Character stories
Text: Xi Xili Editor: Jia Fangfang
Source: Marriage & Family Magazine
Congratulations to Jiang Qinqin! She won the Asian Film Award "Actress" for the movie "The World of Grass and Trees".
In this movie, Jiang Qinqin contributed almost "crazy" acting skills. She plays a mother who is brainwashed and enchanted by pyramid schemes, and she doesn't listen to her son's persuasion, and she is a proper pyramid scheme.
The movie is so emotional, and it is inseparable from the hard work behind Jiang Qinqin. On the set, she even played angina. She put her all into the role, and she deserved it.
Standing on the podium, Jiang Qinqin thanked many people, especially her husband, Chen Jianbin . But this thank you is more like a "confession": "I love my lover Chen Jianbin , thank you for constantly touting me, giving me encouragement, and letting me persevere." ”
Chen Jianbin in the audience also unabashedly and excitedly continued to offer flying kisses.
In an interview, Chen Jianbin said with a look of adoration: "Watching Teacher Jiang act, I fell in love with her again. ”
Netizens who were sprinkled with a mouthful of dog food shouted: Isn't this "Shiro and Chunyuan's modern version of love"!
During the roadshow at Peking University, Chen Jianbin was extremely proud of Jiang Qinqin's award, and couldn't help but sing a piece of "Plum Blossom Three Alleys" in "Plum Blossom Three Alleys" for her, "Ask what is the love in the world, only teach people to make promises of life and death".
Chen Jianbin seems to have not seen the scene of revolving around his wife and treating his wife as a queen.
Indeed, in the past ten years, whenever the two appeared in front of the public, Chen Jianbin was the focus. Because of a series of masterpieces such as "The Legend of Zhen Huan", Chen Jianbin became so popular that he turned purple, and until now netizens have used the stalks in "The Legend of Zhen Huan" to make a song album for him.
And Jiang Qinqin is more like a green leaf. After getting married and having children, she faded out of the showbiz, and even when she appeared in variety shows, she was shown as a good wife and mother.
Everyone knows that she is Chen Jianbin Chen's wife and mother of two children, but they forget what a wonderful actor she used to be.
This time, everything has changed. In the movie, Jiang Qinqin is the protagonist, and Chen Jianbin is the supporting role. On the stage, Jiang Qinqin won the award, shining brightly, and off the stage, Chen Jianbin looked at her, and love sprouted.
At this moment, people saw Jiang Qinqin again. She is not only Chen Jianbin 's wife, not only the mother of two children, but also an independent and excellent Jiang Qinqin, an excellent actor, a drama maniac, and a queen who has won the Feitian Award and the Golden Eagle Award.
starred in Xi Shi at the age of 19, Jiang Qinqin's dress was shocking, and since then he has opened the road of "the first beauty in ancient costumes";
In "Kangxi Weifu Private Interview", Jiang Qinqin starred in a unit, which was smart and dazzling;
After becoming a Joan girl, she starred in "Tears in the Sky" and "Qinghe Love", which were extremely distressing;
The "second dream" in "Fengyun", even if there is a scar on her face, does not prevent her from playing this role into the white moonlight in the hearts of many audiences.
Not to mention "Qiao's Courtyard", Jiang Qinqin's acting skills have always been online.
Now, 26 years after graduating from film school, Jiang Qinqin has left many classic roles and will continue to create more classics, because she has always worked hard to be a better, independent and excellent self.
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"Persistence" and "dedication" are her greatest capital
If Jiang Qinqin's appearance gives people a wonderful feast, then there is a shining and dazzling energy in her.
Jiang Qinqin, who was born in Chongqing in 1975, has a little bit of the "spiciness" of a mountain city woman, and has the strength to not admit defeat.
Because his father was a policeman, he disciplined Jiang Qinqin very strictly, and he would be beaten a few times if he didn't hold the chopsticks well during meals.
Since the age of 10, Jiang Qinqin has been sent to an art school to learn opera, and he has to practice from 7 o'clock in the morning to the evening every day. Learning drama is a profession that only children who can endure hardships can persevere, so teachers are more strict. Holding the big top alone requires everyone to hold on for 3 minutes, and as long as one person is left behind, they have to start all over again.
