Learn to answer with high emotional intelligence and make people like you immediately. It's really learned

Me: "You know what? Learn to answer with high emotional intelligence and make people like you immediately." ”

Friend: "Really, tell me how to do it!"

Me: "First of all, you have to learn to listen, to really listen to the other person, not just wait for you to speak. ”

Friend: "Oh, that sounds pretty simple. ”

Me: "But actually, a lot of people are not good at listening. They are always in a hurry to express their thoughts and ignore each other's feelings. ”

Friend: "So what should I do?"

Me: "Try to lead the conversation with open-ended questions, such as 'What do you think?' or 'What do you think?' to stimulate more conversations. ”

Friend: "yes, I see. ”

Me: "It's also important to learn to express empathy. When the other person shares their distress or joy, try to understand their feelings and offer support and encouragement. ”

Friend: "It makes people feel understood, right?"

Me: "That's right. Also, learn to control your emotions and don't let negative emotions get in the way of the conversation. ”

Friend: "Sometimes it's really hard to do. ”

Me: "Yes, but it takes practice. Most importantly, be sincere and kind and approach every communication. ”

Friend: "Thank you for the advice, I'll try to do it." ”

Me: "You're welcome. Trust me, when you learn these skills, you will find that communication between people becomes easier and more enjoyable. ”