Only by loving yourself enough will you have the strength to love others.
When she first participated in the reality variety show for the first time, she was called "a woman" by the audience.
Every time she was coquettish or acted, she was scolded by Qin Hao, "If you are sick, you must be treated" and "If you don't do it, I will not bear it".
That was Yi Nengjing's first impression of the real screen, but after "Sister Lang", Yi Nengjing, who re-entered the audience's field of vision, was gradually understood.
In the face of Qin Hao, she will send various small essays to express her love and support for Qin Hao's career.
In the face of her children, she will unswervingly choose to stand with her children and resist gossip from the outside world.
Even though the Internet is full of all kinds of malice, she always resolves everything with a gentle and kind attitude.
Later, netizens began to turn fans.
It turns out that Yi Nengjing is not only online with high IQ and high emotional intelligence, but also lives a sober and transparent life.
Her philosophy of life is enough to support many people through those lows in life.
Some people envy her for being the best female star in the entertainment industry:
Rich and talented, he has a career, he was spoiled by his husband in both marriages, there is no conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and both children are well-behaved.
As everyone knows, her "good life" is hidden in her transparent life values.
Sober, knowledgeable, aware of gains and losses, knowing advance and retreat.
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A woman who is loved is at peace in her heart
When Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing separated, they did not tear each other apart.
It is enough to see their cognition and pattern, as well as the dignity that gives each other.
Even after separating from Yu Chengqing, in public, Yi Nengjing would praise Yu Chengqing unreservedly.
However, they are enough to love each other in marriage.
Yu Chengqing was born in a famous family and has a good family background, the key is to be dedicated and affectionate to Yi Nengjing.
Yi Nengjing once said that when she was bitten by mosquitoes in the middle of the night, Yu Chengqing would get up and give his wife intimate ice to coax her to sleep.
This in-depth and detailed love makes Yi Nengjing, who has lacked a sense of security since she was a child, feel very relieved.
It's just that later, Yi Nengjing, who had too much emotion and emotional needs, didn't go to the end with Yu Chengqing.
Yi Nengjing is born with romantic feelings, and once it is not nourished, it will be excessively "internal friction".
"You just love me and don't care about the outlet of my soul. ”
It is the best interpretation of her and Yu Chengqing.
Five years later, Yi Nengjing met Qin Hao.
She is 10 years younger than her, and she has been a fan of her brother since she was a child.
Qin Hao was born a straight man of steel in his bones, and in the face of Yi Nengjing's various "works", Qin Hao also has his own set of ways to deal with it.
The words she said seemed incomprehensible, but they were full of humor, which directly disintegrated her sensitivity and vulnerability.
Her love for Yi Nengjing is rarely in words, most of it is in action.
He will take the initiative to hold her hand at the Berlin Film Festival and declare his love to the world, so that Yi Nengjing is full of confidence in the future of the two.
What's even more rare is that he loves Wu and Wu, and regards Harry, the son of Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing, as his own.
When talking to his mother about "family", he didn't forget to bring Harry's name.
How can such a man not make a sensitive woman who is married for the second time feel secure?
In the marriage relationship, even if the second marriage is still 10 years older than Qin Hao, her mother-in-law's reasonableness, gentleness and consideration make her feel loved all the time.
At the age of 46, she gave birth to her daughter Millet Grain, and Yi Nengjing also wanted to give birth to another son for Qin Hao. The mother-in-law refused directly, and her words were full of distress for her: "Your stomach has been cut twice, and you are still alive?"
When Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing quarreled because of disagreement, she habitually stood on her daughter-in-law's side, and the sentence "listen to Xiaojing" directly blocked Qin Hao's mouth.
In one fell swoop, she became "the most wanted mother-in-law on the whole network".
The hearts of women who are loved are rich, fulfilling, and stable.
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Live as a woman who is the envy of the whole network
Yi Nengjing has always been quite controversial.
As an actor, there is no particularly outstanding masterpiece.
Later, she wrote songs and published books under the name of a "talented girl", but in the eyes of people in the industry, that's it.
The personality is not particularly good, pretentious and loving, which can be seen from her small compositions.
But you have to admit that she has her own advantages:
Delicate in heart, high in emotional intelligence, sweet in mouth, good at giving others just the right emotional value.
And these places that are "unaccustomed to" are precisely the key to achieving her so-called "good life".
Who would have thought that she was over half a hundred years old but relied on live broadcast to climb the peak of her career.
In the first live broadcast last year, she earned 50 million.
Each anchor has her own style of bringing goods, and her style is a sober and transparent life truth.
The misery of childhood, the misfortune of life, and the tragic life experiences that she talked about were sold by her in the form of chicken soup for the soul in the live broadcast room.
She sells goods not only to sell goods, but also to get along with interpersonal relationships and invest in herself......
You can always see the positive side of everything, so that you can feel the shining point in yourself when you listen to her speech through the screen.
Yi Nengjing, anyone who gets along with her will feel like a spring breeze.
During the trough of Qin Hao's career, the support of Yi Nengjing's high emotional intelligence allowed Qin Hao to survive that bleak time.
Recognition, understanding, and resonance were what Qin Hao lacked at that time, and it was precisely from Yi Nengjing that he could get them.
So today's Qin Hao, when talking about Yi Nengjing, is full of admiration and admiration.
Getting along with her mother-in-law, Yi Nengjing is also used to talking about compliments.
The relationship with my son is always one of equality, respect, understanding, support and love.
When Harry was in the spotlight because of his style of dressing, she was still able to firmly respect all of her son's actions and support him to be himself.
Unconditional love, trust and tolerance are regrets that many people have longed for from their parents, but cannot be satisfied.
Yi Nengjing's parenting concept can always poke countless people.
Therefore, Yi Nengjing's good life has always been hidden in her life philosophy and life values.
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Learn to conserve your own energy
In the face of external interference and negative emotions, only with a strong core can we resist.
Yi Nengjing is always full of energy.
She is open to different variables and can embrace all possibilities.
Underneath the seemingly weak appearance, there is actually an incomparably rich and powerful core.
Not being coerced by emotions is a high level of freedom.
Childhood misfortunes, failed marriages, public opinion and attacks from the outside world, she received them all and digested them herself.
Moreover, she can also convert them into energy that promotes her own growth, nirvana rebirth.
Only by loving yourself enough will you have the strength to love others.
Learn to save your own energy, and there will be light in your body.
All the surprises and good fortune in the world are your accumulated gentleness and kindness, Be a gentle and pure person with a strong heart, warm yourself and illuminate others.
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Author: Wan Muzi, CCDM China Career Planner, BSC Senior Career Planner, American Shubo School Career Planner, more than 9 years of enterprise project management, registered international psychological counselor, more than 5 years of corporate training lecturer, platform contract author, second child mother.