People are in good spirits on happy occasions, and Xi Mengyao recently celebrated her 35th birthday and mentioned two hot searches in succession.
First of all, it was a birthday gift that was hyped up.
It is rumored on the Internet that her mother-in-law gave her a huge ship this year, and the price of the ship was coaxed from 1.4 billion to 4.6 billion, which made many netizens break their defenses.
Then, two days ago, the family's new hotel opened, and Pansy Ho took the core people from Hong Kong to Macau to participate in the opening ceremony. Under the flash, each room held back its strength to show its presence, but Xi Mengyao, who was standing in the most inconspicuous position, successfully grabbed the spotlight.
Someone also found a detail: This time, it is rare for three generations of members of the He family to be in the same frame, and only He Youjun brought his daughter-in-law to appear, and the whole process was tightly linked with ten fingers to play a love.
These two pieces of news seem to be unrelated at first glance, but they actually point to one message: Xi Mengyao's status in the gambling king's family is really getting higher and higher.
The matter of sending the ship is basically a marketing rhetoric, just listen to it, don't take it seriously, but this time, as the "godmother" of the new ship, it is indeed face-saving to complete the launching and bottle throwing ceremony.
After checking the relevant information, generally this kind of ceremony is mostly done by men, and only in the West will women with status and status participate, such as Queen Elizabeth, Diana and Princess Kate, and even Audrey Hepburn, Grace Carey, and Sophia Loren have all served it.
It is said that it is not easy to be a daughter-in-law of a wealthy family, and she must have emotional intelligence to survive. Xi Mengyao's journey was quite smooth, she received the certificate in 2019, and completed the counterattack from the "bordered daughter-in-law" in just 5 years, with almost no trouble of "adapting".
There is a saying on the Internet that is very interesting, when it comes to the profession of daughter-in-law of a wealthy family, Xi Mengyao is simply a "good worker" who is seriously in business.
It doesn't matter if you haven't had a wedding since you got married, you will give birth to your eldest grandson with due diligence first, and you will have two children in three years.
After marriage, he worked to make money while raising children, and he also received event endorsements, magazine blockbusters, and live broadcasts, and also took time to study business and study EMBA.
If you think about it, it is really not an easy errand for a person to face a strong mother-in-law, a smart husband, a favored sister-in-law, and a large family relationship with each other.
He Youjun even directly said on the show earlier that all the predecessors he had talked about before had been rejected by the fourth wife as a transparent person. In other words, Xi Mengyao is a rare special case.
Today's He family trusts this daughter-in-law more and more, wherever she goes, the media once photographed the fourth wife personally taking her to inspect the hotel under her name and teach business experience.
Of course, some people say that this is deliberate. In the past, female celebrities married wealthy families and lived in a simple and mysterious way, but now the business of a wealthy family must not only be high-profile but also have topics to bring traffic, and the fourth wife understands this, of course, she must also have a 1+1>2 daughter-in-law.
In fact, to put it bluntly, Xi Mengyao still lives well enough.
Look at marriage thoroughly and rationally, be clear about what you have, what you can give, what you want, and what the family needs, and then just distribute the cubes reasonably like playing Tetris.
The most intuitive thing is that she is expected to improve the "height" problem of the second generation of the gambling king family: the 185CM gambling king, but most of the 17 children are short.
As a supermodel, Xi Mengyao's trump card is naturally height, which is officially 178CM.
HE YOUJUN DISCLOSED THAT HIS HEIGHT RANGED FROM 173CM TO 178CM AND 180CM. THE PHOTO OF THE MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE OF THE TWO DOES LOOK MORE LIKE 180CM.
But in fact, I'm afraid there is a bit of moisture in it.
Watching a reality show is the most straightforward, and the difference in height between the two at home is like this.
The effect of shopping and going out is basically the same.
Like this time when the little couple appeared in a family event, sharp-eyed netizens said that Xi Mengyao was very accommodating to her husband's family. On the one hand, the shoes are basically flat, and I try to keep a low profile and step back, deliberately not standing so straight, in order not to create pressure on other people, especially my husband.
As for He Youjun, because the instep of the shoes is tall, he was ridiculed by netizens as if he was wearing a 5 cm inner height, which became a highly praised topic in the message area.
In fact, there is also He Youjun's brother He Youheng, although the brothers did not stand together, it can be seen with the naked eye that the instep of the shoe is taller than He Youjun. The Internet said that he has 172CM, I'm afraid there is also a question mark.
After all, it's almost the same as the two of them being small.
Sitai Liang Anqi is not to mention as a mother, and the visual inspection is no more than 160CM. So it is natural for everyone to think that her 5 children He Chaoying, He Youbang, He Youheng, He Youjun, and He Chaoxin have inherited her from their height.
