Today, I met my friend who was chatting about parent-child issues two days ago, and her face seemed to be better than the day before yesterday, and her eye circles were not so dark.
Friend said: After such a long time, I also read "Tao Te Ching" and "Asking the Truth", and many positive friends around her often chatted with her. Therefore, now she is somewhat able to accept the outcome of her son's high school entrance examination, but she is still a little unwilling......
I see that she is in a good mood today, she keeps smiling, like she is back to her previous lively appearance, and I am also very happy. So, we talked about the true stories of children who have accumulated a lot of children after repairing the parent-child relationship after the Tao Te Ching has been used along the way.
As the saying goes, "evidence is king", these real learning stories around us, the methods used by parents are the simplest, and the summary is:
- First, walk into the positive energy learning circle and pour out the entanglements in your heart - speak out, people are comfortable.
- Second, read the scriptures and meditate, and look in the mirror against the "Asking the Question" - find the right track and focus on yourself.
- Third, write a clean diary, review yourself, and clean your heart - your heart is clean and your mind is connected.
- Fourth, return to life and brighten the quality - do your best, everything will be fine.
- Fifth, insist on returning to the furnace regularly and walk hand in hand with everyone - one person goes fast, and a group of people goes far.
- Sixth, share your own story and spread the love – those who love love to return.
In the world, the simplest is always the most advanced - the most effective method, it is extremely simple to say, but just like the "elixir", it will be effective as soon as it is used. But why do some people know and use it, but the effect is not obvious?
I teased my friend:
For example, you, such a smart and determined person, these methods have long been known, which is equivalent to getting the medicine right now. But with medicine, the effect is always good and bad, because you lack a "medicine primer"!
A friend asked curiously: What is the "medicine primer"?
I said, "Persistence!" Cultivation is the same as work and study, and no matter how good the method is, without "persistence" as a medicine, the effect will never come out.
For example, I am a person who lacks the quality of "persistence". Therefore, compared with those teachers around me who practice and practice and insist silently, although I say many methods well, I don't do enough to do them, and the effect is much worse.
In fact, I think that the "accident" between a friend and his son can be transformed into a "story" in the friend learning to use the Tao Te Ching, insisting on cleaning up his heart and doing his best. So, I suggested that my friend start writing "Cleaning Logs".
The power of cleaning is a powerful dredging force.
When one's heart is clean and smooth, the body can activate the self-healing function, and the relationship can give birth to harmony - because everything is created by the mind, if the heart is blocked, life will not go well.
"Cleanup Log" can be a seven-day cycle, because "seven" is a converted number.
If you clean it up carefully, after seven days in a row, there will be changes.
With a little change, we will be more confident and more willing to persevere.
With the medicine of "persistence", all the simplest "medicines" can exert the most miraculous effects!
There is a passage in the "Prayer for the Challenge Month" that I give to my friends and myself:
The hardest practices are in the simplest things.
Everyone knows that eating well, sleeping well, and exercising well can be healthy, but who can focus on sticking to it?
Everyone knows that being aware all the time, reflecting every day, and cleaning up every day, can shorten the way, but who can focus on persevering?
Therefore, if you can repeat simple things, do them with your heart, and do them to the extreme, the final result is not simple.
If you want to get things done, don't waste time on "thinking", and do it is real.
Let's get started! With the first step, everything will come to rest in a good way.
Be grateful for everything you encounter, because every time you have a conversation with someone, what you say is what you want to say to "me" in your heart.
Thanksgiving!
Previous logs:
- An unexpected survival challenge
- Do you believe in morality, or are you morally confident