Many of my friends are curious about how I can travel alone.
In fact, it is not difficult to travel alone, as long as you are a sober person, you can do it, but you are a little lonely.
But a person is really free! You can sleep until you wake up naturally, you can wander aimlessly, or you can not go anywhere, stay in the B&B and drink tea in a daze.
I started traveling alone 10 years ago, buying a plane ticket to go where I wanted to go.
I remember that the first time I traveled alone was to buy a special ticket of 99 yuan, go to Gulangyu Island in Xiamen, and stay alone for three nights, wandering aimlessly.
After that, I felt that it was good to travel alone.
In fact, domestic travel is really safe!
When I arrived in Mexico, I didn't dare to go out at night, and I went to Italy, worrying every day that I would be seen by thieves.
The advantage of going out alone is freedom and convenience, but the advantage of going out for two people is to take care of it.
In fact, when traveling, it is difficult to reach a consensus of opinions.
Even if you need to carpool for a group, it is generally not recommended to have more than 12 people.
The best way is to have a few friends with similar interests and take care of each other.
There are many friends who like to go to self-drive together, and there are disagreements, and the last few cars are still on the road with 1-2 left.
If you are a group of four people, it is perfect for self-driving, accommodation, or food.
But it's still like-minded people who travel together to have a very relaxed and enjoyable time.
If one of them doesn't fit in, then sometimes it's awkward.
And the consumption concept should be similar, some people like hostels, some people like five-star hotels, some people like chain hotels, if there is no agreement, the trip will be unpleasant.
So, what do you need to pay attention to when traveling alone?
In fact, men are relatively simple, as a woman who often travels alone, I think you need to pay attention to the following points:
1. Don't wear too revealing skin
Dress modestly and not overly obtrusive or revealing your skin. Try to blend in with the crowd and don't try to get the attention of others.
Some female friends often ask me, is it safe to travel alone?
I always joke that if you don't wear an open-waisted backless miniskirt and get drunk at a bar, it's safe to go anywhere in the country.
On the other hand, it is not safe anywhere.
2. Avoid going to remote places
If you are traveling alone, do not participate in some dangerous outdoor adventures, and do not put yourself in dangerous situations to ensure your own safety.
There is a lot of outdoor hiking, camping in the mountains in the middle of the night, it is good that there are many people, but if there are only two or three people, it is inevitable that you will be in a disadvantageous situation.
3. Try to avoid conflicts with others
Try to avoid conflicts with others and don't overthink personal gains and losses.
In case of a dispute, do not fight or quarrel with someone, but should call the police in time.
Sometimes don't argue with people for a little dissatisfaction. It's okay to suffer a small loss.
Fourth, try not to take a black car
Try to choose public transportation when traveling, and if you need to take a taxi, be sure to choose a regular taxi, and don't take a black car for the sake of cheapness.
Trading on various platforms, don't go offline for a few dollars cheaper, safety is difficult to guarantee.
5. Don't stay outside late at night
If traveling alone, try not to linger outside late at night.
If you must travel at night, choose a place with bright lights and don't go too far from the main roads and crowds. Don't play too late and keep yourself safe.
I remember once I went to a Dong village at the foot of Fanjing Mountain in Guizhou, after watching the performance at more than ten o'clock there was no taxi, the owner of the B&B called a motorcycle to pick me up, the mountain road became darker and darker, in case of any danger, it was really called every day. Fortunately, there was a false alarm.
6. Be wary of accosting strangers
Be wary of accosting strangers and don't reveal too much personal information.
There is a proverb that says, "You must not have the intention of harming others, and you must not have the heart of guarding against others", so it is necessary to be cautious about the communication of strangers and remain vigilant.
Some people like to chat, especially on long-distance trains or cars, and tell strangers about their personal situation, family situation, and where they live through chatting, which is more dangerous.
7. Don't be greedy for small gains
Don't be too curious about strangers' words, and don't be greedy for small gains, otherwise you will be easily deceived.
Be calm and rational and don't make impulsive decisions. For example, a glass of wine from a strange man is dangerous.
Be sure not to let your cup out of sight.
8. Remember to buckle the safety lock when staying in the hotel
If you are staying alone, it is recommended to choose a bustling and lively place in the city center, and not choose a location that is too remote.
When staying in a hotel, make sure the door is locked and don't open the door easily when someone knocks.
9. Tell your family about your whereabouts
Be sure to inform family or friends of your trip before you travel, stay in touch with them, and make sure your phone is fully charged and you have a power bank with you.
I generally start to be vigilant when my phone battery is less than 50%. In this way, no matter what happens, you can connect with family and friends and get timely help and support.
What else would you add about traveling alone?
But when traveling alone, there is an inevitable drawback, that is, you don't get to taste more local specialties.
Traveling alone, most of the time, can only eat simple single meals.
In fact, every time I go to a place, I want to try all kinds of delicious food, and my appetite is limited. There are too many delicious foods, and there is no appetite for big meals and the like.
I order too much, and I feel that it is too wasteful, and I really can't eat it!
Of course, when you travel alone, there is no one to share your good mood with, and no one to take pictures with.
When I travel alone, sometimes I am too lazy to take a tripod, and the most common thing I say is: handsome man, can you help me take a photo of my trip here?
Would you travel alone? Let's talk.