Look at the family photo below, the tallest is also Xi Mengyao.
Obviously, Xi Mengyao inherited the tall parents around her.
Other rooms are no exception, the official height of the third wife's daughter He Chaolian is 161CM, and the actual height of netizens is only 156CM.
He Chaoqiong, the daughter of the most valued gambling king, is almost half a head shorter than Carina Lau in the group photo.
And Carina Lau's official height is 167CM, which means that He Chaoqiong's height is at most 160CM, which is about the same as the official 162CM, and it is about the same height as Sitai Station.
Then you will see another miraculous phenomenon that coincides:
FOR EXAMPLE, HE CHAOLIAN, WHO HAD A HAPPY EVENT LAST YEAR, FOUND A TALL AND POWERFUL ACTOR DOU XIAO WITH A HEIGHT OF 182CM. The two of them stood together, and He Chaolian, who was 22CM apart, was simply a bird.
He Chaoying, the eldest daughter of the fourth wife, who was absent from the family group photo this time, is only 156CM tall. Her husband Kimchi Long is 8 years younger, not only 186CM tall, 1 head taller than He Chaoying, but also a Harvard scholar.
The young man is very ambitious, and he read more than 200 original English books in order to get into Harvard in three years of high school, and scored 2260 points (out of 2400 points) on the SAT test and 114 points (out of 120 points on the TOEFL). After graduating from Harvard, he didn't think about borrowing his wife's resources to do business, but he had no desire to go to Yale to continue his medical doctorate degree, and his feelings were directly upgraded with internal and external genes.
No wonder the gambling king, who was still alive at the time, was also quite satisfied with this son-in-law, and in 2019, his daughter got married, and he directly accompanied the 1.4 billion dowry with a big wave of his hand.
He Youjun is not lagging behind, some people say that the most contentious sense of existence in each room of the gambling king family is the fourth wife's family, and in the past few years, he has been competing for the first place in variety shows, business, and politics. Of course, the most eye-catching thing is to marry Xi Mengyao, a supermodel who is 178CM tall and has its own traffic.
This can't be blamed on the shrewdness of businessmen, after all, not to mention far away, the Huo family next door is the best reference.
At that time, Guo Jingjing's mother-in-law, Zhu Lingling, not only changed the appearance genes of the Huo family by herself, but also completely raised the overall height of the family's descendants.
The three sons not only inherited their mother's goose egg face, but also far higher than their father Huo Zhenting, tall, handsome and sunny.
ZHU LINGLING, WHO HAS A MIXTURE OF CHINESE AND MYANMAR DESCENT, IS 168CM TALL AND PARTICIPATED IN THE HONG KONG SISTER CONTEST AT THE AGE OF 19, AND DIRECTLY BROKE THE RECORD AND WON THE CHAMPIONSHIP AND THE MOST PHOTOGENIC MISS DOUBLE AWARD THAT YEAR.
And Huo Zhenting, as the son of the Huo family, can see with the naked eye that his appearance follows his mother Lu Yanni.
There is no advantage in height, because the official height of his father Huo Yingdong is only 165CM, and his mother Lu Yanni is only 155CM, and his height is only 165CM.
Huo Zhenting's second brother Huo Zhenhuan is not bad, although he is slightly taller, but the appearance of his children ultimately benefits from his wife Chen Qiqi.
Especially her daughter Huo Siwei, who is known as a clear stream in the celebrity circle. It is said that the Huo family's first 30 billion property dispute case was reached with her intervention.
▲ A group photo of Huo Zhenhuan with his youngest son Huo Qiwen and daughter Huo Siwei
Huo Yingdong's daughter Huo Lina's appearance has also inherited her mother Lu Yanni, but her only daughter Liu Zeyi is likely to follow her father to be both talented and beautiful.
She graduated from Oxford with a double degree in physics and philosophy, and in 2012 she also attended the famous Paris Ladies Ball.
Not to mention that wealthy families can't escape the need to improve the genes of their family offspring, let's just say that we ordinary people will also pick and choose when choosing a mate on a blind date. After all, as early as in primitive societies, tall men were naturally considered by women to have a stronger sense of strength.
Women don't mind expressing this.
In the documentary ""Refining" Love", there is a Beijing girl named Kitty who is very brave, risking being sprayed by the barrage, and revealing her views on height and appearance.
Some people say that she is hypocritical, but there are indeed people who belong to the beauty party, what's wrong?
Although Professor Do Minjun from the stars is hard to find, he is really reluctant to let go.
In Japan, the criteria for choosing a woman's mate have changed to "three lows" (low risk, low profile, and low dependence). But women still care more about men's height than their looks.
