The eldest brother is a lawyer, and the sister-in-law is a university teacher, which is used to glorify the ancestors, and of course they can't come to the city two hundred miles away.
The second brother works as a beer and beverage agent in the county, and he is busy buying and shipping goods every day, and the second sister-in-law can't do without the store.
My husband works in a factory in the town, I do OEM processing, we don't even have a house in the city, my husband is the pillar of the family, and I basically count on him to make money.
But am I the only one in the family who can spare time? Actually, no, the main thing is that I sent my mother-in-law to the hospital, and I can't leave if others don't come, and as soon as the eldest brother and the second brother called, my mother-in-law said that you are busy with yours, and I am fine in the hospital!
She's fine, it's all me running before and after, checking and taking medicine, buying food and water, washing and wiping her body, every day like a spinning top, she is sick and not thin, I lost five pounds.
The three sons and daughters-in-law who were discharged from the hospital gathered, just in time for the New Year, gathered together, my mother-in-law was very happy, but I was not happy, from Chinese New Year's Eve to the second day of the new year, I always cooked the meal, and then called one by one for a long time.
To tell the truth, if it was my family of three, I wouldn't worry about making dumplings, but now the three families of ten people are staring at me to cook, and I have to wait for my mother-in-law to wash her face and eat and change diapers!
Mother-in-law also has a god operation, the eldest brother and the second brother's child gave 500 New Year's money, and gave my son 200, the second brother's child fell out of his pocket, I asked him who gave the red envelope, and he said that grandma gave the New Year's money.
I complained to my husband at night, and who knew that he said, "Are you angry for just a few days?" Is it these days, but what about the future?
He said, as long as you are a daughter-in-law, you have to serve your mother-in-law, and the more I think about it, the more angry I become. Why do I serve alone? Others bully me because you are so bullied.
After dinner on the second day of junior high school, they will go back tomorrow, I said that today everyone will talk about something, after the New Year, how can my mother-in-law serve in the future to get a charter.
My mother-in-law said, I don't need anyone, they don't have time, and you don't go to work, so you have time, and my husband said how can you clean up some things.
I smiled coldly, my three sons served for a month, and if I didn't have time, I would pay to hire a nanny. I don't have time, and even if I do, my mother is something you should honor, and it has nothing to do with me.
My husband said, do we also hire a nanny, I said yes, I used to serve that I was willing, but now I don't want to.
You don't have me in your heart, don't blame me for not having you in my heart, no love is light, in the future, your family will love it, I won't serve my mother!
The above are contributions from netizens
What you are doing right is really that the whole family is bullying you, and you must be principled, have money, and contribute forcefully in the treatment of the elderly.
Your mother-in-law doesn't know what's going on, and your husband is even more stupid, he doesn't think about you, and he can't see your efforts.
From the matter of giving red envelopes to children during the New Year, it can be seen that your mother-in-law is too bullying, looking down on your family, you pay like this, don't say more to give, at least it should be fair. It's really excessive!