My husband doesn't go to work, but he stretches out his hand to ask for money to eat "soft rice"? Netizens are envious: This is the man I want to marry!
Friends who often watch short videos should have seen her, right?
Zhang Pingling - a big blogger with eight million followers.
"Spit on her husband", there are many bloggers who complain about marriage, some people are ridiculed by the group and said to fry cold rice, but she is becoming more and more liked by everyone.
I also learned a lot of marriage tips and parenting worries from Zhang Pingling's complaints, and I will share it with you next
The strange thing that participated in "Wonderful Sayings" with a big belly
In the seventh season of "Strange Sayings", Zhang stepped on the stage to debate with a big belly.
The magnetic field of the pregnant mother and the tense and exciting debate match do not seem to match, but it is such a contrast that makes Zhang step on the bell into everyone's field of vision.
Zhang Taling is a girl from the Northeast, but she is different from the Northeast girl in her impression.
She is only 1.5 meters tall. Although he is not tall, he has an aura of two meters nine when debating.
The arguments are sufficient, the views are sharp, and the laughter is full of depth without losing depth.
Especially when talking about children, Zhang stepped on the bell's point of view, which is eye-catching.
In a certain issue of "Wonderful Sayings", Zhang Pingling told everyone not to let children become an outlet for your emotions.
Here's what she said: For a long time, she had a very bad life, so to speak, very poor. And my husband didn't find a job, so he could only pick up odd jobs everywhere. I also had to write my dissertation while taking care of my children, which caused me to be very anxious during that time.
One day, she took her daughter to the children's park, and her daughter saw that the ice cream was very much wanted to eat, although she thought the ice cream was very expensive, but seeing that the children around her were eating with relish, she still bought one for her daughter.
As a result, my daughter didn't want to eat after two bites.
Zhang Pingling, who was already a little distressed about money, became angry in an instant and began to break down and lash out at the child.
"Do you know how difficult it is for parents to make money"
"Do you know that our family doesn't have any money at all?"
"I'll buy you this ice cream, I can't even eat it myself"
At that time, I was frightened by the child, where would a child who was less than three years old understand that it is not easy to make money, and she just wanted to eat ice cream.
The child was so frightened that she cried, shoved ice cream into her mouth, pulled the corner of her clothes, and kept apologizing.
Later, Zhang stepped on the bell to learn that the child suffered from otitis media that day, and it hurt when he ate.
After the catharsis, Zhang stepped on the bell and calmed down and realized that she had done something wrong, she was not calling it educating the child at that time, but just poured all her emotions to the child.
Treat your child like a trash can for your own emotions.
This debate caused quite a stir on the Internet at the time, and many people felt the same way.
Perhaps, knowing how to reflect should be the first lesson of becoming a parent.
Behind a successful woman, there is always a "big fat daughter-in-law" who pays silently
Zhang stepped on the bell's big fat daughter-in-law, which has a lot of background. Because he is from Canada "the Great".
His real name is Jamie, but because Zhang Taling always calls her "big fat daughter-in-law", it has become Jamie's exclusive nickname.
Some time ago, the big fat daughter-in-law followed Zhang on a show about housework. In the show, because the big fat daughter-in-law is emotionally stable and can do housework, she has become the type of partner that many people want to find the most.
In the show, the big fat daughter-in-law is unemployed. took care of Zhang Pingling and the children in life, and became a veritable family cook.
He is not annoyed by this, but is happy to be idle and live a good life every day.
At the beginning of the show, the painting style was a little off.
In the park, the aunts and uncles were dancing in the square, and the camera zoomed in and found that in addition to the aunts and uncles hidden in the crowd, there was also a foreign face.
The big fat daughter-in-law danced inside, happily dancing and chatting with her sisters.
The whole picture of the years is quiet and leisurely.
On the other side, Zhang stepped on the bell and was not so leisurely, hurriedly handling the work, and the busy ones were smoking.
But the leisurely attitude of the big fat daughter-in-law stopped before entering the house.