Because in the eyes of many people, the most direct problem for men below 170cm is a lack of security.
According to a joint survey by Japanese insurance agencies and Korean matchmaking companies, the goal of "human high-quality men" in the hearts of East Asian women is no longer a oil-headed man who lifts the corner of a windbreaker, nor is it a handsome and rich man with an annual income of 10 million, but a school-age man of about 1.75 meters, a moderate figure, a stable job, and an annual salary of about 300,000 yuan.
Converted into China's income and consumption level, it is basically economical. BUT YOU SEE, THE HEIGHT BASELINE HAS ALSO GROWN 5CM TALLER.
In Europe and the United States, this topic is also very hot. OK Cupid, a dating website created by a math graduate at Harvard University, has set the height threshold for screening male users at 183CM.
Female users here have also basically reached a consensus on "cracking down on fakes": men who don't write their height on their profiles are basically under 6 feet (about 183 cm).
Because at home and abroad, men themselves are accustomed to running around on this issue.
Well-known social media apps such as Hinge and Bumble are also unambiguous, with about 80% of women only willing to match men over 183 tall. Even if some people are very good in addition to their height.
After all, being fat is temporary, but being short is a lifetime, and height does help to improve the success rate of dating.
Dan Arelly, a behavioral economist at Duke University, also wrote a book in his book "The Benefits of Irrationality", in which he came to a conclusion:
FOR EVERY INCH (ABOUT 2.54CM) OF MEN'S HEIGHT, THE HEIGHT ADVANTAGE CAN ROUGHLY BE WORTH $40,000 PER YEAR. In other words, if a boy with a height of 183CM gets an annual salary of 60,000 US dollars, a boy with a height of 178CM has to earn 140,000 yuan to offset the diaphragm on the psychological gap of girls.
According to a domestic survey, for every 10 cm increase in the husband's height, the average education level of the matching wife increases by 0.62 years.
So in order to have a start, some boys who are eager to find a partner begin to falsely report their height, and when they enter an offline date, they wear 10CM heightened insoles to deal with it, and they really dare to ......
In other words, the big deception in the height world should be counted as Teacher Luo Xiang, who obviously has a face of 170, but has a height of 190.
Amateurs pick objects like this, and Vanity Fair is even more rolled.
Many people may have forgotten that the men's group where Ming Dao was located back then was called 183club, focusing on a height that was eye-catching.
The Times Youth League even proved the sentence "no contrast, no harm" with its strength.
At this point, there is basically no distinction between the old, the middle and the young.
Director Zhang Yimou, who is 70+, has followed the trend of male stars on the red carpet and wore heightened shoes.
Brother Shen Teng and Brother Xiaoming also often wear thick-soled shoes on the red carpet.
Regarding the questioning of the height of the outside world, he has also done "popular science" with netizens patiently and humorously more than once.
Andy Lau also revealed in the interview that he once cared about height and envied Fa Ge, and even bought height-increasing shoes to play.
After such a plate, it may not be difficult to understand the entanglements and strange encounters that everyone has faced when talking about objects.
But the good thing is that people's values will eventually grow.
When we are young, maybe we care more about a person's appearance, and even have a soft spot for handsome boys. As I get older, I become more pragmatic, and I begin to think about how to adjust my mentality and learn to make choices.
Compared with Rukawa Kaede's ball skills and Daoming Temple's chest muscles, he knows how to respect women, strictly abide by the moral bottom line, not be assertive, and even dare to be kind, broad-minded and optimistic...... Such boys are more worthy of attention and favor.
At the same time, you can also learn to look at a person's strengths and weaknesses objectively, evaluate your own losses and gains, and do not compare what you don't have with what others have.
Just like Xi Mengyao's marriage to the He family, accepting the other party's pickiness, rules and complex interpersonal relationships, and getting a chance to jump in class; the rich girl Zhu Liqian married Andy Lau, an idol superstar admired by tens of millions of people, behind the 23 years of incognito loneliness and the caution to protect children in response to gossip tabloids. A warm man who knows cold and hot may also be someone else's central air conditioner; a good mother-in-law who is reasonable to help take care of the baby, maybe her son is a "mud man" who is not responsible, incapable, and even more responsible......
All kinds of faces, only to practice their own sharp eyes and self-management ability, and firmly grasp the resources of happiness in their own hands.
In the past, we talked about the husband and wife as partners in marriage, but now I think the next step is to improve the ability to do a good job of independent management. Because only when you first stiffen your waist and open your cognition, can you not fall into obsession and self-pity, can you have a higher sense of worthiness and self-confidence, and can you live more chic and free. May we all strive to be self-fulfilling, single or married.