Author: Wang Hongliang
Physical differences
Some people say that the age of 50 for many men or women is a "watershed" in life, or a hurdle.
People before the age of fifty, in general, are in good health. These people can eat, drink, sleep, and work, and there are no major fluctuations in various physical indicators, which is also normal.
After the age of 50, under normal circumstances, there are underlying diseases, and there will be other diseases, and the body is not as good as before. Unable to eat, drink, sleep, or work, all indicators of the body continue to develop in a bad way.
Is this true or false, and is there any truth? There are medical theories, and some people have studied them, and they are even more conclusive, and there is naturally a scientific basis.
Before the age of 50 and after the age of 50, there is a difference in people's bodies, but some are obvious and some are not.
As far as I know—
In fact, a person's physical condition depends entirely on genetics, as well as acquired maintenance, continuous exercise, etc., in order to have a good body. That's what matters, and people have to pay attention to that.
Give a will
Jiang Fangfei is in her fifties this year, and she will be sixty years old the year after tomorrow, and she is not yet sixty years old, and her health is not as good as before, and she often goes to the hospital for hospitalization. Her body, alas!
Last summer, Jiang Fangfei got the new crown pneumonia and almost died.
Jiang Fangfei stayed in the hospital for a month, cured her symptoms, returned home, and immediately called a girl, a boy and two children, as well as her uncle, to her, and said with tears in her eyes: "As for the current situation: the daughter is married and has a child, and the son is not married. Combined with my current physical condition, through thinking about it for a long time, it is necessary to explain to you some things after death, and you must keep them in mind and never forget! First, after I die, I will either bury my ashes in the cemetery, or scatter my ashes on the top of the mountain, etc., and you will listen to them; second, after I die, I will never be buried with your father, he has broken my heart; third, since we hated each other in life, we did not sleep in the same bed in life, and there is no need to be in the same cave when we died; fourth, I hate him to the core. This should be my will to you, and I must keep it in my heart. ”
At that time, Jiang Fangfei's daughter, Liu Zhijiao, was crying so much that she couldn't stop crying, and she nodded frequently in agreement.
Jiang Fangfei's son, Liu Zhiao, looked out the window into the distance with resolute eyes, his eyes were full of tears. Liu Zhiao muttered: "Mom, you are our mother, don't worry, we will listen to you, your future affairs, and resolutely do what you say." In the past, my dad did too many evils and sins a lot, you hated my dad, and my sister and I hated him even more!"
Liu Zhijiao's husband, Hu Gongcheng, also shed tears of sympathy.
After that, such a family only shed tears, and no one said a word. The living room of the house is quiet, except for the quartz clock hanging on the wall, which makes a tireless "tick-tock" sound.
It was half past eight o'clock in the evening, and the night was completely dark, and none of these people, who cared about grief, turned on the lights in the room.
After about half an hour, Hu Gongcheng turned on the light in the living room, and then went to the bathroom to wash his face.
Hu Gongcheng walked from the bathroom to the living room and said to the big guy: "Family, it's nine o'clock at night, it's so late, we should eat." Anyway, the rice still has to be eaten. I heard that a restaurant called Xiaojiayuan was opened on Huasheng Road, which has the characteristics of living alone, the flavor is unique, the food is very delicious, the price is also very reasonable, and it feels like home. I'll settle the bill tonight, now let's eat. People are iron, rice is steel, and if you don't eat a meal, you will be hungry. Do you have to go on with life?"
Liu Zhijiao and Liu Zhiao wiped the tears on their faces, looked at Jiang Fangfei with their eyes, and said in unison: "Mom, everything is a matter of things, hate is hate, go, eat, no matter what, the meal still has to be eaten." ”
So, Jiang Fangfei, Liu Zhijiao and Liu Zhiao went to the two bathrooms respectively, washed their faces, and then walked out of the house, walked together, and went to the Xiaojiayuan restaurant to eat.
The night of the county seat in summer is a different scenery. Citizens wear all kinds of clothes, talking and laughing on the wide road of the county, looking smiling, relaxed and natural, outlining a harmonious picture.
Jiang Fangfei, Liu Zhijiao, Liu Zhiao, and Hu Gongcheng walked on the streets of the county, and had no time to patronize these attractive scenery, so they walked straight on the way to the hotel. These people, as they walked, thought about their hearts and did not say a word.
Betrayal of the family
For quite a few years, Jiang Fangfei was a rural girl, and when she was twenty years old, she applied for a job as a cashier in a hotel in the county seat.
At that time, the son of the owner of this hotel, Liu Jianqiang, 25 years old, fell in love with the handsome Jiang Fangfei, so he openly launched a strong offensive against her.
At the same time, Liu's strong parents are also very satisfied with Jiang Fangfei's appearance and hope that she will become the daughter-in-law of the Liu family in the future.
At that time, Jiang Fangfei came from the countryside and had never seen the world, she was simple and kind, and she was a girl who was not deeply involved in the world. He was defenseless and unwary of Liu Jianqiang's strong pursuit, and was quickly conquered.
