When a girl meets someone she likes, she always can't help but want to get closer, but she doesn't know how to get closer, and she wants to get his love and favor very much.
If this boy has a crush object, he wants to grab it, snatch him away from another girl, and turn him into his own object.
Fighting and grabbing has become an important way for girls to get their beloved men, and they feel that they must work hard to get their likes, strive to get his love, and they want to rob them, and if they don't rob, they can't get them.
But in fact, girls who think this way are actually wrong, because real love is not won for, let alone robbed, but attracted to each other.
01. Love is not earned
Once you have the idea of fighting for a boy, then you have already lost.
But if you need to fight for it to be able to get it, it means that this love does not actually belong to you, maybe the other party can pretend that he also likes you at first, but what is pretended is pretend, and it will never be true.
In order to win a man's affection, many girls do a lot of funny things, such as brushing their presence in front of each other, frequently talking to each other awkwardly, or asking each other out to play.
It's not that this can't be done, but if you do this, you won't actually get the other party's like, because if a person doesn't like you, he doesn't like you, even if you go to brush up with him every day, you won't get his like.
True love doesn't need you to work hard to get it, but it happens naturally and doesn't require any effort on your part.
02. Love is not snatched
Some girls, obviously the other party already has a partner, or has someone they like in their hearts, but they still have to rob that girl, and they even think that the man who has an object is more attractive, which means that he is not unwanted.
It's too stupid for a girl to think like this, which is equivalent to putting herself in the role of a third party and intervening in other people's emotions.
If a man is not pryed by you, then you will be very hurt, but if a man is pry by you, it means that he is a person who is irresponsible for his feelings, he obviously has a partner, but he still chooses to be with you, so he abandons his ex, such a man is very scummy.
A very scumbag man, he won't meet you, and suddenly the prodigal son will not change his money, how he treats his ex, and how he treats you, this is an eternal truth.
Trust me, you don't need to grab love.
03. Love is attracted
True love must be attracted to each other, it is the charm of the two people who attract each other, you don't need to do anything, sometimes it may just look at each other, sometimes it may be because of some characteristics in the other person, and then you like each other.
What kind of intimacy lasts the most? That's what attracts each other.
You are attracted to certain qualities in him, and he is attracted to certain qualities in you, and you belong to each other to attract each other to each other, and you don't have to work hard to get to each other.
It's two people who naturally walk to each other's side and then like each other.
This kind of love can be called true love, when you meet, you will naturally know each other, love each other, stay by each other's side, and accompany each other.
So when you meet someone you like, you just need to be yourself, show your truest appearance to the other party, and let the other party see the advantages and charming places in you.
If he likes you, he will be attracted to you and will like you. If he is indifferent, it means that there is no fate between men and women between you, then there is no need to force it, remember not to fight for it, not to rob it, because what you have won will be lost one day.
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Illustration of the article|Stills from "Daylight".