In the TV series "Wind Chaser", Wei Ruolai is just a mediocre little person from a poor background. He did not study finance systematically, and only attended accounting school for a while.
But he can get a job at a central bank that many people can't hope for, and he can also become an apprentice of Shen Tunan, a tycoon in Shanghai's financial circle.
On the other hand, Lin Qiaosong, his starting point is much higher than Wei Ruolai. He graduated from the Whampoa Military Academy and took up a post in Nanjing after graduation. We all know that there are many famous generals who have come out of Whampoa, but at that time, it was not with enthusiasm that anyone could go to the Whampoa Military Academy.
Lin Qiaosong can go to the Whampoa Military Academy, at least it proves that his family background is not bad. After graduation, he can stay in Nanjing and work, which means that his grades in school are also very good.
It stands to reason that Lin Qiaosong should have a promising future, why didn't he rise step by step like Wei Ruolai, but was "demoted" and kicked to the Military Justice Department of the Shanghai Garrison Command, and made Kang Shaojie a subordinate.
Why?
Could it be that he is more Buddhist and greedy for stability?
Not.
In the known plot, we can clearly see Lin Qiaosong's ambition, he always dreams of returning to Nanjing, and in order to achieve this wish, he can capture the "red members" at all costs.
In fact, Lin Qiaosong and Wei Ruolai, they both want to get ahead, and they are both willing to give everything in order to get ahead, but the reason why Wei Ruolai, a "son of a poor family", can crush Lin Qiaosong is actually three points: loyalty, empathy, and heart.
And these three points, in real life, are also the key to our ordinary people's successful counterattack.
1. Loyalty
I've heard the saying, "Seek loyalty first and then ability, and be safer." ”
In the past, I only stayed at the literal understanding, and it wasn't until I watched "The Wind Chaser" that I understood the wisdom behind it.
Although Wei Ruolai has not studied for a few years, he is very smart and belongs to the "talented player". In Shanghai, a place where there are many people of all religions and nine streams, it is too easy for him to use his "little cleverness" to make some money.
But he didn't.
Because Wei Ruolai wants to be an upright person and find a decent job.
But he has a little ability, but his background is very different, and he can't get a chance to be treated fairly. It wasn't until he met Shen Tunan, a "big man in the financial world" who had the world in mind and only looked at ability, regardless of background, that Wei Ruolai made up his mind to follow him.
Since he decided to follow Shen Tunan, he had to dig out his heart and lungs. Shen Tunan was injured and lost too much blood, so Wei Ruolai went into battle for a blood transfusion without saying a word.
Shen Tu Nan was in danger, and in order to protect him, Wei Ruolai even ignored Shen Tu Nan's opposition and took the risk to rob Zhang Mingquan's gun.
It's just that what he didn't expect was that the shopping mall was like a battlefield, and there was no room for the slightest mistake.
This "self-help act" out of legitimate defense was actually used by Shen Tunan's opponents and became a bargaining chip for them to try to pull Shen Tunan off the horse and overturn the bank reform.
Wei Ruolai was imprisoned and tortured inside. In order to guide Wei Ruo to splash dirty water on Shen Tunan, Lin Qiaosong whipped him, electrocuted him with an electric baton, and lowered his mental defense with barbiturate potion.
But Wei Ruolai's loyalty comes from a kind of inner firmness.
He gritted his teeth and endured the pain and said, "You want to use me to deal with Mr., dreaming!"
Lin Qiaosong felt that Wei Ruolai was stupid, obviously splashed sewage on Shen Tunan, so he didn't have to suffer so much. But he wanted to give his life to Shen Tunan because of Shen Tunan's "small favor".
So for Wei Ruo:
"You are still too young to properly understand the definition of loyalty, some small favors, and you will give your life to others. Immature. ”
The implication is that no one deserves my life.
Lin Qiaosong said so, and he really thought so.
For the sake of his own future, he is a ruthless person who kills his mentor without blinking, and he can't understand the true meaning of the word loyalty if he wants to break his head.
Lin Qiaosong will only say:
"Why did I catch up with a teacher with a red identity?"
"Why did they look down on people and kick me from Nanjing to Shanghai?"
He keeps saying that he is not for the sake of promotion and making a fortune, but on the one hand, he looks down on the hypocrisy of being an official, and only knows how to stuff money in his pocket, and on the other hand, he is in the same league with them, flattering and currying favor with all parties, just to win a good future for himself.
He is twisted and twisted, and his "loyalty" is also loyal only to his own interests.
Therefore, he was able to curry favor with Kang Shaojie on the one hand, and at the same time negotiate with Shen Tunan on conditions to return to Nanjing. In order not to offend Yu Shichun, he became an enemy with Shen Tunan. After a while, because of his future, he backstabbed Kang Shaojie.
It is precisely because Lin Qiaosong is so rebellious and capricious that all forces are unwilling to support him.
2. Concentricity
In "The Wind Chaser", Lin Qiaosong gave me the feeling of being like a "wolf" living in the dark.
He has no bottom line, he only cares about his own gains and losses, and he doesn't care about the lives of others at all.
The root of this is because of Lin Qiaosong's lack of empathy.
