In a woman's cognition, every man who appears in her life is actually labeled differently.
Some are just ordinary friends, some may have a little bit of good feeling in their hearts, and some are the only ones she identifies as.
Life itself is a long journey, and there are inevitably choices involved in this journey. And for women, choosing different paths and choosing different directions means that there will be different stories.
Men must not simply think that you have walked together for such a long time, and even, she once loved you so much, so even after separation, she is still your woman.
There are many fates in the world, when they are together, each other is the most dazzling existence in each other's world, and once separated, it is more in line with your words, which is "old and dead do not get along".
In general, a woman who does not contact you and does not delete you, in her heart, you may be this kind of person.
1.It is a spare tire or a licking dog which is not necessary
In a woman's emotional world, a spare tire or licking a dog is often an embarrassing existence. They may have some crush on you, but it's not enough to make them determined to spend the rest of their lives with you.
As a result, you become a solace in their emotional emptiness, or a temporary refuge in other emotional setbacks. They don't contact you because they don't need you, and they don't delete you because they want to keep a glimmer of possibility.
But this possibility is extremely slim, because your position in their hearts can never go beyond the label of "alternative".
In this case, the man should be self-aware. Don't mistake yourself for a chance because of a woman's occasional gentleness.
You know, a woman who really loves you won't let you fall into such an embarrassing situation. They will express their feelings clearly and not make you struggle with the position of the spare tire.
2. I've long forgotten that there is such a person as you
Sometimes, women don't contact you or delete you, not because they still have any special feelings for you.
On the contrary, they may have long forgotten that you existed. In their lives, you may be just an insignificant passer-by, not even qualified for a spare tire.
They don't contact you because they can't remember you, and they don't delete you just because they don't bother to clean up your address book.
In this case, men should be self-aware and not pretend to think that women still have feelings for themselves.
Know that women who really care about you won't let you disappear from their lives. If you find yourself in a woman's world and have become dispensable, it's best to turn away in style.
3. Wait silently for your return
Of course, there is also a possibility that the woman is silently waiting for your return. They may have loved you dearly, but chose to separate for various reasons.
Although they didn't contact you, they didn't delete you either, because they still had a glimmer of hope in their hearts that you would change your mind and come back to them.
In this case, men should think seriously about their feelings. If you still have feelings for women, then you might as well take the initiative and strive for your own happiness.
But if you have let go of this relationship, you should also clearly tell women not to let them run out of youth in needless waiting.