The woman was widowed for her late husband for 10 years, but when she met true love and wanted to remarry, she was blocked by her in-laws, and even her 18-year-old son did not understand her.
This incident happened in Hunan in 2018, the woman's name is Li Xiaoli, 43-year-old she has been very distressed recently, the days of widowhood are very difficult, she is over half a hundred years old, she finally met a true love, but she was opposed by the whole world and did not let them be together.
What's even more unbelievable is that Li Xiaoli quickly became pregnant with the child of her true love and was willing to give birth to children for him at the age of 43. How did Li Xiaoli's original husband die?
Back in 2008, Li Xiaoli originally had a happy family, her husband Lao Xu was very capable, and her 8-year-old son Xu Yang was well-behaved and sensible. It's a pity that an accident caused Lao Xu to die of a serious illness, leaving the mother and son alone.
At this time, the father-in-law and mother-in-law stood up, and they seriously discussed the future plan with Li Xiaoli, saying that daughter-in-law, you are still young, if you want to remarry, we will not stop you, but the grandson has to be left to our Xu family.
The only son in the family died, and the in-laws' approach is also understandable, and 8-year-old Xu Yang is the last bloodline of the Xu family. Li Xiaoli is also a martyr, she immediately made a statement, bluntly saying that she would not marry anyone else, and would wholeheartedly bring up her son Xu Yang and be a good mother.
When the in-laws heard their daughter-in-law's statement, they were very relieved in their hearts, hugged her and cried for a while, saying that in the future, you will be the daughter of our old couple, and we will always be a family. During Li Xiaoli's 10 years of widowhood, although she raised her son alone, her in-laws often visited her home and gave a lot of financial subsidies, which can be regarded as giving Li Xiaoli a little comfort.
Li Xiaoli is very grateful to her in-laws, but she is a little distant from them from the bottom of her heart, after all, she really has no blood relationship with the two. In the past 10 years, many people have introduced Li Xiaoli to partners, and even single men have taken the initiative to pursue her. Li Xiaoli decisively refused, she thought that since she had made a promise in front of her in-laws, she must keep this promise.
It wasn't until her son Xu Yang became an adult that Li Xiaoli gradually changed her mind. At this time, he met a man, which brought a trace of comfort to her heart, which had been dry for a long time.
The woman was widowed for her late husband for 10 years, and Li Xiaoli, who originally planned to never marry again, changed her mentality after her son Xu Yang was 18 years old.
Her son went to college and was away from home all the year round, and Li Xiaoli was lonely, so she often went out for a walk with a tour group, and her fate with the man Zeng Qiang began.
Zeng Qiang is a mature man, at 50 years old, he is 7 years older than Li Xiaoli. The fate of the two is that they often report to the same tour group together, and the two of them are familiar with each other. After some communication, the two found that they were both hard-working people. Zeng Qiang is a lonely man who lives a superficial marriage with his wife for the sake of his children, and Li Xiaoli is a strong woman who has been widowed for 10 years for her late husband.
It is no wonder that the two often travel alone, and the two who have a common mood chat very closely, Zeng Qiang also felt very sorry for Li Xiaoli, and began to take the initiative to care and love her. Li Xiaoli, who has been widowed for 10 years, can withstand this kind of offensive, after the trip, the two confirmed their relationship, and she felt that she had met the true destiny of the second half of her life.
The dry wood melted at the touch of a fire, and Li Xiaoli soon became pregnant with Zeng Qiang's child. After the child was 3 months old, Li Xiaoli had a new love, and it also reached the ears of her in-laws. The in-laws were not happy, and they came to Li Xiaoli to ask for an explanation: You swore that you would not marry for life in order to take care of your grandson. It's only been 10 years now, why has it changed?
Li Xiaoli was also questioned by her in-laws, which made her very annoyed, and she no longer showed mercy, shouting that I have been widowed for 10 years, and your grandson is also an adult, is this not enough? If I marry into your family, I have to be restrained by you for the rest of my life? I also want to have a second half of my life to rely on!
Seeing that the words were not speculative, my mother-in-law didn't bother to argue, and released a cruel sentence: We can't stop you if you want to marry, leave my family's 5 houses before you get married!
The woman was widowed for 10 years and finally met true love, and she was pregnant for 3 months.
At this time, my parents-in-law were not happy, and bluntly said that if you want to get married, you will spit out my family's 5 houses!
It turned out that in 2008, before Li Xiaoli's husband died, the Xu family was just in time for the demolition and was compensated for 5 houses. Lao Xu's family has a son and a daughter, because his daughter Xu Qing has been married, all 5 houses were given to Li Xiaoli's husband Lao Xu, but unfortunately Lao Xu died of illness not long after.
The parents-in-law wanted to get back 5 properties, but at this time, Li Xiaoli's approach made them change their decision. Li Xiaoli said that she would not remarry, and took her eldest son Xu Yang as a widow for her husband. In order to subsidize her daughter-in-law and grandson, her in-laws continued to leave 5 houses to the two, and they could earn 10,000 yuan per month just by collecting rent.
Li Xiaoli has been widowed for her husband for 10 years, and her in-laws have never mentioned the matter of returning to the house. It wasn't until they heard that their daughter-in-law Li Xiaoli had a new love and was 3 months pregnant, that their in-laws began to panic. They were worried that their daughter-in-law would take away 5 houses and marry another man, so they intervened to stop them. If you want to get married, you can leave 5 houses.
On the other hand, the mother-in-law wants to go back to the house, because she wants to leave a few sets for her daughter Xu Qing. After all, her son died early, and her daughter-in-law lived alone with her grandson, and her daughter Xu Qing relied on her daughter to support her in her later years. Li Xiaoli said that if she wants to marry, others can't take care of her, and the 5 houses will not be returned, and she wants to keep them all for her son.
But what Li Xiaoli didn't expect was that even her son Xu Yang didn't agree to her remarriage, which made her feel cold for a while. Immediately, Li Xiaoli thought that her father-in-law and mother-in-law instigated her behind her back. Li Xiaoli immediately said, if you want to stop me again, we will no longer be mother and son! Xu Yang was frightened by his mother's behavior, so he contacted his mother's new love, Zeng Qiang.
Unexpectedly, Zeng Qiang also had opinions on Li Xiaoli's approach, and he said that he didn't want Li Xiaoli to have children for himself. The implication is that it's okay to live together, and it's okay to have children. Li Xiaoli was isolated and helpless, so she could only temporarily put aside the idea of having children.
The parties found a community mediator for the dispute over the 5 houses. The mother-in-law bluntly said that her daughter-in-law was a liar, and she wanted to defraud her own 5 houses. The mediator investigated in many ways and found that the five houses were demolished houses, and the property rights belonged to the collective in the village, which meant that even if Li Xiaoli wanted to take them, she had no right to sell the houses.
The ownership of the 5 houses is still decided by the in-laws. This made the old couple breathe a sigh of relief, saying that the house would take out two sets and give them to their daughter Xu Qing, and the remaining three sets would be left to their grandson Xu Yang, as for their daughter-in-law Li Xiaoli, they could let her go and pursue happiness. Do you think this result is reasonable?