, this is a public place, what is it called?"
This situation immediately attracted the attention of the child's mother. The mother angrily made her way through the crowd and walked towards the woman, apparently trying to defend her child.
The dispute between the two sides quickly escalated, and the tension of the atmosphere could be felt despite the noise around and the fact that many details of the conversation were not fully heard.
The child's mother seemed to emphasize that the child's crying was inevitable, while the woman was criticizing the child's lack of upbringing.
As the dispute intensifies, the loss of control of emotions becomes inevitable.
After a fierce verbal exchange, the child's mother lost control of her emotions and actually shot directly at the woman and slapped her in the face.
Subsequently, the woman did not show weakness and began to fight back. The originally peaceful Malatang restaurant suddenly turned into a chaotic place.
This dispute, which arose over the crying of a child, was not only a conflict between the two parties, but also triggered a wide range of thinking about the code of conduct in public places, parenting, and how to properly handle the conflict.
In public, everyone's actions affect others. How to respect others while maintaining personal rights and interests has become a question worthy of everyone's deep thought.
In this regard, netizens have expressed their opinions
One of the netizens said a very philosophical sentence: "If a child has a problem, don't try to communicate with his parents, you will find that the child is the least sick in the family" seems to be the case.
I have to talk about it
The kid who cried loudly was indeed a bit too much. We all know that it is natural for children to cry, but in public, as a parent, you have to have some tricks.
Coax the child, divert attention, and can't let the child's voice dominate the harmonious atmosphere of the entire Malatang restaurant.
That lady who can't bear it, although she understands that you are annoyed by the noise, but she yells at the child directly, this trick is too hard, right?
Public places are about mutual understanding and respect, and when you suddenly roar, don't talk about children, adults will be stunned when they hear it.
As soon as the child's mother came up, she started fighting, what kind of theory is this operation? There are thousands of ways to solve the problem, but I chose the most direct and crude one.
This not only does not set a good example for children, but instead plants the impression in children's hearts that they have to rely on their fists to resolve conflicts, and this educational method has to put a big question mark.
In public places, especially when there are children, everyone needs to be a little more patient and understanding, impulsiveness will not solve the problem, but will make things worse.
What do you think?
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Source: Xiaozheng Video