The child was questioned by the shopkeeper for stealing, but the parents angrily scolded the shopkeeper, netizens: Who has no common sense

Recently, a supermarket owner in Guangxi shared a video in which the scene is thought-provoking. The video was filmed in a small supermarket, and a woman in a down jacket was very excited, screaming and shouting, looking unforgiving.

It turned out that the boy was caught stealing something in the supermarket and was discovered by the boss, and when the evidence was conclusive, the boss called the child's parents, hoping to deal with the matter, mainly because he wanted the parents to educate the child so that this would not happen again.

However, when the child's mother arrived at the scene, her reaction surprised the shopkeeper! Not only did she not apologize for compensation, but she became emotional, accusing the boss of being unfair and lacking common sense, as if she was a victim of this dispute. She said eloquently: "Children who kill people are not sentenced to death, you don't understand any common sense." ”

The child stole something, and the parents were so rampant and spoke wildly, which made the shopkeeper very angry and chose to call the police. However, when the police arrived at the scene, they found that the thief was a minor. It was only a verbal education, and then the child returned to school to continue the lesson.

The supermarket owner also felt very helpless about this, and felt that this way of dealing with it did not seem to have any substantive effect. No wonder the child's parents can be so fearless, this is the result she has long expected.

When releasing a video exposing the incident, the supermarket owner said that he had set up a warning sign in the store with the warning slogan "Steal one and pay ten", but this was not to really punish customers, but to warn them not to commit illegal acts. However, in retrospect, such warning signs do not seem to be working as they should.

This parent's high-minded talk really opened the eyes of netizens, and let us also see what it means to be strong and reasonable, and what it means to be "the upper beam is not correct and the lower beam is crooked".

Children are of course ignorant, they are like a blank sheet of paper, waiting for parents and society to paint a colorful world for them. However, we should not ignore the growth process of our children just because they are young, let alone let them go wrong because of their ignorance. Parents, as the guide on the road of children's growth, their responsibility is self-evident.

Parents' words and deeds will undoubtedly become the object of imitation by children. As the ancients said: "Words and deeds, one example is better than a thousand words." "The family environment plays a crucial role in shaping a child's character. If parents lack a clear understanding of right and wrong, and turn a blind eye to their children's wrong behaviors, then children may gradually become willful and arrogant in this environment, and become "bear children" that everyone avoids.

The cultivation of parents is directly related to the upbringing of children. Every word and deed of parents is a textbook for children's growth. A parent who knows how to respect others, is good at communicating with others, and has good moral character can raise children who also have these qualities. That's why we emphasize the importance of "family style" education. A good family style can not only make children take fewer detours on the road to growth, but also lay a solid foundation for their future.

When a child makes a mistake, the first thing parents should do is not to rush to shake the pot or justify, but to take responsibility and face the problem bravely. Children's behavior is often influenced by family education and parents, therefore, as parents, it is our responsibility to correct our children's wrong behaviors in a timely manner and guide them to the right path.

Children can be "bears", but parents must not be "bears". Behind every bear child, there is a lack of parental education. We cannot turn a blind eye to a child's behavior because of his young age, let alone be indifferent or angry when others point out problems. This kind of evasion and shirking of responsibility will only make children more unscrupulous and lack restraint and understanding of their own behavior.

As parents, we should be clear about the concept that correct guidance and education are indispensable on the road of children's growth. We can't just use "he's still a child" as an excuse to let the child's wrong behavior go. On the contrary, we should let children recognize the mistakes of their own behavior, learn to take responsibility and correct their mistakes through correct education and guidance.