As soon as she entered the door, the big fat daughter-in-law who didn't have time to change her shoes received the first instruction from Zhang Ping: "You go wash the dishes." ”
The big fat daughter-in-law was also obedient, and went into the kitchen without saying a word.
Looking at the mess in front of him, Zhang stepped on the bell and said to him: "Do you know? Actually, after you went out, I have already helped you clean up!"
Inserting a digression, I saw at that time: the big fat daughter-in-law looked at the pot that had not been cleaned, and her face was a big question mark!
I really couldn't hold back my laughter.
Zhang stepped on the bell, this trick is really beautiful.
Playing outside, the big fat daughter-in-law after returning home is not idle at all.
When he turned around, he quickly cleaned up the mess and washed the dishes and chopsticks quickly.
And he knows exactly where everything is stored in the kitchen, and at a glance he knows that he usually works.
This is the kitchen before the big fat daughter-in-law cleans up.
This is the kitchen after the big fat daughter-in-law cleaned up.
Such a "virtuous helper" husband is really envious of whoever looks at it.
For her husband's leisure, she even needs to step on the bell to "raise", and Zhang stepped on the bell to behave very calmly.
She said: "Because even if I don't have a husband, I want to have children, and without him, I would still raise my children like this, so why should I ask him to bear anything?"
And also told the child: "If it weren't for Dad's sacrifice, Mom wouldn't have a home to support, and this family is supported by two people." ”
Respect is the background color of Zhang Pingling's marriage.
I don't love you because I need you, but I love you and that's why I need you.
It's like Zhang stepping on the bell to turn around the big fat daughter-in-law, but it's not the way they get along with each other tacitly between husband and wife.
Families that combine things also have something "tuberculosis"
The combination of Zhang stepping on the bell and the big fat daughter-in-law is a fierce collision of oriental elements and western elements.
The result of the collision was their son Zhang Latte.
A standard foreign face that looks like he speaks English very well.
But what makes people's jaws drop is that he can't speak English, but he speaks Tohoku fluently. As soon as he heard English, he would ask his soul, "What is that?"
A foreigner who can't speak foreign words, this character is a headache for Zhang Pingling.
Because she wanted to enroll her son in a bilingual school, she was refused.
This is as outrageous as a Chinese who wants to learn Chinese abroad, but the teacher does not let him.
Spit and complain, Zhang Pingling has always been very Buddhist in his treatment of children's education.
Once, Zhang Latte liked his sister's skirt, and when netizens advised Zhang to pay attention when he stepped on the bell.
Zhang stepped on the bell but felt that there was no problem: "As long as he doesn't hurt others, whatever he likes is free, and as a parent, he understands and respects it." ”
Just like she did to her big fat daughter-in-law, respectful, understanding and tolerant.
She once said: Parents try to be happy as parents, and children are happy to be children.
Not only did she say it, but she did it.
In the video of Zhang stepping on the bell, we can clearly see that Zhang Latte is confident, sunny and cheerful. Speak clearly and thoroughly.
Although sometimes some unexpected mistakes are made, the word "happy" undoubtedly runs through the growth of Zhang Latte.
As a mother, Zhang Taling once said:
"As a mother, it is important for a woman to care about her children. But as herself, it is more important for her to pursue what she likes and realize her own value. ”
I believe this is what she wants to express to her children as a mother.
Before we can be any of you, you have to be yourself first.
She never forced her fat daughter-in-law, nor did she force her children.
Because she also knows that before they are their own family, they also have to be themselves, do what they want to do, what they should do.
Happy and that's it.
Big fat daughter-in-law quotes
Bao Ma broke his thoughts
Many people envy Zhang stepping on the bell, having a happy family and a successful career.
But a seemingly beautiful life will also face trivial things.
Transnational marriages, independent births, and conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have all been experienced.
Zhang stepped on the bell very well, not that her life was like a joke, but that she had made her life a joke.
I also hope that every girl of us can learn the essence of Zhang Pingling's life, resolve trivial matters with humor, and treat life with open-mindedness.