At that time, it was common for Jiang to practice diligently until she was in pain, and she didn't dare to be lazy even if she went home on vacation, because her father would supervise her to practice her legs every day and turn her head on the lawn.
When she was a child, Jiang Qinqin felt that her father didn't love her, and she was used to making her suffer. But when she grew up, she learned that her father's love for her was deep and restrained.
Once, Jiang Qinqin broke a piece of his face. During the day, my father saw the broken face and complained about why she was so inattentive. But at night, when Jiang Qinqin fell asleep, he quietly helped her pick out the sand with a needle.
Another time, Jiang Qinqin fell out of love and cried every day at home. The father looked distressed and was afraid that she wouldn't be able to think about it, so he comforted: "Don't be like this, you have a father and mother who love you so much, what kind of injury you have to suffer, Dad can't stand it." ”
This is the first time that Jiang Qinqin has felt her father's unreserved love so intuitively, and it has made her grow a loving and powerful heart.
At the age of 18, Jiang Qinqin was admitted to the Chongqing Peking Opera Troupe. coincided with the enrollment of Beijing Film Academy in Chongqing, and she took the exam by the way, and she was admitted to the first place in her major. Since then, she has formed an indissoluble bond with the actor.
On the day of the Beiying report, everyone was waiting to see what kind of beautiful woman got the first place. Jiang Qinqin didn't care about his image at all, he took the train for three days and three nights, and appeared in front of everyone.
This is Jiang Qinqin, unpretentious and straightforward.
Later, Jiang Qinqin accompanied the audition for "Xi Shi" directed by Yang Jie. At that time, she didn't wear makeup and hid at the end, but she was still favored by the director at a glance, and her beauty has been known to the world since then.
Qiong Yao specially gave her a stage name "Shui Ling", which means "soft as water, and the aura is compelling".
But Jiang Qinqin gradually got tired of always being concerned about beauty, and she wondered why everyone didn't see her acting skills?
Therefore, Jiang Qinqin began to work hard to get rid of the shackles of beauty.
"Half Life" originally asked her to play the pitiful Gu Manzhen, but Jiang Qinqin tried his best to play Gu Manlu with ruthlessness and bad energy.
Once you want to do it, you have to do your best.
Jiang Qinqin locked himself in the hotel, repeatedly studied Anita Mui's version and Zhang Ailing's original work, gave up all social interactions, and completely turned himself into Gu Manlu.
Later, Zhang Guoli asked Jiang Qinqin to play Song Meiling, and one-third of her lines were in English. Jiang Qinqin felt that he couldn't speak English and couldn't take it.
The people around her persuaded her, after all, she could dub in the later stage. But Jiang Qinqin said: "What I can't stand the most is Chinese with English, I can't pass this level myself!"
So, she went to study with an English teacher every day. After the performance, Zhang Guoli praised her for "speaking English better than Chinese".
When filming "The Legend of Fragrant Powder", Jiang Qinqin's script was densely filled with notes, writing about the characters' micro-expressions, the causes and consequences of a certain action, and even all the accessories and accessories worn on his body, and labels, which were so meticulous that the director admired them.
In "A Spoon" directed by Chen Jianbin , Jiang Qinqin plays a peasant woman who not only looks like her on the outside, but also has the humility of a peasant woman on the inside, making people completely forget that this is a big beauty who grew up in the city.
And behind this is actually her persistent pulling Chen Jianbin who is so sleepy every night to discuss the scene, which is the meticulous treatment of the role.
In recent years, Jiang Qinqin's roles are all rich in layers and with a large inner span. She believes that only by doing her best to be dedicated to the role can she be a good actor worthy of the audience.
Regarding her infatuation, Chen Jianbin sighed: "If there is only one artist in our family, it must not be me, it must be my wife." ”
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The face will age, but the spirit will last forever
Speaking of the story of Jiang Qinqin and Chen Jianbin , we have to mention "Qiao's Courtyard".
