14 years ago, Sheng Hailin gave birth to twin daughters at the age of 60, becoming the oldest maternal in China at that time, causing a great sensation.
Some say she is great:
I sympathize with and admire her very much, and I really feel the greatness of mother's love!
Mother Sheng is great, she is a strong mother.
Some say she's selfish:
Having a child at an advanced age is a foolish act and an irresponsible act for the child;
The child is still a minor, she is old, and she is not even alive, this is completely selfish to think only about herself!
Of course, there are also some people who think that she can't raise her own children and wait to see her jokes.
Now, 14 years later, how is she doing?
Seriously, I admire her courage to have children at the age of 60 and work hard to make money to raise her twin daughters! I have been following Sheng's mother's account, and sometimes I watch her live broadcasts.
01, 60-year-old Sheng's mother insisted on giving birth to her own child
Sheng Hailin got married at the age of 27 and had a daughter Tingting at the age of 30. The one-child policy of that era left her with only one daughter.
Tingting grew up under the care of her parents and found a good job after graduating with a master's degree. At the same time, I also found a suitable life partner.
During the Spring Festival of the first year of marriage, Tingting went back to her hometown with her husband for the New Year, but unexpectedly, when she slept at night, she was poisoned and died due to a gas leak in the room.
Sheng Hailin fainted when she heard the news of the death of her only daughter.
She had already planned to enjoy her old age after her daughter got married and had children. Unexpectedly, fate gave her such a heavy blow, and she was in pain!
When she was organizing her daughter's funeral, she didn't know how she should spend the rest of her life, and there was no hope for the future, and she even wanted to buy a cemetery adjacent to her daughter and accompany her in the future.
After recovering for a while, she wanted to adopt a child again, but she searched everywhere but ran into a wall everywhere.
So, 60-year-old Sheng Hailin planned to risk her life to have her own child.
At that time, people around her, including her husband, advised her not to give birth, and hospitals in Beijing rejected her attempts to seek medical treatment. But she was always firm in that idea.
In the end, she made a promise to the doctor that she was familiar with the hospital in Hefei that she would "bear all the consequences", and she was able to start the plan to have a child.
Throughout her pregnancy, Sheng Hailin experienced extremely difficult conditions: high uric acid levels, edema all over the body, lightheadedness, persistent nausea, decreased appetite, bone pain, frequent convulsions, high blood pressure, etc. She has experienced almost all the uncomfortable symptoms that can appear in pregnant women.
Finally, in 2010, Sheng Hailin successfully gave birth to twin daughters, Zhizhi and Huihui, setting a record for the oldest maternal age in China.
02, it was difficult to raise twin daughters, but her husband suffered a stroke and passed away
Sheng Hailin did not expect that the financial pressure of giving birth to twin daughters would be so great: including the cost of IVF, the premature baby living in an incubator for more than a month, and various expenses such as subsequent nanny fees, milk powder and diapers.
In order to raise her two daughters, Sheng Hailin began to give lectures all over the country 100 days after the birth of the child, traveling frequently, sometimes running outside for more than 200 days a year.
Although she is over the age of six, she still keeps traveling and giving speeches, although it is very hard, but every time she thinks of having two lovely children at home, she feels full of motivation and hope.
The twins, who risked their lives, gave Sheng's mother the courage and hope to live, so that she could continue to work hard and make money.
However, life is not all smooth sailing.
In 2016, Sheng's mother's husband suffered a stroke. Now, she not only has to comfort her sick husband and take care of her young daughter, but also hire more nannies, which makes the family's financial expenses higher, and Sheng's mother is under more pressure and pain.
However, she was strong and adjusted her state in time, still facing life with a positive and optimistic attitude, and after saving 7 million education funds for her two daughters, she finally stopped her hard work and calmed down to concentrate on accompanying her daughter and husband.
She hopes that she will live to be 104 years old, and be able to accompany her daughter to adulthood and start a family like a young mother.
In 2022, another misfortune struck, the wife who had a stroke suddenly fell ill, failed to rescue her, and left the world forever. It is really sad that she is left alone to face the road behind her life! Fortunately, she is accompanied by two daughters, so that she can go bravely with responsibility~
03, 74-year-old Sheng's mother raised a pair of excellent daughters, and also lived her own wonderful life
Under the careful care of their mothers, the two daughters not only have good academic performance, but also excellent piano, chess, calligraphy and painting.
In the past year or two, the daughters' figures have also risen rapidly, and they are slim, half a head taller than their mothers.
In March this year, Sheng's mother took her two daughters to the capital of Cambodia for a tour, and the daughters were very sensible and rushed to get their luggage to make their mothers easier. This made Sheng's mother feel very gratified!
As a 74-year-old man, Sheng's mother can take two children to travel abroad, and her physical fitness is also very good! From the video she released, it can be seen that she is wearing a bright red dress, and she is also very energetic!
You must know that most of the old ladies of the same age can't even bring their grandchildren, and there are not a few who are lying in the hospital.
I have long followed Sheng's mother's account, often watching her record her life and that of her children, and watching her videos get better and more professional.
As a self-media person, I know that if you really want to do a good job in self-media, you must continue to learn new knowledge. As a 74-year-old man, Sheng's mother is still working hard to do self-media for her children, and this enterprising spirit is admirable!
I sometimes watch Sheng's mother's live broadcasts, she speaks fluently and thinks quickly, she really doesn't look like an old man in her 70s.
In the live broadcast room, she will have a general theme content in each issue, interspersed with answering questions from netizens, and I feel that her mind is very clear.
It can be said that Mama Sheng is a sign of a strong woman, she is fully capable of controlling her life and living a wonderful self!
In the end, I hope that this extraordinary mother can really live to be more than 100 years old, accompany her daughters to adulthood, get married, and have a third generation.
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