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The old man adopted a girl in 1988 and raised her all day by saving money to raise her, and devoted all his life to her education and college, as well as a decent job.
After the daughter got married, she cut off contact with the old man, and even her grandmother died and never showed up, and the old man was lonely and could only sleep in the pig shed for a while.
Many years later, the old man unexpectedly obtained 1.76 million yuan of ancestral house demolition money, the daughter hurriedly went back to the village to ask for the adoptive father's forgiveness, and made a suggestion, asking for half of the demolition money, after the adoptive father refused, he actually sued the adoptive father directly in court, in the court mediation, a handful of snot and tears pretending to be pitiful, it really worked...
It is said that somewhere in Nanchong, Sichuan, many years ago, there was an older young man in his early forties, because the family conditions did not allow, so no girl was willing to marry him, and his mother saw that he had been alone for many years, so she adopted a three-month-old girl doll for him.
At first, he was reluctant to do so, but after spending many days together, he gradually accepted this unrelated child, and from then on, he treated her as his own daughter, poured all his love and care, and never married a wife or had children until he was old.
In order to make this child live a better and stable life, Lao Ma (false name) went around working to make money, and during his daughter's growth and schooling, no matter how hard and tired he was, he never cut off his daughter's financial support. After graduating from college, he came to work in a bustling metropolis, got married, had children, and had a decent job.
The prosperity of the metropolis and the material life gradually make the pony lose himself, and the spiritual world forgets his adoptive father and grandmother who are still in his hometown, and even shows indifference when he learns that his grandmother is critically ill, whether he can go back to visit or take care of him.
After her grandmother died, she stood by and couldn't even attend the funeral, which is the relative who saved her and raised her for more than 20 years!
Grandma's life and death seem to have nothing to do with her, and at this time, family affection seems to have become worthless. After all, in her opinion, her adoptive father's family has always been poor, even if she treats them well, she will not have any use value and help for herself in the future, and she has no blood relationship with them, so why bother.
In Lao Ma's view, when her mother and herself needed her the most, she did not give any love and companionship. The old man became depressed, very disappointed and angry, and even more incomprehensible, because he never thought that his good deeds would be rewarded with such indifference.
However, Providence created people so much that something even more unexpected happened.
The urban renewal plan was extended, and Lao Ma's ancestral house was unexpectedly divided into demolition and received 1.76 million demolition money, which is a huge amount of money for Lao Ma, who is poor and alone. It is said that good things spread thousands of miles and bad things don't go out, and the girl who was once adopted by him, and the news came out of nowhere, but she miraculously came back, obviously, this is for the "demolition money".
When the time came for Biao's acting skills, she fell to her knees on the ground, begged her adoptive father for forgiveness with a handful of snot and tears, and proposed that she was also her daughter, hoping to get half of the demolition money, that is, 880,000, the number is still quite auspicious. In the eyes of the neighbors and outsiders in the village, this female doll still has the face to come back to ask for demolition money, which is really a bit of a truth...
Lao Ma originally thought about the relationship between father and daughter for many years, and actually wanted to forgive her, but when she proposed to share half of the demolition money, Lao Ma woke up from his emotional fantasy, and his face turned black on the spot, anger and sadness inexplicably surged into his heart, and then directly rejected his adopted daughter's proposal to share the money.
Lao Ma made it clear that this adopted daughter was not well-intentioned, and this time she came back not for the father-daughter relationship, but for the demolition money, which was not easy to come by, for such an unfilial daughter, even if I donated all of it to the orphanage, it was impossible to share a penny from her!
According to the relevant laws and regulations, even if it is the identity of the adoptive father and the adoptive daughter, from the day the adoption relationship between the two is established, the two are the same as normal parents and children.
There are also some people who believe that the pony is not qualified to get a penny of the old horse, because she forgot that the most basic thing to be a person is filial piety, and filial piety comes first, and the pony did not play the responsibility and obligation to support his parents, which legally violated his obligations as a child, and emotionally speaking, he did not fulfill his filial piety.
Let's take a look at what the court decides.
The court held that although there was no blood relationship between Lao Ma and the adopted daughter, the adoption relationship between them was established and was legal and valid, so the girl should enjoy certain rights and interests in property sharing. However, when an adopted daughter reaches adulthood, she does not fulfill her due obligation to support the elderly, which is immoral and illegal.
As a result, the court ruled that the girl could only receive a small portion of the compensation, and that most of the compensation should be at the disposal of the elderly themselves.
According to the relevant laws and regulations, the compensation for this demolition is reasonably distributed according to the size of the house, not according to the number of people.
From a moral point of view, the pony really has no right to get his hands on this personal property belonging to his adoptive father, so the demolition money should be at the disposal of the old horse. Even if Lao Ma doesn't share the money, as a daughter, she should also assume the responsibility and obligation of supporting the elderly.
Under the mediation of the court, the two parties finally reached an agreement, Lao Ma agreed to give 500,000 yuan to his adopted daughter and granddaughter, and Xiao Ma needs to promise and write a letter of guarantee, and will fulfill the responsibility of supporting the old horse in the future.
The reason why Lao Ma agreed to mediate was because he knew that no matter what became of his adopted daughter, his responsibilities and obligations as a father would never change, and besides, he couldn't spend so much money. In his opinion, maybe family affection can only be experienced at this time, anger is anger, complaining is complaining...
This ending doesn't seem to be perfect, even a little embarrassing, with the help of the court's efforts, the uncle obviously lost 500,000 yuan, and hired a "pension nanny" who can't be seen and touched in the future.
If you want to support her adoptive father, it's not impossible, as long as the remaining more than one million yuan of the old horse hasn't been spent, it's hers, but there is a time difference, that's all, if you want to do your best, I'm afraid it's still a little reluctant...
In my opinion, with nearly 2 million demolition funds, how moisturizing and moisturizing the pension life can be, you can find a like-minded wife, form a new family, travel together, twist Yangge, buy a new house and live in a new home, etc., why give it to such a ruthless adopted daughter?
This case tells us that family affection and morality cannot be measured by money, and the old man adopted the girl with his kindness and love, but he did not get the due return, and finally got a share of the demolition money for his adopted daughter.
And the behavior of the adopted daughter not only hurt the feelings that the old man poured into his life, but also violated the law and moral character, people's hearts are flesh and blood, not only when the money is in place, can you experience family affection at the moment of Biao's acting skills.
In real life, we should cherish the people and things around us, especially those who have paid for us, they are the most important support and companion on our growth path, and we should use our own actions to repay their love and care.
At the same time, we should also pay attention to our own moral cultivation and be a person with a sense of responsibility and responsibility for things. Only in this way can we truly become a valuable person and win the respect and trust of others.
Finally, we also call on all sectors of society to strengthen publicity and education on family responsibilities and social responsibilities, so that more people can realize the importance of family affection and morality.
At the same time, we should also strengthen the supervision and punishment of unfilial children, so that they realize that their behavior is immoral and illegal, so as to guide them to return to the family and society, and become a responsible and responsible person.
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