In 2005, Chen Jianbin and Jiang Qinqin played the male and female protagonists of this drama. But in private, there are frequent conflicts between the two protagonists, and they often quarrel.
Because Chen Jianbin pondered the script for two months, he often went to the scene to tell the director to change the words, so that Jiang Qinqin memorized the words for one night, and all of them were invalidated the next day, which made Jiang Qinqin angry enough.
Once Jiang Qinqin wanted to eat egg tarts, and the assistant bought them and asked if she wanted to give them to Chen Jianbin , she said angrily: "I won't give it to him." ”
On the set, Chen Jianbin called Jiang Qinqin "Jiang Te outrageous", and Jiang Qinqin called Chen Jianbin "Chen is unreliable".
Although on the surface "not to deal with", in fact, Chen Jianbin unconsciously had a good impression of Jiang Qinqin.
Looking at Jiang Qinqin on the set, he said to the director: "That's it for fairies." ”
On the day of the finale, Chen Jianbin specially found Jiang Qinqin: "I heard that you are going to travel abroad, bring me a hat." The two of them had contact information.
After that, Chen Jianbin took full advantage of this and sent text messages to Jiang Qinqin from time to time: "I saw wheat today, and the wheat is growing very well." ”
After going back and forth, Jiang Qinqin found that Chen Jianbin is very good at discovering the beauty in life and is an interesting person.
"The good-looking skins are the same, and the interesting souls are one in a thousand. When people are surprised that Jiang Qinqin found Chen Jianbin who is so mismatched in appearance, this sentence is the best explanation.
Jiang Qinqin is a person who doesn't even care about her appearance, what can move her is understanding, interesting, talented, and a person of the same frequency who tastes the ups and downs together. And Chen Jianbin has all of these.
Their promise to get married is also very simple: "If we want to be together, I want it to be a fruitful love, are you the one who can give me such a life?"
Chen Jianbin replied: "I also hope to have such a life. ”
In this way, there was no marriage proposal, no deliberate saying I love you, only Chen Jianbin walked into Jiang Qinqin's house with a box, "From now on, we will live", this is the simplest and most sincere little luck that Jiang Qinqin has.
Friends said that Jiang Qinqin has changed after getting married, he has become smiling, and he is no longer an unsmiling ice beauty. Love and laughter represent happiness, and their love is hidden in the bits and pieces of life.
When he gave birth to his eldest son, Tiger, Chen Jianbin was more nervous than Jiang Qinqin. He was nervous a week in advance, calculating the time on the way from home to the hospital.
Jiang Qinqin was pushed out after giving birth, Chen Jianbin noticed that there was wind in the hospital corridor, and hurriedly put his hand on her face, and asked his buddy to take off his coat to block Qinqin's wind.
This scene made the surrounding doctors and nurses particularly moved.
In life, Jiang Qinqin takes care of Chen Jianbin more. She is willing to give, and she is also good at tolerating Chen Jianbin 's shortcomings, such as not being able to do housework.
But in terms of regulating the atmosphere and mood, Chen Jianbin is Jiang Qinqin's panacea. Chen Jianbin has written too many love poems to Jiang Qinqin, and many poems made in her name.
"Daxi aquatic life is ten thousand points of gold, and the good news is frequently reported to Jiang Qinqin. ”
"The night moon and cold stars pass through the Bashan entry, the autumn pond is full of grass and deep; ”
Jiang Qinqin is literary and emotional, and so is Chen Jianbin .
Just like Chen Jianbin read a poem to her: "Before language was invented, I would say I love you, and before time was invented, I knew it was 10,000 years." After saying that, the two hugged each other with tears in their eyes.
On a spiritual level, they have a lot of points of convergence.
In the variety show "Happiness Trio", the two sat in the car and saw a mosquito, Chen Jianbin started to say that the mosquito came from the mountain, and Jiang Qinqin answered: "Now I am separated from my relatives in the mountains." ”
In the cherry orchard, Jiang Qinqin said: "I'll pick you to sing." Chen Jianbin sang a little song.
When her career was in full swing, Jiang Qinqin chose to get married and have children, which was the sacrifice she made for her family, and Chen Jianbin was grateful for these sacrifices.
