Parents blocked classmates who bullied their children at the school gate and taught their children to fight back, and netizens expressed their support

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There has always been a debate on the Internet: if a child is beaten, should he be beaten back?

Some people feel that they should not fight, and it is not advisable to counter violence with violence.

There are also people who feel that to fight back, the child cannot just be bullied.

Recently, there have been some hot search news that have aroused heated discussions among netizens, and the news content is: Parents block the road at the school gate and bully their children's classmates, and teach their children on the spot that they must fight back next time.

The mother in the video is angry after discovering that her child is often bullied by a classmate.

She blocked her classmates who were bullying her children at the school gate, and then told the children: speak up, don't be afraid.

"The next time he dares to hit you again, you can hit him back, press him to the ground and beat him, it doesn't matter if you hit S. ”

At the beginning of the video, the mother mentioned that the child was not beaten once or twice, but seven or eight times.

The mother's approach in the video sparked heated discussions among netizens.

Some netizens think: support parents, and let him know the consequences if he dares to fight.

There are also people who feel that the consequences of such an education are terrible.

So what should children do when they are bullied?

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"If my child is beaten, I will teach him to fight back!"

In fact, it can be seen from the comments that most parents feel that their children should be bullied back.

"I also teach that as long as I am right, I can't let the wicked do evil. ”

"I told my child last night, anyone who bullies you will give me back, and I must tell my parents when I come back. ”

"I told my daughter that she must fight back when she is beaten, because if she doesn't fight back, it will only encourage the bully to be more arrogant. ”

"I've always taught my children to resist and not to bully others. ”

Professor Li Meijin also told about what happened to her granddaughter in the show: her granddaughter was picked up and thrown by a little boy in kindergarten, her face hit the stool and swollen.

She told her granddaughter: The next time you encounter this situation, he picks you up and you can't break free, then you grab her ears with both hands, drag on both sides, and put you down as soon as he hurts.

There may still be some people who think that fighting back like this is countering violence with violence.

But if you think about it carefully, whether it is Professor Li Meijin or the mother above, their "fight back" is not to support violence with violence, but to teach children how to protect themselves from being bullied.

Every parent should tell their children not to bully others and teach them to defend themselves.

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Encounter school bullying

What if we can protect our children?

The recent news of school bullying has deeply pierced the hearts of parents.

So how can parents get their children into school well?

First of all, children must be taught to protect themselves.

If the child is bullied, especially if he is bullied many times, the pregnant mother supports the fight back.

Blind tolerance will only condone the evil of the bully.

When it comes to school bullying, if others treat you, you should do to others.

When you encounter bullying, you have to fight back and tell the other person that you are not easy to mess with.

Of course, if there is a conflict with a child with a disparity in strength, you should also tell the child to be flexible, not to be tough, and to run to a crowded place for help in time.

Or go directly to the teacher to deal with it, this is not running away, this is protecting yourself.

Second, pay attention to your child's emotions and be your child's supporter.

Some time ago, a 15-year-old boy jumped off a building in despair after being bullied many times and asking his parents for help to no avail.

He asked his parents for help, and the day before he jumped off the building, he sent his mother a WeChat message, saying that he was forced to kneel down and call his grandfather at school.

But at that time, the parents only thought it was a joke between their children.

Unexpectedly, the next day, tragedy happened.

Every parent should maintain good communication with their children and pay attention to their children's emotions after school.

Sometimes a child is reluctant to go to school, or is in a bad mood when he comes home, and he doesn't like to talk about it, which can be a distress signal for the child.

Don't murder children.

Maintain good communication with your child at all times and ask carefully about your child's progress at school.

Encourage children to express their attitudes boldly in words, express their thoughts and needs, and let them know that their parents will always stand behind them and be their supporters.

In this way, the child can ask his parents for help in time when they encounter something.

The last thing the pregnant mother wants to say is: please teach your child the ability to protect herself, and at the same time educate her child never to hurt others.

I sincerely hope that every child can grow up healthy and safe!