(I have joined the whole network to defend my rights, it is not easy for cancer patients to be original, please do not plagiarize and carry, thank you!)
I just heard that my husband's brother-in-law's eldest brother passed away due to lung cancer, spent hundreds of thousands, tried all kinds of treatments, and never left the hospital from diagnosis to death, radiotherapy, chemotherapy, and even blood replacement twice.
My father-in-law, who also had lung cancer, gave up treatment and went home for conservative treatment, and lived for ten months.
But he didn't suffer, he didn't suffer much, the doctor said that he would not live for three months without treatment, his children were all around him, he tried to satisfy him with whatever he wanted to eat, whatever he wanted, and he tried to satisfy him, but he couldn't eat in the last few days, and the rest basically didn't suffer much from the pain, and lived for ten months.
This choice cannot be said which is right and which is wrong.
Those who chose treatment felt that they had done their best and had no regrets.
It is not a good thing for him to give up treatment, hide his illness, let him suffer less, not know that he is cancer, and spend his last days without fear.
A friend of mine's father had pancreatic cancer and went to Beijing for treatment, spending hundreds of thousands of dollars before and after, and lived for five months.
My friend's husband is also in the advanced stage of pancreatic cancer, diagnosed a month earlier than me, and the hospital didn't treat him, but he saw it openly, he should eat, drink, and practice Tai Chi Baduanjin if he has nothing to do, and he is still fine.
Therefore, for cancer, whether it is cured or not, it is really not good to say whether it is right or wrong.
The cancer patients I have seen with a good quality of life have a common characteristic, they are open-minded, open-minded, and not intimidated by the word cancer.
To be honest, the constant death of relatives and friends due to cancer has had a great impact on my mind, and I have been reflecting on how I should face it and whether my choice is right or wrong.
I can face any result calmly, my idea is to face positively, live positively, do not dwell on the rights and wrongs of the past, do not look forward to the future too much, live every day in the present, do not let the people who are good to me disappoint, and do not let the people who treat me well succeed.
It doesn't matter what kind of illness it is, how I should live or how I live, have a good attitude, face it positively, and the results are generally good.
No matter what cancer is, it is just one of many diseases, and if people eat whole grains, who can not get sick.
There are unpredictable circumstances in the sky, and people have good and bad luck.
My attitude is: since this disease has come to me, it is useless to complain, it is useless to be afraid, and it is the right attitude to accept it and face it.
When it comes to cancer, mindset is the best medicine!