At the 2006 Golden Eagle Festival, Jiang Qinqin and Chen Jianbin both won awards, Chen Jianbin burst into tears and said to the pregnant Jiang Qinqin: "I think she is the greatest wife." ”
Over the years, we have seen Jiang Qinqin acting less, but as long as he has the opportunity, Chen Jianbin encourages his wife to take over the play: "She has already paid a lot, I encourage her to go, and I am at home." ”
Today, their marriage has lasted 18 years. On Valentine's Day this year, Jiang Qinqin said in an interview: "We deal with some things together, enjoy every day's life, comfort each other, support each other, such a marriage is in the rhythm of Valentine's Day every day." ”
The real match is not the appearance, it is the soul fit, it is mutual appreciation, and it is the feeling of feeling sorry for each other to support each other, so that the relationship can last forever.
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40+ learn to relax, the family is irreplaceable for each other
When he was young, Jiang Qinqin had a tendency of "perfectionism" in doing things, and everything would be tightened. But since having Chen Jianbin and the child, her tight strings began to slowly loosen.
Let's take the little thing of taking out the door and packing your luggage. Jiang Qinqin will consider all aspects, to pack food, clothing and first-aid medicine kits, etc., and will pack out two boxes full of things. And Chen Jianbin only brought a bag.
At this time, Chen Jianbin will persuade the busy Jiang Qinqin: "Relax, set off easily, what I hope most is that you can do what you are happy about." ”
Jiang Qinqin, who used to be personally involved in his eldest son's studies, took him to tutoring classes, learned calligraphy, swimming, English, and even was more nervous about Tiger's grades than himself.
Once when he came back from the exam, Jiang Qinqin looked at his son's bad face and asked if he didn't do well in the exam. As a result, the son said that he took the first place in the exam, but hoped that his mother would not ask about the grades, but whether he was happy on the day of school. Even if you don't do well this time, luck will accumulate for the next time.
Such a good attitude taught Jiang Qinqin a lesson. From her family, she slowly transformed herself, learned to let go, and began to worry less.
Later, after giving birth to a second child, she found that she had indeed become more calm. In the past, the scratches on the table and the pictures on the wall of the eldest son made Jiang Qinqin collapse, and he had to find a way to cover them.
But now, she takes everything her youngest son messes up as a mark of life, as evidence of a steaming life.
As her eldest son once said to her, "Everyone has an obstacle in their heart, and only by breaking through this barrier will your heart be free." ”
When the heart is relaxed and free, the road will become wider and wider.
Jiang Qinqin, who has relaxed after the age of 40, has devoted more energy to planning.
She has shot a lot of magazines and blockbusters, tried a variety of different styles, and no longer set limits, she is Jiang Qinqin with infinite possibilities.
She took out the drama skills at the bottom of the box, put on the costume, dressed up as a child, and performed Da Qingyi on the stage.
She continues to love the acting career. Whether it is the unloving Empress Nanku Mingyi in "The Legend of the Sea Shepherd", or the cool and upright criminal policeman Lin Yuhong in "Fog Tracking", Jiang Qinqin has performed the struggle and complexity in the role, and her role is wider and wider.
Jiang Qinqin, who is 40+, has cultivated to become his favorite appearance.
Of course, the family she cares about the most is still her solid fortress and irreplaceable for each other.
Jiang Qinqin is Chen Jianbin the muse and motivation, Chen Jianbin is Jiang Qinqin's support and comrade-in-arms, children are their weakness, and they are all children's armor.
But they give each other the space to make choices according to their hearts and achieve a better version of themselves.
This is the 48-year-old Jiang Qinqin, and there will be a better Jiang Qinqin in the future.
Chen Jianbin and his son gave her nutrients and strength, so that she was loved and knew how to love better. Lovers, love life, love movies, this is the proudest background of the actress.
As Jiang Qinqin said on the podium: "Before you love movies, please love life first, and before you love life, please love people first." ”
Resources:
"Luyu has an appointment"
"Super Access"
"Very Quiet Distance"
"Jiang Qinqin, Tough into Life"
Watching "Marriage and Family", every family can be happier.