In a closed environment, the life of inmates is relatively depressing, and they always look forward to meeting with their families, calling their relatives, and receiving letters from their families. But when it comes to talking to my loved ones, I'm always a little scared.
I am not afraid of 10,000, I am afraid that in case, the inmates who are on the high wall cannot deal with the things outside the high wall, and if the family brings some bad news, it is very scary and even frightening for them.
If a loved one blames the inmate too much during the meeting or on the phone, it will make him feel great pressure and affect his reform. At this point, blame cannot help them, and when communicating with inmates, it is necessary to give priority to encouragement to reduce their psychological pressure and be more conducive to reform.
Many inmates are afraid that their families will leave them behind. It is not uncommon for inmates in prisons to receive divorce agreements from their spouses, but they do exist. Even if it doesn't happen to them, inmates will inevitably worry about themselves when they see the marriage crisis of Tongchang.
In this regard, what the family can do is to keep in touch with them and tell him with actions that their loved ones are always there. It is best not to be absent from the monthly on-site meeting, and the family calls made inside should also be answered in a timely manner.
It is more appropriate to write to him more often, usually once a week. If it is inconvenient to go to the post office, you can write letters and send photos online in the family mail applet to keep the correspondence exchanged, so that he can know that his relatives have not abandoned him, and he can be reformed with peace of mind inside.
There are unpredictable circumstances in the sky, and people have good and bad luck. And the most feared news from the family members of the inmates is nothing more than the change in the family.
If the family's financial situation is suddenly difficult, even if he tells the inmate, he will not be able to give any help. If a loved one suddenly becomes seriously ill, the inmates have no way to take care of them immediately, and they can only blame themselves infinitely.
If there is a major change in the family, the family can first explain the situation to the prison police, and the police will choose the best way to deal with it and provide necessary assistance according to the inmate's state.
Finally, I hope that family members and friends will not encounter such a thing, and I hope that the inmates can return safely and that everything is fine at home.