What is Empathy?
It is to know how to consider problems from the perspective of others, instead of blindly complaining and jealousy from your own perspective.
At Shen Tunan's welcome banquet, Shen Jinzhen played the piano in front of everyone as Shen Tunan's sister, and when Lin Qiaosong was fascinated, he was driven away by Kang Shaojie in a rough voice.
Lin Qiao was so angry, the first thing he thought of was that everyone here was a person who "looked down on people with dogs' eyes". So I was resentful and annoyed, and I wanted to destroy the red organization.
But in fact, Kang Shaojie, as a leader with no ability, finally came to Lin Qiaosong, who was quite capable, and naturally wanted to stay firmly by his side.
This kind of banquet where celebrities gather, if Lin Qiaosong catches up with a big man and returns to Nanjing, then there will be no one available for his subordinates.
In fact, the "anti-talent" psychology of being a leader like Kang Shaojie is also very common in today's workplace.
The subordinates are smart and capable, and the leader does not want to give him a chance to be promoted, and on the other hand, he wants to be firmly tied to him. In order to maintain their position, reduce their workload, and achieve KPIs at the same time.
Understanding this, in fact, Lin Qiaosong doesn't need to find reasons to disgust himself at all, he just needs to cater to the needs of the leaders on the surface, improve himself behind the scenes, and wait for the opportunity to act.
But Lin Qiaosong is self-absorbed because of his psychological inferiority complex and lack of understanding of human nature.
On the other hand, Wei Ruolai's heart is very strong. No matter what others do to him, Wei Ruolai can always analyze the logic behind everyone's behavior emotionally and steadily.
For example, when the inmates learned that Wei Ruolai was a member of the central bank, they beat him as if they were angry. If it were Lin Qiaosong, he would definitely remain silent knowing that the stocks they bought would fall, and then quietly watch them lose so much that they don't even have any pants left.
But Wei Ruolai didn't, he not only reminded his fellow inmates regardless of his previous suspicions and helped them make a fortune, but also put himself in their shoes and reminded them not to enter the stock market easily in the future.
Because he understands the bitterness of shareholders who have lost their money, he is also willing to choose forgiveness.
For another example, after Wei Ruolai cleared his suspicion, Lin Qiaosong specially invited him to have a meal in prison.
Wei Ruo said: "Don't worry, I won't say bad things about you after I go out, and I won't say a word." ”
Lin Qiaosong was relieved.
Actually, Wei Ruolai said this not because he was greedy for life and afraid of death, he was a coward, and he didn't want to offend people. It's because he can stand in Lin Qiaosong's position and understand his thoughts of obeying his boss and wanting to make meritorious contributions.
Just as Wei Ruolai could understand that the people of Qibao Street respected him, he said:
"The newspaper said that I was a murderer, and they ignored me, which is understandable. ”
Because of empathy, Wei Ruolai never has internal friction, and this is also the reason why he can make good luck.
3. Heart
How long a person can succeed and how long a thing can be carried out is largely related to the intention of the executor.
In "The Wind Chaser", Wei Ruolai's heart is to save the country and the people, and for the happy life of the people of the whole country. It's a great love.
And Lin Qiaosong's intention is to improve his status and let others look up to me.
The latter is much easier to do than the former, because it only needs to serve itself, and it does not need to take care of others at all, and even if it does something harmful to others and not to itself, it will not feel uneasy in conscience.
is like Lin Qiaosong, he killed his mentor, and then killed his friend and uncle, and then he can still fight with Song Meijuan, you and me.
If it weren't for Shen Jinzhen's disdain for him, maybe Lin Qiaosong would have pretended to marry Shen Jinzhen, and then step on Shen Tunan to return to Nanjing, and then kill Shen Jinzhen, a person with a red background.
Most of the people who are selfish are people who forget their righteousness for the sake of profit.
In them, family, friendship, and love do not exist. They only choose themselves, and they can only live in their own world, they always wear masks, weak and wronged when they are weak, and bloodthirsty when they are strong.
But such people can often get results in a short period of time. Because they are goal-oriented, unencumbered, and fierce.
But it is precisely because of their practice of leaving no way back at all and harming others and benefiting themselves that the brilliance is destined to break at the first touch, and the ending will inevitably be tragic and tragic.
The philosopher Hegel once said, "In pure light, as in pure darkness, it is impossible to see anything." ”
In "The Wind Chaser", Lin Qiaosong lives in pure darkness, so a casual word from others will easily poke the pain in his heart, making him angry, crazy, and jealous.
After Wei Ruolai was released from prison, Lin Qiaosong knew that he was at a loss, and specially instructed Wei Ruolai to "adults don't remember villains", also because he was good at thinking badly about others and felt that others would deal with him.
When he learned from Shen Jinzhen that he was just a small person, he was unwilling, and felt that the other party looked down on him, so he completely tore his face with Shen Jinzhen and embarked on the road of killing Shen Jinzhen.
Looking at it this way, in fact, Lin Qiaosong's core is very unstable. Although he was higher than Wei Ruolai in his origin, his self-esteem made him go further and further on the right path, until he was completely lost.
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