In those years, she was bewitched by Liu Jianqiang's suave and suave appearance, as well as the appearance of Yushu Linfeng, as well as millions of family properties and several houses in the county.
Under Liu Jianqiang's continuous attack, these two people quickly fell in love.
Men and women in love, sleeping in love, always feel that time flies quickly.
As the saying goes: an ugly daughter-in-law always has to see her in-laws.
Bad uncle, also to see the future father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Similarly, Liu Jianqiang also went to Jiang Fangfei's house to see his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Half a year later, Jiang Fangfei mustered up the courage to bring Liu Jianqiang back to his home in the countryside.
Jiang Fangfei's mother, Chouni, was impressed by Liu's strong and handsome appearance and the family's large amount of money. Without saying a word, she agreed to the marriage of Jiang Fangfei and Liu Jianqiang.
Jiang Fangfei's father, Jiang Zhongyu, is skeptical of Liu Jianqiang. He was afraid that Liu Jianqiang was a child of a rich family, unruly, suave, and unfocused in love, pushing his daughter into a helpless situation.
Jiang Zhongyu told Chouni about the worries and worries in his heart without reservation, and Chouni frowned and said, "The child is her father, you said it late, Jiang Fangfei is pregnant." The raw rice has been cooked and cooked, and the next step is to choose to marry these two young people. I think Liu Jianqiang is a good person, maybe your worry is a kind of superfluous. Tell me yourself, after all these years, your worries and worries were not superfluous?"
Jiang Zhongyu turned his back to Chouni, smoked a cigarette, and said disdainfully: "I hope my worries and worries are a kind of superfluous, and I wish these two young people will always be united, grow old, and live this life in harmony." This is also the wish of our old couple. ”
In the winter of that year, Jiang Fangfei officially married Liu Jianqiang.
In the first years, Liu Jianqiang was still very good to Jiang Fangfei.
Jiang Fangfei followed Liu Jianqiang and gave birth to a daughter Liu Zhijiao and a son Liu Zhiao respectively.
When Liu Zhiao was five years old, Liu Jianqiang's parents died of illness within a year.
Liu Jianqiang officially took over Liu's Hotel, as well as other aspects of business.
Since then, his life has changed qualitatively, and his life has changed a lot.
Liu Jianqiang always uses busy work as an excuse, often does not return home at night, many times, for ten days and half a month, Jiang Fangfei and her children don't want to see him. Is he really busy, or is he pretending to be busy, or has he betrayed his family? Jiang Fangfei put a big question mark in her heart.
One night, Jiang Fangfei took her children to the door of Liu Jianqiang's office, and broke in without knocking.
Jiang Fangfei and her children were confused by the scene at that time: Liu Jianqiang was flirting with the female secretary at the desk and having an affair.
Jiang Fangfei said loudly: "Liu Jianqiang, you talk about being busy all day long, talking about being busy all day long, are you busy hugging, kissing, teasing, and sleeping with the female secretary every day? You scumbag! I was so blind and dizzy at the beginning, I misjudged you and mistook you for a good person! I think you are a bastard! What do you say we should do now?"
Liu Jianqiang motioned to the female secretary to leave quickly. The female secretary wore high heels, walked with a proud step, and walked away with her eyebrows raised.
Then, he said with a hippie smile: "Since the matter has come to this, I won't explain and quibble too much, let's divorce, the house you and your children live in belongs to you, and I choose to leave the house." Every month, I will give you 5,000 yuan for the maintenance of your children. ”
In this way, Liu Jianqiang and Jiang Fangfei went to the county civil affairs bureau and went through the divorce procedures.
Jiang Fangfei took her two minor children and lived together.
That year, Jiang Fangfei was thirty-five years old, her daughter was fourteen, and her son was only ten years old.
Asking for help was fruitless
Jiang Fangfei is a woman and lives with two children, which is not easy.
One winter, Jiang Fangfei's two children had a high fever at the same time and were admitted to the hospital, and she couldn't be busy alone. Jiang Fangfei called Liu Jianqiang for help, and Liu Jianqiang said very meanly: "Jiang Fangfei, I remember that every month I called you the living expenses of my two children in a timely manner according to the agreement, why are you still calling me? You must know that we are divorced people." Do you still want to break the thread? Don't think about it!" Jiang Fangfei hung up the phone and shed tears, full of hatred for Liu Jianqiang.
Liu Zhijiao got married, Liu Zhiao was admitted to university, and they all went to Liu Jianqiang to ask for money, Liu Jianqiang didn't give a penny, and said some ugly things that were quite sarcastic, Jiang Fangfei, Liu Zhijiao, and Liu Zhiao were full of hatred for Liu Jianqiang.
One spring, Liu Jianqiang had a heart attack and called, hoping that Liu Zhijiao and Liu Zhiao would go to the hospital to accompany him. The two children also responded in a callous manner, and Liu Jianqiang was angry and vowed never to contact his children again.
It seems that Liu Jianqiang and Jiang Fangfei are husband and wife, Liu Jianqiang and Liu Zhijiao, Liu Zhiao, father and son, have evolved into enemies, and they have a deep hatred, and they hate each other to the core, which is unforgivable!
The work was completed on March 26, 2024